There’s a saying among women (white girls in particular) when referring to dating, fucking, or hooking up with black dudes.
“Once you go black, you don’t go back!”
Basically, what this means is that once a woman has a sexual experience with a black male, she won’t be interested in going back to dating white guys or any other race of male on account of the wild and crazy sexcapade she had with a brother.
I’m not a white girl so I can’t speak to whether or not this is true. However, I have a saying to piggy back off of that one that rings true in this regard:
“Once you go black, you CAN’T go back.”
Women are extremely influenced by perceived social pressure whether they admit it or not. All of their decisions from what they wear to where they work to the cars they drive, in their minds, are heavily scrutinized by just about everyone they know.
Of course, this isn’t really the case. Sure, a friend of hers might comment on her new shoes or the fact that she needs to find a new job or that her boyfriend is a loser but after that 45 second conversation her friend isn’t thinking about her anymore. She’s thinking about herself. The problem is women don’t realize this. They’re under the impression that everyone around them, men and women alike, are constantly judging everything they do all the time as though they have nothing else to do other than watch and talk about her and only her.
This speaks to the extreme solipsism of the female species. More importantly, it’s the reason that when they mess with black guys a lot of them feel like they can’t date white guys anymore. In her mind if she’s seen with a brother, she knows she’s probably ‘off limits’.
So why are white girls ‘off limits’ once she messes with black guys?
Simple. Because white men show them and tell them that once they’re marked as a ‘mudshark’ she is then considered undateable, unfuckable, unmarryable, etc. White men would never admit this out loud or in a group but black men are a threat to them in terms of SMV. Yes, white guys are at the top of the sexual market food chain (meaning all things being equal white girls prefer white men), but conventional wisdom in their circles is that man for man black men are physically superior, have more game, and are much better between the sheets than they are.
Whether or not this is true doesn’t matter. The fact is that mainstream media as black males as static alphas who generate tingles with every action. Then you factor interracial porn into the mix where every black male actor has a far above average penis size which further perpetuates the ‘big black cock’ myth/fetish it’s no wonder white dudes stay away from white girls who’ve come to the dark side even once in their lives.
So rather than admitting the truth about their sexual market options, white girls use the word ‘don’t’ in place of ‘can’t’ to give themselves and the world the impression that they’d go back to dating white guys if they wanted to knowing they probably couldn’t if word got out about her proclivities to commingle with brothers.
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