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How to flirt with a SHY GIRL & get her to open up

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This is how to approach a shy girl! Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Lots of men have trouble with shy girls. International Dating Coach Matt Artisan will finally show you how to approach SHY GIRLS! You know, not every gorgeous girl is outgoing and extroverted. Some of them are shy. So in this video, we'll show you how to break her shy barrier and get her to open up. Matt reveals the BEST WAY to approach a shy girl. This task seems daunting for some guys but we'll show you how. He'll reveal the secrets to connecting to shy girls using a modified approach. He'll also explain how important it is to make her feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE around you. How to properly MATCH HER ENERGY. And how to TURN HER ON even when she's the SHY TYPE. Matt demonstrates: ► How to spot and identify the shy girls. Just because she's acting that way doesn't mean she's not into you! ► The proper escalation techniques to match her energy. ► Techniques to make her feel safe and comfortable around you. So you'll GAIN HER TRUST faster. ► The BEST WAY to make your move and TURN HER ON after the approach! Take things to the next level. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men all over the world. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Check out the bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your Free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
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The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
What was your experience with shy girls?? Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
Dedh Shana (7 months ago)
I want to know what to do in case there are 2 sisters who are always around each other, one of who is smiling and inviting you. I even tried to talk to both casually but just cannot approach the one alone and I am worried to not seem like snubbing away the other sister.
Player One (1 year ago)
How to get a girl that is not instead in you
Dylan Wieber (1 day ago)
Yay to the penis festival
Ali Qazilbash (2 days ago)
Mother of shyness, wants you to decide your baby name before the first date...
Crusal (13 days ago)
3:20 shy girl in a club ;)
My girl, she’s very shy but she flirts often
Altin Rama (1 month ago)
I am i a relationship but my girlfriend is really shy
Altin Rama (1 month ago)
+The Attractive Man yeah kinda
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Did this video help you out?
Samuel Gregory (1 month ago)
So I'm shy and the girl I like is shy ,we both look at each other constantly and can maintain eye contact for about 10sec max we give each other smiles from time to time and if I'm sat with her she'l gently brush my leg or put her foot on mine ,one does she like me? And what do I do next ?,was planning on giving her a note with my number on and not say a thing but any ideas?
Paws Pause (1 month ago)
I think my crush is the shy type because she gave me her number texted me then nothing. but when we meet in irl she gilgles plays with her hair and flirts with me so I think she is shy.
Apricot Sunset (1 month ago)
Um why is this in my recommended. I’m a shy girl, YouTube knows me too well 😐
Too Sweet Balor (1 month ago)
I’m dating a girl who is Shy
Someone Werid. (1 month ago)
I'm a girl...why is this in my recommendations?!
Noah Fields (1 month ago)
Ik this girl likes me for a fact and i like her too but shes shy af and its hard to keep a conversation going with her..
TUSHAR ! (1 month ago)
I am in Class 11th and I am love with a shy girl ! She is interested in studies rather than any boy
TUSHAR ! (1 month ago)
+Bloody Mary India
Bloody Mary (1 month ago)
TUSHAR ! what country
Ryan d Lion (1 month ago)
I don't like your style of how you do videos.
RAYAN Fortnite Gaming (1 month ago)
666k subs
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Yes 😎 Thanks for the support!
Jacob Cutrer (1 month ago)
"what do you like to do for fun?"..."shopping" lol
Gaming Universe (2 months ago)
Thank you It works and now she is my girlfriend!!!!!!!
I guess aproaching womans at street may work in safe countries in Europe and rich parts in USA, but in Brazil as well as other dangerous places aproaching woman in street is seen as a life or death sitaution for a lot of girls.
algol291 (2 months ago)
Jaime, go out with me.Did you get shy all of a sudden? There isn't much time left. I didn't come on here to listen to this clown give advice on girls. If a girl is shy, all the easier. Go up and talk yo her. If you don't know how to talk to a girl, which most of you idiots don't, figure it out before asking for dates.
Nirvana Fan (2 months ago)
There a girl I know and we’re kind of the same we were both quite and act the same I would ask her out but I don’t really know if she in to me
Carlos Infinite (2 months ago)
This is hard when you work at a loud ass factory. Basically no place for a person with a soft voice. I tend to make a new girl at my job (which is really good eye candy) laugh or smile being silly like busting a really old dance move on my side of the plant, waving at her like she could barely see me every time I catch her staring ... or giving her over exaggerated recognition how well she's working (even when she's literally just pushing a broom).
Mark Silva (2 months ago)
Dude you really use your own news feed for your intro. Okay.
Repent and Believe (2 months ago)
I really can't tell how to open up a shy girl. I can talk with a confident girl and tell if she is not interested but with shy girls it's hard to tell if they are interested or not. I will mistake them being shy as playing games with me and not pursue them anymore personally.
Melody QKK Benjamin (3 months ago)
What makes an outgoing girl cute? Are they even cute? Lol.
ValuedSUPRISE _ (3 months ago)
Look i go to skyzone today and this girl likes me and according to her friends she really really likes me and I can tell she does but her friends are just always trying to get her near but and I can tell she wants to talk to me but shes scared.Dont get me wrong she kinda cute and I would date her but she goes to church and I dont and I dont know her name or anything we dont even go to the same school
Man ! Shy girls aint fun, get another one.
Eduardo Aguilera (3 months ago)
Cant tell if shy girl or just doesnt like me lmao
The Grey Raccoons (3 months ago)
How long should it take?
Bodhi Perry (3 months ago)
Thing is...i do not know her and because she has been in my class for about a week now i do not know, kind of how to talk to her without creating that kind of vibe of 'why didnt you talk to me earlier why now...' kind of thing if you know what i mean... Give me tips plz...
Jackie B (3 months ago)
I'm a beautiful shy girl...But does having low self esteem stop the guys from approaching?
Zune (3 months ago)
Just so you know. You're ugly as F***. That crucket Jew/arabic nose is not what white girls want; and i think you know that too.
KatariaGujjar (3 months ago)
The only escalation I've ever gotten was with the collections agencies.
Young (4 months ago)
Why are shy girls so cute
Talha Waseem Gaming (4 months ago)
Yup I am from Asia and none of your tricks will work because no love before marriage is a big thing here.
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Demonetized (4 months ago)
Step 1 make sure it’s a girl this time
Chris Shocka (4 months ago)
I'm getting so fucking tired of these goddamn Tik-Tok ads🙄
Jacob Cooper (4 months ago)
My best friend and I are starting to open up to each other more in our relationship and she is not as shy as she was to me when I first met her. But, I feel like that she is still kind of being very quiet around me and has a hard time opening up her feelings. She has said to me "I love you" before too... but its like I am really confused on what to do. Any recommendations?
Mitch Plays (4 months ago)
Even shy girl like shopping
Switch Wish (4 months ago)
Hey, I have a very important question that will make me 10 times happier if you could help, could you answer it?
Lloyd Kirlew (4 months ago)
She buy me a drink what to do
Lord Wilhelmus1918 (4 months ago)
I bet army girls like you cus youre covered in oil, jesus
Dark Horse (4 months ago)
I got more porn n nudes than other pictures on my phone 😑
Jayven Aldana (4 months ago)
What to do , or how to react if your girlfriend starts calling you, your other ex girls name, but you know she still love you....
Eric JKoning (4 months ago)
Thank you your great, I feel like I owe you a beer
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
Thanks man! If you have any questions hit me up on IG @mattartisan
Kara __ (5 months ago)
Yuck. As a shy girl I know what is what now. Just thinking about a nasty fake ass man tryna get me makes me puke since some evil nasty men watch this for selfish reasons.
Alejandro Bagro (5 months ago)
Damn you im ftom philliphine..dont give me some shit hahha
The Comment (5 months ago)
50% of people watching are Ginger.
Raheem Woods (5 months ago)
Thank you!🙏🏾 I was surly bout to give up. I’ve been texting a girl non stop the past month and a half (I give her a break every now and then). She does almost everything in the conversation that you said. Here I am typing a whole passage and she uses a punctuation mark or no more than five words responses. I was starting to get frustrated. I asked to meet her at Starbucks. Her response: “Lol I’m not sure”. That was the last thing that was said cause I was bout to leave it alone. I don’t want to. I just don’t know what else to do. 😂😂😂 Then...Suddenly Seymour!!!!! 🎧🎼🎤 Thanks man for the tips.
Crimson - (5 months ago)
But what if your shy also?
phacuappa (4 days ago)
lol plot twistttt
Crimson - (2 months ago)
+YOMAMASPLUG easy for you to say, filthy extrovert
Fransisco H (2 months ago)
Then y’all arnt meant to be
Matmobu (3 months ago)
just get yourself out there
YOMAMASPLUG (4 months ago)
Crimson - stop being a bitch and smash already
Sean Shara (5 months ago)
I was not ready to see him kiss her 😂😂
Gabriel Kerr (5 months ago)
Nice
bijaah art (5 months ago)
Like am the most shy girl you will ever meet when I'm talking to my crush but when am with my frnds I am a radio 😩😂😂😥
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
Hey man, here is a free confidence cheat sheet that will help you out: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet
ORey619MYSterio (5 months ago)
I can approach (and talk to) a woman just fine, but I can't ask them out on a date. Main reason being, I worry about what they'll think of me.
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue [email protected]
Oddie Hughes (5 months ago)
Shy girls may be lots of work, but in my experience I've found its worth it
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
it is!
shelyleezes (5 months ago)
Why do I do dis
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue [email protected]
Shiv Thakuri (5 months ago)
You haven't put any adds in your video so how do you earn money from your videos ??😕😕😕
Woman can be very accommodating once they let you In the door, but you're the one who has to ring the doorbell.
Master Xav (6 months ago)
YAY TO THE PENIS FESTIVAL!
Electric Goldfish (6 months ago)
Introduce her to your penis. She'll run away, and then you have a friend to play tag with!
Electric Goldfish (6 months ago)
You fucking maniac
BlockManGo Gamer (6 months ago)
what if I'm 13 and she's 15 and shy and has a boyfriend and some other girl my age spits Water in my face in front of her, now
Nah way56 (6 months ago)
I cant find it everytime i click it wtf
Trinity Livingston (6 months ago)
You're cute.
Trinity Livingston (6 months ago)
+The Attractive Man didn't expect a reply, but you're welcome. Good advice btw.
The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
Thanks, Trinity!
Kevin Jeffries (6 months ago)
Asia
SC56784 (6 months ago)
the shy girlfriend doesn’t feel secure when her cousin isn’t not there
yaya2nana (6 months ago)
Anyone else is too shy that they become rude and just leave the other person? I want to stop the habits but ..
Sabrah Staley (1 month ago)
I do that sometimes...
Mathsexual Si (6 months ago)
I feel like I’m not comfortable enough to even FIND this shy girl. I can’t ever find her.
TreyZ (6 months ago)
THANK YOU SO MUCH
TreyZ (6 months ago)
OH MY GOD THIS SHIT WORKS
David Soto (6 months ago)
Low self-esteem girls are a no-go. Stay away.
Chip_X (6 months ago)
Being shy is one reason I can’t get a Girlfriend
unknown (6 months ago)
Mission: impossible
Wandering Skeleton (6 months ago)
This is just what the Doctor ordered! Anymore advise on getting shy and introverted girls to open up/connect with me? I really want to date and support her, great person. Thanks :)
HeroWS (6 months ago)
Im the dude who talks so much in Class and im the opposite of shy but there is one shy girl in our Class and i think she likes me :0
Michael Ortiz (6 months ago)
They patched this doesnt work anymore. Does anyone else have other cheats?
MC Games (7 months ago)
Um this is kinda funny Im into a girl thats shy and im shy but I have gotten less shy and also a little more funny
Teddy Pintono (7 months ago)
How to text a shy girl?
Repent and Believe (2 months ago)
+愛Lucky not always some go ghost or don't respond back from my point of view. But maybe I just don't know how to deal with shy girls.
愛Lucky (6 months ago)
They're usually more open in texts
Dylzz (7 months ago)
“So what are you into” “Shopping” If a girl says that to me I would walk away, buy her a tuna sandwich, show her the amount of money in my wallet then walk away
I’m getting an RSD kind of vibe from this video. I like the explanation and high quality as well as the examples!
Miss Jasmine flower (7 months ago)
me infront of cute Boys: hi...😶😶😶😣 me whit my friend Boys: hey dudee! me whit my friend: wasuppp gurlll heyyyyy!!!! me infront of someone i dont know: uh hi... me infront of my siblings : DADDD MIKE USED MY PHONEEE!!!
Sabrah Staley (1 month ago)
#relatable...
Joma Piku (7 months ago)
lol you don't get girls in your country and go to Asia.. :D ofc it is easy there for you, you seem to to a person with alot of money in Asia.
The Attractive Man (7 months ago)
Joma Piku it’s easy getting girls in western countries either. Just watch our infield.
10000 Mates With 0 Shit (8 months ago)
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Sam Gabriel (8 months ago)
Shy girls r unbelievably cute !!
The Attractive Man (8 months ago)
That's so true! Thanks for watching, Sam!
The Guy (8 months ago)
Just put a dick in her mouth,no need for conversations.
Edmar Alipos (8 months ago)
hi im from philippines! 😂
John 3:16 (9 months ago)
I needed this a month ago. I asked a girl out who was a cashier and she seemed normal but afterwards talking to her the next day she was so shy I actually had so much anxiety because I had no idea wtf to say since she didn't ask anything to me.
Erik Odegaard (9 months ago)
I tried to talk to a shy girl and it was just 1 word answers quite akward
Fag Bag (8 months ago)
She may not like you or she’s just really shy. If she’s really shy I would try to get her to be comfortable with me by talking to her at her own pace a lot more and she will soon open up.
Eddie Hogg (9 months ago)
Shy girls are often the ones that don’t have bad habits like smoking so they are nicer in my opinion
MysticPowerZ (9 months ago)
I'm just here to know what went wrong... Should've watched this first and THEN do it... Now it's too late i guess
Simo Ntanzi (9 months ago)
nice bids dude it worked
Simo Ntanzi (9 months ago)
nice vids dude it worked
Elijah Leon (9 months ago)
Thank you! This as really good information, advice, and tips.
Saad Siraj (9 months ago)
*k*
Lambert john (9 months ago)
Man it sucks that I was born in India
Wyatt Potter (9 months ago)
Hey Matt, just out of curiosity, how do you know these girls that appear in your videos?
Wyatt Potter (9 months ago)
No problem, thanks for the suggestion.
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
I recommend emailing Matt. Thanks man!
Sketchy Comment (9 months ago)
I adore shy sensitive girls.
olivegreenchief 117 (1 month ago)
Bro shy girls are so cute
Sketchy Comment (6 months ago)
+Anonymous Person so you are beautiful
Anonymous Person (6 months ago)
I’m quite shy
Sketchy Comment (6 months ago)
+Alpha Weeb doesn't have tobe japanese, although i adore japanese girls, specially girls like those cutties in the japanese mouse commercials
Alpha Weeb (6 months ago)
Shy Japanese girls*
Tsundere (9 months ago)
This is true on the philippines, girls tend to be shy when they're getting approached :/
Yellowtape Benny (9 months ago)
3:02 😭
mo_sa 124 (9 months ago)
😂😂😂
JLNProps (9 months ago)
I know this is a little bit of an older video I had a question I have a friend that I've known for a very long time and I've grown to like her that she's very shy and she's a bit older than me and according to my friends that are her friends she normally doesn't date younger guys but as of lately she's been starting conversations and asking questions but when we hang out in a group she's a little bit quieter around me I want to ask her out but at the same time I don't know how to go about it if anyone can help me that would be awesome thanks. Ps she's Filipino.
Laurence Bryant (9 months ago)
She did have a boyfriend but then she didn't go to any meetings for 5 months then in June she started coming to meetings again and she was wearing the same colour as me. When turned her head away when I walked past her. This woman is the woman of my dreams which makes it difficult
Laurence Bryant (9 months ago)
A girl I met at Buddhist meets last year who flirted with me and showed other signs of attraction. She did show signs of shyness doing the head turned down but eyes looking up pose. Then I didn't see her for 5 months where she didn't go to any meeting. She came to a meeting I was at last month. When I walked past her she turned her head away but not her body. Does this she still likes me?
Laurence Bryant (7 months ago)
+Brennan Bowyer why? Are you a Buddhist
Brennan Bowyer (7 months ago)
Laurence Bryant that sounds very non-Buddhist 😂

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