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How to flirt with a SHY GIRL & get her to open up

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This is how to approach a shy girl! Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Lots of men have trouble with shy girls. International Dating Coach Matt Artisan will finally show you how to approach SHY GIRLS! You know, not every gorgeous girl is outgoing and extroverted. Some of them are shy. So in this video, we'll show you how to break her shy barrier and get her to open up. Matt reveals the BEST WAY to approach a shy girl. This task seems daunting for some guys but we'll show you how. He'll reveal the secrets to connecting to shy girls using a modified approach. He'll also explain how important it is to make her feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE around you. How to properly MATCH HER ENERGY. And how to TURN HER ON even when she's the SHY TYPE. Matt demonstrates: ► How to spot and identify the shy girls. Just because she's acting that way doesn't mean she's not into you! ► The proper escalation techniques to match her energy. ► Techniques to make her feel safe and comfortable around you. So you'll GAIN HER TRUST faster. ► The BEST WAY to make your move and TURN HER ON after the approach! Take things to the next level. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men all over the world. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Check out the bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your Free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
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The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
What was your experience with shy girls?? Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
Dedh Shana (28 days ago)
I want to know what to do in case there are 2 sisters who are always around each other, one of who is smiling and inviting you. I even tried to talk to both casually but just cannot approach the one alone and I am worried to not seem like snubbing away the other sister.
Connor Reviews (6 months ago)
How to get a girl that is not instead in you
yaya2nana (20 hours ago)
Anyone else is too shy that they become rude and just leave the other person? I want to stop the habits but ..
Tariku Paxk (1 day ago)
I feel like I’m not comfortable enough to even FIND this shy girl. I can’t ever find her.
TreyZ_GameZ (7 days ago)
TreyZ_GameZ (7 days ago)
David Soto (10 days ago)
Low self-esteem girls are a no-go. Stay away.
jxbunky (10 days ago)
Being shy is one reason I can’t get a Girlfriend
Carlos Miranda (11 days ago)
Mission: impossible
Wandering Skeleton (13 days ago)
This is just what the Doctor ordered! Anymore advise on getting shy and introverted girls to open up/connect with me? I really want to date and support her, great person. Thanks :)
HeroWS (14 days ago)
Im the dude who talks so much in Class and im the opposite of shy but there is one shy girl in our Class and i think she likes me :0
Michael Ortiz (15 days ago)
They patched this doesnt work anymore. Does anyone else have other cheats?
You Tube 2.0 Minecraft (18 days ago)
Um this is kinda funny Im into a girl thats shy and im shy but I have gotten less shy and also a little more funny
Teddy Pintono (1 month ago)
How to text a shy girl?
愛Lucky (4 days ago)
They're usually more open in texts
Dylzz (1 month ago)
“So what are you into” “Shopping” If a girl says that to me I would walk away, buy her a tuna sandwich, show her the amount of money in my wallet then walk away
l Numb l (1 month ago)
I’m getting an RSD kind of vibe from this video. I like the explanation and high quality as well as the examples!
me infront of cute Boys: hi...😶😶😶😣 me whit my friend Boys: hey dudee! me whit my friend: wasuppp gurlll heyyyyy!!!! me infront of someone i dont know: uh hi... me infront of my siblings : DADDD MIKE USED MY PHONEEE!!!
Joma Piku (1 month ago)
lol you don't get girls in your country and go to Asia.. :D ofc it is easy there for you, you seem to to a person with alot of money in Asia.
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Joma Piku it’s easy getting girls in western countries either. Just watch our infield.
uqi 141 (1 month ago)
Thumbs up for the penis festival
BunnyReaps (1 month ago)
Sam Gabriel (2 months ago)
Shy girls r unbelievably cute !!
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
That's so true! Thanks for watching, Sam!
The Guy (2 months ago)
Just put a dick in her mouth,no need for conversations.
Edmar Alipos (2 months ago)
hi im from philippines! 😂
Epic Gaming (2 months ago)
I needed this a month ago. I asked a girl out who was a cashier and she seemed normal but afterwards talking to her the next day she was so shy I actually had so much anxiety because I had no idea wtf to say since she didn't ask anything to me.
Erik Odegaard (2 months ago)
I tried to talk to a shy girl and it was just 1 word answers quite akward
Fag Bag (2 months ago)
She may not like you or she’s just really shy. If she’s really shy I would try to get her to be comfortable with me by talking to her at her own pace a lot more and she will soon open up.
Eddie Hogg (2 months ago)
Shy girls are often the ones that don’t have bad habits like smoking so they are nicer in my opinion
MysticPowerZ (2 months ago)
I'm just here to know what went wrong... Should've watched this first and THEN do it... Now it's too late i guess
Simo Ntanzi (2 months ago)
nice bids dude it worked
Simo Ntanzi (2 months ago)
nice vids dude it worked
Elijah Leon (2 months ago)
Thank you! This as really good information, advice, and tips.
Saad Siraj (3 months ago)
Lambert john (3 months ago)
Man it sucks that I was born in India
Wyatt Potter (3 months ago)
Hey Matt, just out of curiosity, how do you know these girls that appear in your videos?
Wyatt Potter (2 months ago)
No problem, thanks for the suggestion.
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
I recommend emailing Matt. Thanks man!
Sketchy Comment (3 months ago)
I adore shy sensitive girls.
Sketchy Comment (5 days ago)
+Macie Baxter so you are beautiful
Macie Baxter (5 days ago)
I’m quite shy
Sketchy Comment (13 days ago)
+NPC 02 doesn't have tobe japanese, although i adore japanese girls, specially girls like those cutties in the japanese mouse commercials
NPC 02 (13 days ago)
Shy Japanese girls*
Hayley (3 months ago)
This is true on the philippines, girls tend to be shy when they're getting approached :/
Yellowtape Benny (3 months ago)
3:02 😭
mo_sa 124 (3 months ago)
JLNProps (3 months ago)
I know this is a little bit of an older video I had a question I have a friend that I've known for a very long time and I've grown to like her that she's very shy and she's a bit older than me and according to my friends that are her friends she normally doesn't date younger guys but as of lately she's been starting conversations and asking questions but when we hang out in a group she's a little bit quieter around me I want to ask her out but at the same time I don't know how to go about it if anyone can help me that would be awesome thanks. Ps she's Filipino.
Laurence Bryant (3 months ago)
She did have a boyfriend but then she didn't go to any meetings for 5 months then in June she started coming to meetings again and she was wearing the same colour as me. When turned her head away when I walked past her. This woman is the woman of my dreams which makes it difficult
Laurence Bryant (3 months ago)
A girl I met at Buddhist meets last year who flirted with me and showed other signs of attraction. She did show signs of shyness doing the head turned down but eyes looking up pose. Then I didn't see her for 5 months where she didn't go to any meeting. She came to a meeting I was at last month. When I walked past her she turned her head away but not her body. Does this she still likes me?
Laurence Bryant (1 month ago)
+Bdot why? Are you a Buddhist
Bdot (1 month ago)
Laurence Bryant that sounds very non-Buddhist 😂
pilot marquez (3 months ago)
Dude no disrespect but are you straight?
Bheesham Madramootoo (4 months ago)
I did sub
Devakesha M (4 months ago)
shianeru (4 months ago)
1:10 I live in the Philippines lol Rip
Commando Master (4 months ago)
Be confident, match her energy, start slowly, keep the conversation going by yourself, show her pictures.
Jenna Murray (4 months ago)
Shyness could be selective mutis they only talk to selected people mostly family selective mutism is a disorder by the way
Krish Tiwari (4 months ago)
101mrcrazyman (2 months ago)
buluman LMAO
buluman (3 months ago)
Krish Tiwari you retard
Dylan Board (4 months ago)
thats funny im actually watching this bc of an asian girl
Johnny P (4 months ago)
WROOOOOONG, dont talk about yourself ask questions about herself, ask her what is her hobbies, then ask her what made her get into her hobbies, compliment her passions and interest not her beauty.
Raghunath Reddy (4 months ago)
Make video there may be law suit.
sixaj (5 months ago)
Shy girls are cute but just to much work
3000 (2 months ago)
Thats the fun part
Winter Soldier (3 months ago)
sixaj True that my friend, that's why I rather hunt.
joe joegameing 123 (5 months ago)
the video's quality is not Attractive Mannnnn lol
Mark Sususco (5 months ago)
I'm from the Philippines and the girls here are really shy
toneman335 (5 months ago)
This is a good and insightful video....good insight
Victor Jonathan (5 months ago)
matt! what are your thoughts on the lyric prank
Mr.Panda (5 months ago)
Take it slow one step at a time. 👌
Nabila Naser (5 months ago)
bro I don't have time anymore to take it slow. Imma ask her to be my gf tomorrow even though I never talked to her. Fuked up move but still gonna do cuz she's on my mind 24/7 and I don't care about getting rejected
Fag Bag (2 months ago)
It’s best you talk with her and befriend her first. I learned that and it makes the relationship better.
2xtreme4u2bme (4 months ago)
Bro get a grip on your self! Chicks get super turned off by that... keep it simple! Just 1. Approach say a simple comment about her clothes 2. Ask her name~then respond nice to meet you whatever her name is 3. Say would like to get to know ya over a drink are you free? If she says yes invite her to join you to either coffee shop or bar. She is busy get her number. Text her yours and move on to the next! This obsessive behaviour will send her running! (Indifferent attitude is advised)
Anderson Silva (5 months ago)
Nabila Naser sounds stupid. How did that go for u
Daniel Danielsen (5 months ago)
Shy girls are the biggest freaks..in an awesome way
Da MercilessMerc (3 months ago)
Daniel Danielsen man, the freakiest
Misfer Zakkariya (5 months ago)
O god I could have seen this b4....now its too late
DM 2K17 (5 months ago)
5:40 are dickpicks fine?
Final Azpect (5 months ago)
So there is this cute girl. She lives in the area and goes to my area school, but I am homeschooled, so I don't see her often. However, her cousin lives next door. Sometimes she visits him. And sometimes, rarely, but sometimes, she will come over and play with me. I am only going to state the facts because I do not want to see through my love goggles with my stupid opinions and such if ya get me. I'll just state random stuff. Also, this is no specific order. 1. She often looks at the ground. 2. She talks sorta softly and quietly in general, but way more when I am around. Especially when she talks to me. Sometimes she even just nods in yes or no questions, while looking in my direction. Speaking of which: 3. She will make eye contact with everyone but me. And when she does, it is only for about half a second. Well... I mean she will often make eye contact but if I am making eye contact with her then she won't. It's like if I look away then she looks and then if I look she looks away. XD 4. She looks like she is always blushing... of course I wouldn't know, because, well... if she is always blushing how am I supposed to know. 5. I noticed that when I get closer to her she seems to panic. And no, I don't mean when I like get in her face, cuz I don't, but what I mean is like when I am like ten feet away and walking in her direction she always seems to know I'm there and just starts to look back randomly and fiddle with her fingers and look at the ground, etc. Which leads into the next one. 6. I feel like if I can see her, she is always watching me. Whether in her peripheral or not I don't know. (keep in mind we are not alone, my siblings and her sister and cousin are there, too, so makes sense for her not to be paying attention to me) 7. She never starts conversations with me. 8. Her answers are short. 9. She adjusts a lot. I mean maybe her clothes and hair were just uncomfortable or something, (but every day???) I just noticed she adjusts a lot more than her sister. 10. Sometimes I'll catch her looking at me, and when I look at her she looks away. Sorry for making this so long, I just thought I'd give a bunch of info in hope of a decent response.
Final Azpect (4 months ago)
How did that go? :)
Nabila Naser (5 months ago)
+Final Azpect there is girl who likes me also, she looks at me all the time and she told about me to her friends. But she is insane shy. Gonna tell her how I feel about her tomorrow.
Final Azpect (5 months ago)
I'll try :D
Nabila Naser (5 months ago)
she into u bro u just gotta ask her out
Fuck Monday's (5 months ago)
I’m trying to fuck!!
Rodrigo (5 months ago)
Why do you pronounce 'cheat' as 'shi', sounds like 'shi-shit'...
Gucci Made (6 months ago)
Easy for you to say, you sexy bitch
Dmitriy Annenkov (6 months ago)
This guy has douche written all over his face
Joe Valente Jr. (6 months ago)
When comes to outgoing girls there is no challenge and it’s effortless. They just open up to automatically to you. Shy girls are more of a challenge and you have play your cards carefully. For me l like both outgoing girls and shy girls. I’m a guy that likes a bit of a challenge it’s the shy girls that give you a bit of a challenge. So play with carefully and smart.🙂
DrNawMai (6 months ago)
call me crazy but tickling a shy girl would probably come off creepy
iDateAdvice (6 months ago)
Guys stop being shy as this is the right way to a friend zone!
Aakarshika Srivastava (6 months ago)
Man you really helped me up a lot thank you for creating this Chanel
Hanke Zhou (6 months ago)
LOL, where did that Penis festival video happen? I don't really take a lot of pictures, but you're totally right in that you seem more interesting and can generate more conversation with cool pictures.
k. b (6 months ago)
Iftikhar Hassan (6 months ago)
Well dude I'm an Indian (Asian) ..... And you are totally right about the asian girls.... They think us crazy if we talk to them....., and just forget about even approaching any girl...... It's very uncommon to approach these girls...,or talk to them here
Andrew Aube (6 months ago)
This nigga just said penis festival
1899Capone (6 months ago)
I'm not a hater, I love your videos but I have to tell you, at that part when you say that you get sexual by showing her videos and then I see a clip from Japan from the PENIS FESTIVAL, I just made a facepalm.
The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
works like a charm lol
Shawn Brown (6 months ago)
Cool, I’m trying to help a friend I gave all advices I had, his problems are he is trying to get to a girl which shows not to be interested on him He calls the girl didn’t answer He texted her asking about her life she only answered she didn’t even refer to the call He wants to take her out but he is confused Please what should he do!
andres romero (6 months ago)
What about approacing a girl that already knows you, a friend
krish sanghavi (6 months ago)
Hey Matt I'm Krish and I'm from India and I am a huge fan. I was really cheap before and did something aweful and disrespectful to all girls in my class and it was long back when I did it and now I realize it. I was just a kid back then and I didn't know what to say and made cheap and embarrassing comments on girls private parts. I request you to help me and tell me how should I apologize for a thing I did years ago and I think that all girls in my class know it and that's why they keep acting weird. I hope you consider my request and get back to this fast. Thank you
Cyberskipper (6 months ago)
dude girl shopping in the Philippines, really? Not much of a challenge tbh. Don't get your ego too inflated :P
Elchanon Goodman (6 months ago)
Matt ur a fucking boss
Ashley Lemmer (6 months ago)
Spot on.
Irene de Koningh (6 months ago)
Travel concerning struggle accuse hook total industry afraid.
Men Stuff (7 months ago)
siddhant vishnoi (7 months ago)
sir u are a good speaker and inspiring personality. keep this on and never stop
Weird Awesome (7 months ago)
I wanna know how to make tough girls to shy girls😁
Ken Doll (7 months ago)
😚😐That's not good ahh don't do it,no don't do it I'm a 😓virgin ah🤦😂😂😂😎
Feminism is Cancer (7 months ago)
Feminists be triggered by your videos lol. Don’t get too big, lest they come for you.
Spencer Slade (7 months ago)
Ugh. Another insufferable shit stain...
Jens Krukowski (7 months ago)
Important thing: I was in the city with a girl, buying presents for our families and she gave me the advice for a lipstick for my older sister. Suddenly, we came to the topic of makeup etc. and she mentioned that she doesnt really like her lips(theyre not ugly or sth, she just thinks theyre too small). The important thing is, i didnt know if i should make a compliment about her lips, or not and if that would be weird... so i ended up making a joke and we were necking each other a little bit. Now for the Future: Compliment weaknesses(in their opinion) or not? Greetings from Germany
mannamanmovies (7 months ago)
You implied that girls will differ depending on where they're from. I heard asian girls are shy, and russian girls are really outgoing. Are russian dating sites the real deal? What do you think of this one? http://www.miragesmind.com/best-russian-dating-site/
jackfavvv (7 months ago)
Too much work. I'd have more fun owning noobs in CoD.
Nice Meme (1 month ago)
But they fucked your mom, you gotta fuck their future girls in return
strategic gamer (2 months ago)
Oh faze censor what up
CatPounders (2 months ago)
Dark Eye truuuueee
Dark Eye (2 months ago)
CatPounders the real question is why are you here? And why am I here?
CatPounders (3 months ago)
And here is the master virgin
Fountain of Fire (7 months ago)
Shy girls are my favorite, ESPECIALLY if they're attractive. I just wish there were more girls like that around my neck of the woods.
Wait Beat Drops (14 days ago)
I found shy metal girl. Like PERFECT girl for me.
taeboy17 (2 months ago)
But their never thicc
taeboy17 (2 months ago)
Martin kauko (7 months ago)
What if I want to seduce a girl I've known for 2 year's
7VERSACE (2 months ago)
Ryan M (2 months ago)
Usman Dan Fodio (6 months ago)
Martin kauko brooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Diether Gubaton (7 months ago)
Yeah ur right matt im from ph and girls here has a big differences than the other country.lol
samu el (7 months ago)
A shy girl would never wear a red dress
LOADED Chen (2 months ago)
or enjoy if you tickle her when you first reach her lol
SibuyasMalunggay (2 months ago)
The girl I like wears red and shes very shy
Arya C (2 months ago)
samu el I’m a shy girl and boyyy you wrong
Vardas pavarde (7 months ago)
shy girl is my fevorite type but Iam extravert so its hard but now i hope I will atract fiew
Prnjl Bora (7 months ago)
@Attractive men -Wanted to ask you a questions If u can help me get out of this misunderstanding it would surely be a lot for me
Kris M (7 months ago)
Lucky guy got to rub her thai for this vid Wish I got that kind of action
Tejas Shinde (7 months ago)
There is a girl at my college. I like her. i approached her, she talked with me smiling but after the conversation she always avoid to look at me. Is that a go away for me? Please answer 🙏
A Random Guy (20 days ago)
Tejas Shinde no, that means she’s nervous cuz she likes u
That ShadyAlchemist (7 months ago)
Bro seriously thank you so much I lost my virginity to my crush. I looked at so many YouTube videos but yours were the most helpful! Much thanks.
Petit Tall (11 days ago)
Damn buddy!
Wandering Skeleton (13 days ago)
The dream...
Eazy E (1 month ago)
That ShadyAlchemist MA NIGGA!!!
taeboy17 (2 months ago)
My nigga (if u black)
Lil Xogenuine (2 months ago)
That ShadyAlchemist “my nigga”😂💀
Ashwin Suryawanshi (7 months ago)
Guys, don't get down your energy levels or fake it just to please someone or make someone comfortable. Just be yourself & your chances would go up automatically compared to when you are faking your personality.
samie omer (7 months ago)
This person looks gay to me and he's teaching how to impress women.... wtfff
strategic gamer (2 months ago)
Pratham Dhakal fucking spacker
Pratham Dhakal (3 months ago)
awesome dude he is not gay.. I think u are gay motherfucker...
Pratham Dhakal (3 months ago)
awesome dude he is not gay.. I think u are gay motherfucker...
Tj1812 (3 months ago)
awesome dude don’t see you giving people help
samie omer (7 months ago)
southpawlibra9 😜😂😂 butthurt...
Wilfrid Joseph (7 months ago)
I love this guy, always on point!!!

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