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How to flirt with a SHY GIRL & get her to open up

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This is how to approach a shy girl! Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Lots of men have trouble with shy girls. International Dating Coach Matt Artisan will finally show you how to approach SHY GIRLS! You know, not every gorgeous girl is outgoing and extroverted. Some of them are shy. So in this video, we'll show you how to break her shy barrier and get her to open up. Matt reveals the BEST WAY to approach a shy girl. This task seems daunting for some guys but we'll show you how. He'll reveal the secrets to connecting to shy girls using a modified approach. He'll also explain how important it is to make her feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE around you. How to properly MATCH HER ENERGY. And how to TURN HER ON even when she's the SHY TYPE. Matt demonstrates: ► How to spot and identify the shy girls. Just because she's acting that way doesn't mean she's not into you! ► The proper escalation techniques to match her energy. ► Techniques to make her feel safe and comfortable around you. So you'll GAIN HER TRUST faster. ► The BEST WAY to make your move and TURN HER ON after the approach! Take things to the next level. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men all over the world. Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Check out the bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your Free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
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The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
What was your experience with shy girls?? Claim your free Escalation Cheat Sheet ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/escalation-cheat-sheet-ma/
Dedh Shana (4 months ago)
I want to know what to do in case there are 2 sisters who are always around each other, one of who is smiling and inviting you. I even tried to talk to both casually but just cannot approach the one alone and I am worried to not seem like snubbing away the other sister.
Connor Reviews (9 months ago)
How to get a girl that is not instead in you
Eduardo Aguilera (1 day ago)
Cant tell if shy girl or just doesnt like me lmao
The Grey Raccoons (2 days ago)
How long should it take?
Bodhi Perry (7 days ago)
Thing is...i do not know her and because she has been in my class for about a week now i do not know, kind of how to talk to her without creating that kind of vibe of 'why didnt you talk to me earlier why now...' kind of thing if you know what i mean... Give me tips plz...
Jackie B (7 days ago)
I'm a beautiful shy girl...But does having low self esteem stop the guys from approaching?
Zune (15 days ago)
Just so you know. You're ugly as F***. That crucket Jew/arabic nose is not what white girls want; and i think you know that too.
KatariaGujjar (17 days ago)
The only escalation I've ever gotten was with the collections agencies.
YoungYT_ (24 days ago)
Why are shy girls so cute
Talha Waseem Gaming (1 month ago)
Yup I am from Asia and none of your tricks will work because no love before marriage is a big thing here.
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Demonetized (1 month ago)
Step 1 make sure it’s a girl this time
Chris Shocka (1 month ago)
I'm getting so fucking tired of these goddamn Tik-Tok ads🙄
Jacob Cooper (1 month ago)
My best friend and I are starting to open up to each other more in our relationship and she is not as shy as she was to me when I first met her. But, I feel like that she is still kind of being very quiet around me and has a hard time opening up her feelings. She has said to me "I love you" before too... but its like I am really confused on what to do. Any recommendations?
Mitch Plays (1 month ago)
Even shy girl like shopping
Switch Wish (1 month ago)
Hey, I have a very important question that will make me 10 times happier if you could help, could you answer it?
Lloyd Kirlew (1 month ago)
She buy me a drink what to do
Annon John (1 month ago)
I bet army girls like you cus youre covered in oil, jesus
Dark Horse (1 month ago)
I got more porn n nudes than other pictures on my phone 😑
Jayven Aldana (1 month ago)
What to do , or how to react if your girlfriend starts calling you, your other ex girls name, but you know she still love you....
Eric JKoning (1 month ago)
Thank you your great, I feel like I owe you a beer
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks man! If you have any questions hit me up on IG @mattartisan
teNNy __ (1 month ago)
Yuck. As a shy girl I know what is what now. Just thinking about a nasty fake ass man tryna get me makes me puke since some evil nasty men watch this for selfish reasons.
Alejandro Bagro (1 month ago)
Damn you im ftom philliphine..dont give me some shit hahha
Mr Lego (1 month ago)
50% of people watching are Ginger.
Raheem Woods (2 months ago)
Thank you!🙏🏾 I was surly bout to give up. I’ve been texting a girl non stop the past month and a half (I give her a break every now and then). She does almost everything in the conversation that you said. Here I am typing a whole passage and she uses a punctuation mark or no more than five words responses. I was starting to get frustrated. I asked to meet her at Starbucks. Her response: “Lol I’m not sure”. That was the last thing that was said cause I was bout to leave it alone. I don’t want to. I just don’t know what else to do. 😂😂😂 Then...Suddenly Seymour!!!!! 🎧🎼🎤 Thanks man for the tips.
Crimson - (2 months ago)
But what if your shy also?
Matmobu (9 days ago)
just get yourself out there
YOMAMASPLUG (26 days ago)
Crimson - stop being a bitch and smash already
Sean Shara (2 months ago)
I was not ready to see him kiss her 😂😂
Gabriel Kerr (2 months ago)
Nice
bijaah art (2 months ago)
Like am the most shy girl you will ever meet when I'm talking to my crush but when am with my frnds I am a radio 😩😂😂😥
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
Hey man, here is a free confidence cheat sheet that will help you out: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet
ORey619MYSterio (2 months ago)
I can approach (and talk to) a woman just fine, but I can't ask them out on a date. Main reason being, I worry about what they'll think of me.
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue [email protected]
Oddie Hughes (2 months ago)
Shy girls may be lots of work, but in my experience I've found its worth it
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
it is!
Bailshaubee (2 months ago)
Why do I do dis
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue [email protected]
Shiv Thakuri (2 months ago)
You haven't put any adds in your video so how do you earn money from your videos ??😕😕😕
Woman can be very accommodating once they let you In the door, but you're the one who has to ring the doorbell.
Master Xav (2 months ago)
YAY TO THE PENIS FESTIVAL!
Electric Goldfish (2 months ago)
Introduce her to your penis. She'll run away, and then you have a friend to play tag with!
Electric Goldfish (2 months ago)
You fucking maniac
Spartan 90 90 (2 months ago)
what if I'm 13 and she's 15 and shy and has a boyfriend and some other girl my age spits Water in my face in front of her, now
ybn max_04 (2 months ago)
I cant find it everytime i click it wtf
Trinity Livingston (2 months ago)
You're cute.
Trinity Livingston (2 months ago)
+The Attractive Man didn't expect a reply, but you're welcome. Good advice btw.
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
Thanks, Trinity!
Kevin Jeffries (3 months ago)
Asia
SC56784 (3 months ago)
the shy girlfriend doesn’t feel secure when her cousin isn’t not there
yaya2nana (3 months ago)
Anyone else is too shy that they become rude and just leave the other person? I want to stop the habits but ..
Mathsexual Si (3 months ago)
I feel like I’m not comfortable enough to even FIND this shy girl. I can’t ever find her.
TreyZ (3 months ago)
THANK YOU SO MUCH
TreyZ (3 months ago)
OH MY GOD THIS SHIT WORKS
David Soto (3 months ago)
Low self-esteem girls are a no-go. Stay away.
Chip_X (3 months ago)
Being shy is one reason I can’t get a Girlfriend
unknown (3 months ago)
Mission: impossible
Wandering Skeleton (3 months ago)
This is just what the Doctor ordered! Anymore advise on getting shy and introverted girls to open up/connect with me? I really want to date and support her, great person. Thanks :)
HeroWS (3 months ago)
Im the dude who talks so much in Class and im the opposite of shy but there is one shy girl in our Class and i think she likes me :0
Michael Ortiz (3 months ago)
They patched this doesnt work anymore. Does anyone else have other cheats?
MC Games (3 months ago)
Um this is kinda funny Im into a girl thats shy and im shy but I have gotten less shy and also a little more funny
Teddy Pintono (4 months ago)
How to text a shy girl?
愛Lucky (3 months ago)
They're usually more open in texts
Dylzz (4 months ago)
“So what are you into” “Shopping” If a girl says that to me I would walk away, buy her a tuna sandwich, show her the amount of money in my wallet then walk away
Cairo J. (4 months ago)
I’m getting an RSD kind of vibe from this video. I like the explanation and high quality as well as the examples!
Miss Jasmine flower (4 months ago)
me infront of cute Boys: hi...😶😶😶😣 me whit my friend Boys: hey dudee! me whit my friend: wasuppp gurlll heyyyyy!!!! me infront of someone i dont know: uh hi... me infront of my siblings : DADDD MIKE USED MY PHONEEE!!!
Joma Piku (4 months ago)
lol you don't get girls in your country and go to Asia.. :D ofc it is easy there for you, you seem to to a person with alot of money in Asia.
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
Joma Piku it’s easy getting girls in western countries either. Just watch our infield.
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Sam Gabriel (5 months ago)
Shy girls r unbelievably cute !!
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
That's so true! Thanks for watching, Sam!
The Guy (5 months ago)
Just put a dick in her mouth,no need for conversations.
Edmar Alipos (5 months ago)
hi im from philippines! 😂
John 3:16 (5 months ago)
I needed this a month ago. I asked a girl out who was a cashier and she seemed normal but afterwards talking to her the next day she was so shy I actually had so much anxiety because I had no idea wtf to say since she didn't ask anything to me.
Erik Odegaard (5 months ago)
I tried to talk to a shy girl and it was just 1 word answers quite akward
Fag Bag (5 months ago)
She may not like you or she’s just really shy. If she’s really shy I would try to get her to be comfortable with me by talking to her at her own pace a lot more and she will soon open up.
Eddie Hogg (5 months ago)
Shy girls are often the ones that don’t have bad habits like smoking so they are nicer in my opinion
MysticPowerZ (5 months ago)
I'm just here to know what went wrong... Should've watched this first and THEN do it... Now it's too late i guess
Simo Ntanzi (6 months ago)
nice bids dude it worked
Simo Ntanzi (6 months ago)
nice vids dude it worked
Elijah Leon (6 months ago)
Thank you! This as really good information, advice, and tips.
Saad Siraj (6 months ago)
*k*
Lambert john (6 months ago)
Man it sucks that I was born in India
Wyatt Potter (6 months ago)
Hey Matt, just out of curiosity, how do you know these girls that appear in your videos?
Wyatt Potter (5 months ago)
No problem, thanks for the suggestion.
The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
I recommend emailing Matt. Thanks man!
Sketchy Comment (6 months ago)
I adore shy sensitive girls.
Sketchy Comment (3 months ago)
+Aria Edwards so you are beautiful
Aria Edwards (3 months ago)
I’m quite shy
Sketchy Comment (3 months ago)
+Alpha Weeb doesn't have tobe japanese, although i adore japanese girls, specially girls like those cutties in the japanese mouse commercials
Alpha Weeb (3 months ago)
Shy Japanese girls*
Vinheim (6 months ago)
This is true on the philippines, girls tend to be shy when they're getting approached :/
Yellowtape Benny (6 months ago)
3:02 😭
mo_sa 124 (6 months ago)
😂😂😂
JLNProps (6 months ago)
I know this is a little bit of an older video I had a question I have a friend that I've known for a very long time and I've grown to like her that she's very shy and she's a bit older than me and according to my friends that are her friends she normally doesn't date younger guys but as of lately she's been starting conversations and asking questions but when we hang out in a group she's a little bit quieter around me I want to ask her out but at the same time I don't know how to go about it if anyone can help me that would be awesome thanks. Ps she's Filipino.
Laurence Bryant (6 months ago)
She did have a boyfriend but then she didn't go to any meetings for 5 months then in June she started coming to meetings again and she was wearing the same colour as me. When turned her head away when I walked past her. This woman is the woman of my dreams which makes it difficult
Laurence Bryant (6 months ago)
A girl I met at Buddhist meets last year who flirted with me and showed other signs of attraction. She did show signs of shyness doing the head turned down but eyes looking up pose. Then I didn't see her for 5 months where she didn't go to any meeting. She came to a meeting I was at last month. When I walked past her she turned her head away but not her body. Does this she still likes me?
Laurence Bryant (4 months ago)
+Brennan Bowyer why? Are you a Buddhist
Brennan Bowyer (4 months ago)
Laurence Bryant that sounds very non-Buddhist 😂
pilot marquez (7 months ago)
Dude no disrespect but are you straight?
Bheesham Madramootoo (7 months ago)
I did sub
Devakesha M (7 months ago)
Hai
shianeru (7 months ago)
1:10 I live in the Philippines lol Rip
Commando Master (7 months ago)
Be confident, match her energy, start slowly, keep the conversation going by yourself, show her pictures.
Huck Hughes (2 months ago)
Tiny Hands Donald exactly
Tiny Hands Donald (3 months ago)
Dick pics
Jenna Murray (7 months ago)
Shyness could be selective mutis they only talk to selected people mostly family selective mutism is a disorder by the way
M E M E (2 months ago)
Jenna Murray I have that and it sucks. But if they’re selectively mute they probably show the same signs as shy girls.
Krish Tiwari (7 months ago)
Got motivated hearing to him EDIT: BUT GOT MORE SHY THAN THE GIRL.....(BEFORE TALKING TO THE GIRL)
101mrcrazyman (5 months ago)
buluman LMAO
buluman (6 months ago)
Krish Tiwari you retard
Dylan Board (7 months ago)
thats funny im actually watching this bc of an asian girl
Johnny P (7 months ago)
WROOOOOONG, dont talk about yourself ask questions about herself, ask her what is her hobbies, then ask her what made her get into her hobbies, compliment her passions and interest not her beauty.
Raghunath Reddy (8 months ago)
Make video there may be law suit.
sixaj (8 months ago)
Shy girls are cute but just to much work
Annon John (1 month ago)
With this comments logic, shy girls get the best guys cus they have the most commitment
3000 (5 months ago)
Thats the fun part
Winter Soldier (6 months ago)
sixaj True that my friend, that's why I rather hunt.
joe joegameing 123 (8 months ago)
the video's quality is not Attractive Mannnnn lol
Mark Sususco (8 months ago)
I'm from the Philippines and the girls here are really shy
toneman335 (8 months ago)
This is a good and insightful video....good insight
Victor Jonathan (8 months ago)
matt! what are your thoughts on the lyric prank
Mr.Panda (8 months ago)
Take it slow one step at a time. 👌
Nabila Naser (8 months ago)
bro I don't have time anymore to take it slow. Imma ask her to be my gf tomorrow even though I never talked to her. Fuked up move but still gonna do cuz she's on my mind 24/7 and I don't care about getting rejected
Fag Bag (5 months ago)
It’s best you talk with her and befriend her first. I learned that and it makes the relationship better.
2xtreme4u2bme (7 months ago)
Bro get a grip on your self! Chicks get super turned off by that... keep it simple! Just 1. Approach say a simple comment about her clothes 2. Ask her name~then respond nice to meet you whatever her name is 3. Say would like to get to know ya over a drink are you free? If she says yes invite her to join you to either coffee shop or bar. She is busy get her number. Text her yours and move on to the next! This obsessive behaviour will send her running! (Indifferent attitude is advised)
Anderson Silva (8 months ago)
Nabila Naser sounds stupid. How did that go for u
Bulldozer (8 months ago)
Shy girls are the biggest freaks..in an awesome way
Da MercilessMerc (6 months ago)
Daniel Danielsen man, the freakiest
Misfer Zakkariya (8 months ago)
O god I could have seen this b4....now its too late
AJ (8 months ago)
5:40 are dickpicks fine?
Final Azpect (8 months ago)
So there is this cute girl. She lives in the area and goes to my area school, but I am homeschooled, so I don't see her often. However, her cousin lives next door. Sometimes she visits him. And sometimes, rarely, but sometimes, she will come over and play with me. I am only going to state the facts because I do not want to see through my love goggles with my stupid opinions and such if ya get me. I'll just state random stuff. Also, this is no specific order. 1. She often looks at the ground. 2. She talks sorta softly and quietly in general, but way more when I am around. Especially when she talks to me. Sometimes she even just nods in yes or no questions, while looking in my direction. Speaking of which: 3. She will make eye contact with everyone but me. And when she does, it is only for about half a second. Well... I mean she will often make eye contact but if I am making eye contact with her then she won't. It's like if I look away then she looks and then if I look she looks away. XD 4. She looks like she is always blushing... of course I wouldn't know, because, well... if she is always blushing how am I supposed to know. 5. I noticed that when I get closer to her she seems to panic. And no, I don't mean when I like get in her face, cuz I don't, but what I mean is like when I am like ten feet away and walking in her direction she always seems to know I'm there and just starts to look back randomly and fiddle with her fingers and look at the ground, etc. Which leads into the next one. 6. I feel like if I can see her, she is always watching me. Whether in her peripheral or not I don't know. (keep in mind we are not alone, my siblings and her sister and cousin are there, too, so makes sense for her not to be paying attention to me) 7. She never starts conversations with me. 8. Her answers are short. 9. She adjusts a lot. I mean maybe her clothes and hair were just uncomfortable or something, (but every day???) I just noticed she adjusts a lot more than her sister. 10. Sometimes I'll catch her looking at me, and when I look at her she looks away. Sorry for making this so long, I just thought I'd give a bunch of info in hope of a decent response.
Final Azpect (8 months ago)
How did that go? :)
Nabila Naser (8 months ago)
+Final Azpect there is girl who likes me also, she looks at me all the time and she told about me to her friends. But she is insane shy. Gonna tell her how I feel about her tomorrow.
Final Azpect (8 months ago)
I'll try :D
Nabila Naser (8 months ago)
she into u bro u just gotta ask her out
Fuck Monday's (8 months ago)
I’m trying to fuck!!
Gucci Made (9 months ago)
Easy for you to say, you sexy bitch
Dmitriy Annenkov (9 months ago)
This guy has douche written all over his face
Joe Valente Jr. (9 months ago)
When comes to outgoing girls there is no challenge and it’s effortless. They just open up to automatically to you. Shy girls are more of a challenge and you have play your cards carefully. For me l like both outgoing girls and shy girls. I’m a guy that likes a bit of a challenge it’s the shy girls that give you a bit of a challenge. So play with carefully and smart.🙂

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