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How to CRUSH your FEAR of APPROACHING WOMEN! (3 Ways to Eliminate Approach Anxiety)

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Scared to approach beautiful women? Let International dating coach Matt Artisan help you with Approach Anxiety. Download your FREE CONFIDENCE CHEAT SHEET here ► https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/eliminate-approach-anxiety-3 ►►► Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? More details here: https://attractioninsights.com/training ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/ You can't keep running from your fears, man. The first step is usually the hardest. It's time to CRUSH that FEAR of approaching women! Matt Artisan explains his 3 tricks to get rid of your anxiety when it comes to approaching women. Using science and psychology, Matt demonstrates how to remove the fears that are holding you back. Step by step, you'll learn how to eliminate your approach anxiety and finally have the guts to approach beautiful women! Matt's techniques work not only on your fear of approaching women but generally to anything you're afraid of! He explains how to use PROGRESSIVE DESENSITIZATION and FLOODING; two psychological techniques that help eliminate your fear entirely! Taking away the fear and anxiety will give you a powerful confidence boost! Never be afraid to approach women again with Matt's 3 ways to eliminate approach anxiety! Download your FREE CONFIDENCE CHEAT SHEET here ► https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/eliminate-approach-anxiety-3 #relationship #datingadvice #TheAttractiveMan Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach." Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?asdlist=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Take a boot camp with us: ► https://attractioninsights.com/bootcamps Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► https://attractioninsights.com/coaching
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The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
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Roger Valencia (1 month ago)
Stop the lies dude
Naman Kumar (3 months ago)
I'm shy so your channel is very encouraging for me.
Fishy Salmon (3 months ago)
Here's the thing i approach i got her name and i am STUCK! Like what i should do after this, i never gone this far and at last awkward said i have to go back to my friends (we were in the club)
Parisss Zarka (1 day ago)
Cold Showers are harder than approaching a woman 😅
King Beku (7 days ago)
The first advice at 1:45 seemed just absurd at first 😂😂😂
martin ernesto pinta (17 days ago)
What happens if a girl looks at you with intentions but she is clearly with her gay friend ? Do I have to approach when she is steel with him or do I have to wait her to be alone ?
Eric Arden (22 days ago)
I have my work cut out for me. Married for 11yrs. Got married at 23. Lost all my skills and the idea of getting into seems like so much work.
The Attractive Man (21 days ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
ahmad (23 days ago)
reptile brain?!
fnaf slayer (27 days ago)
A girl asked me for my number and i said sure. Does she like me? ( BTW IM A KID
Thiranga Thamidu (1 month ago)
😄😄
Ayush Dubey (1 month ago)
I truly love n respect women
Patrick P (1 month ago)
FUCKING SHIT !!!! WHAT'S UP WITH THAT SPIDER SHIT 😖😵😰
Abelius (2 months ago)
Lol at some comments... MGTOWs crawling the Internet to make sure no one gets laid with those evil women that rejected them... Guys, you could be using that time to actually 'going your way', you know...?
MrGrenardo (1 month ago)
Excellent comment, I am sick of those beta defeatists who may or may not have been hurt once and have completely given up on life. They label themselves MGTOW because it sounds badass and cool in an cowboy/outlaw/alpha kind of way, and it appeals to them because they are not actually like that. They also need to feel like they belong somewhere.
miguel mejia (2 months ago)
I should not said this here but I am Spanish and I would love to have an American girl
miguel mejia (2 months ago)
Hey how about if I have their cellphone #
miguel mejia (2 months ago)
How about if I don't speak enough English
PumpTecPCB (2 months ago)
#1 stay away #2 stay away #3 stay away
Li Hollanda (2 months ago)
oh mennnn thank you again this helps alot.
Mark O'Rourke (2 months ago)
Tried to download cheat sheet three times, no deals, whats going on?
rtcmanga (3 months ago)
Hey, nice advice. Your way of thinking has gone beyond simple explanation to life coaching... :D
matt8863 (3 months ago)
Come on...What have you got for the more realistic scenario, for us guys that have no problem walking up and saying hello to a "beautiful" woman that acts like the most stuck up and snotty ass woman in the joint, that thinks (in front of her friends) she's the queen of the Nile, and was just approached by some random vagrant...Now that's 95% of reality bro.
Julio Padua (14 days ago)
That man!, it's about having fun, seeing how far you can get with that random girl. That's all to it...
ECO473 (3 months ago)
Approaching is just an exercise in futility. Women are just plain HOSTILE AND UNAPPROACHABLE!!! Tell me I'm wrong!
Giannis Zacharopoulos (2 months ago)
+ECO473 good for you.
ECO473 (2 months ago)
+Giannis Zacharopoulos I doubt it.
Giannis Zacharopoulos (2 months ago)
ECO473 You are wrong!(you asked for it)
Rey B (3 months ago)
But what if you're ugly though? Just asking for a friend. lol
Ripsta (2 months ago)
+Joel Mendoza youre still a douchebag. He gave thoughtful advice and all you can respond is an untasteful joke. You must be a real winner with the chicks.
Joel Mendoza (2 months ago)
I put at the end of the comment just kidding dumbass!
soulcash (2 months ago)
+Joel Mendoza And you're a douchebag if that's your take on that. Good talk.
Joel Mendoza (2 months ago)
😂that's a good one! Your ugly as fuck huh! Jk
soulcash (4 days ago)
Define "ugly". It's just like "being normal". Just because something's normal for you, doesn't mean it's normal for everbody else. Same thing goes with being "ugly". Everybody's different, sooner or later you'll find a woman who thinks you're not ugly. Atleast that's my experience. Looks are a big part for a lot of woman sure, but it's still worth a shot in my book. Why give up before even trying, maybe she likes the way you look, not all people are the same and everybody has a different taste.
Full in Bloom (3 months ago)
If you have all the right things to say to women, then why did you get a hair transplant. Weak....and your ad is too.
Nemanja Curcic (3 months ago)
Why every "gentleman and cool guy for womens" is not muscular not even close, whyy?!!??!?
charliedontsurf70 (3 months ago)
I always figure women get tired of being approached so i dont want them to think im just another creeper, please help.
kiddynamite (2 months ago)
Stop being a nice guy
Joseph Torreski (3 months ago)
Low key this nigga look ugly. What would you rate him. A 5?
nobodysperfect06 (3 months ago)
People say that's what men are born to do, attract women, then why do lots of men struggle
dan warren (7 days ago)
evolution its because cave man never had gym back in the day to get muscles and bank accounts to earn money
SilverDragon 550 (2 months ago)
Changing society fails to teach us how to use our natural talent
Alexander Okolodkov (3 months ago)
well, for all those who are in a fairly good shape and with a decent face curve and (!!! some rare shit ahead) DECENT! verbal communication skills - yep, that works no doubt about it. But there are some issues still... You see, we were designed to be pretty superficial, so right from the start there is a HUGE difference between being a good-looking guy or an ugly fuck (best persons ever btw!), no matter how beautiful your inner world is, you simply won't get a chance to be able to show it. If you think about it, A LOT of a pick-up techniques are explained and performed by a guy with a "oooh he's so cute" face and a full 6 or even 8 pack abs. I'm not saying it's all bullshit, 'cause it's definitely not, and the higher levels of self esteem and confidence are a huge win no matter what situation you are in, but... This Attractive Man dude is no exception: cute, skinny but at the same time in a good shape guy who's job now is to basically talk to all kind of woman. Do you have the same experience? Nope, you do not. Should you try? Definitely, you should, but be prepared to get depressed and feel like shit after being rejected like 10 times in a row, or maybe even more. Will you be able to just block those feelings and move on? Very few of you - yes, but the rest 'll get emotionally slaughtered. So please, people, just keep that in mind when watching dudes like this one talking all kind of nonsense to girls and still getting their attention, 'cause most of you won't. Now, is there something you could actually do about it? - Yes. Go out, get hobbies, work with different people, communicate not only with girls, but with all kinds of people whenever possible. Also smile when you feel like it. In most cases these things are the ones that guarantee you some random but pleasant encounters. The rest is just another "learn English in 3 weeks" or "get abs in a month" or whatever bullshit is out there to get you interested and paying a good buck for nothing. Thank you :3
Leo179 Videogames (3 months ago)
5:48 no don't do that
soulcash (2 months ago)
I have to agree, that's a really dumb thing to do for so many reasons. For the most part because you will creep her out sooner or later, if you do it to the same woman over and over again. And that can obviously end really bad.
Naman Kumar (3 months ago)
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Great insight, man!
ZeoDyce (3 months ago)
Lets stop pretending to give pick up tips just because the uploader only wants your money. You're all fake. Be honest. If you're not beautiful, you're wasting your time by talking to someone who is actually beautiful. The most important thing is attractiveness but no one addresses that. How about tips on picking up someone in your league and not all these stupid videos on how to bother women just because they're attractive. Do you not care about the less attractive girls; cause this video speaks to the contrary.
Michiel van Haren (25 days ago)
Nonsense. Certainly looks can help, but especially for guys attitude, verbal skills etc are just as if not more important. Women don't select men based on looks (as long as you look like you are at least healthy and can take care of yourself) but on their presence, their status, their ability to make them laugh and feel safe and appreciated (and turned on). Men on the other hand are more visually oriented so we select (at least at first) based on looks/attractiveness.
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
We respect your opinion! Thanks for the comment!
soulcash (3 months ago)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - maybe a daft saying but it's true. Meaning just because you're maybe not the ideal beauty standard for the main society, doesn't mean you can't get into a relationship with a "more attractive" woman. Don't get me wrong for the most part I agree with what you said and I don't want to defend this video, the tips or anything about it by any means. But why limit yourself with stereotypical thinking with the whole; "oh don't even bother, she's out of your league anyway" thing. Often enough I saw a couple together and thought something along the lines like; "why is she with a guy like that, she could get someone better with her looks", be it random people in the street or friends. From personal experience & from talking to more "attractive" people who had a less attractive partners I can tell you: There are people (man and woman alike) out there who are attractive and choose a partner which is less attractive, just to minimize the chance of them being picked up down the line from somebody else.
Randomjification (3 months ago)
I did this and went to jail. I didnt ask for permission to talk to them frist.
Devendra Tina (3 months ago)
@Mart is it really good for an alpha...male after getting rejected he goes for the second shot or he will simply let it slide as he's the prize
kiddynamite (2 months ago)
Let it slide, abundance mentality
Mohammad Reza Banakar (3 months ago)
Its hard for me cuase maybe i am average person qnd i dont have that confidence and fear hearing no killing me , i really want to try it but i cant 😔
soulcash (2 months ago)
Why fear a no? You're already giving yourself a no by not talking to her from the beginning. And being average well..most people you meet in your life are just that, average people. For the most part they will have an average life like everybody else, going to work everyday to do a regular job. Being average isn't a bad thing.
patrick abel (3 months ago)
Asking for directions!! Wouldn’t she think ones a lost what ever?
patrick abel (3 months ago)
She’s wouldn’t want to be treated as a directory, believe thAt.
Anonymous #01 (3 months ago)
Here is the way to get any girls number 100% : You go to her tell her I have a dead battery can I use your phone for a call ? She's gonna be ok (most of the times) Then you get her phone and call yourself and boom you got her number ;) Tried it on 7 girls and worked
Texas80 (3 months ago)
In February 2018 I decided to give myself a 30-day approach challenge. Approach at least 1 woman per day for 30 days. I was so fucking scared at first, would stumble, sweat, etc. I wrote about each approach in a journal and took notes on my thoughts and feelings. Getting laid off cold approach is such a motivator. Whenever I see a beautiful woman now I have to approach just to see if she's available and interested. I've approached about 600 women this year and my observation is that there are so many friendly beautiful women out there even if their face looks mean because that's what their normal expression looks like.
RALIKK!! CMKINGSS!! (3 months ago)
I'll just go with drinking two beers
TheClassic Gents (3 months ago)
Nice one man <3
KING UMANG JOSHI (3 months ago)
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Sahil miglani (3 months ago)
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Shocke89 (3 months ago)
sure these work as long as you have money and are tall dark and handsome.... Now trying being a white guy who maybe be a hard worker but not super rich and loyal to a fault that stands less than 5ft 7.... and no woman that is worth the time will give you the time of day... Men want quality women... problem is women seem to think they are better than every other person on the planet therefore they only deserve tall dark and handsome guys who have a wallet bigger than thier penis.
ranndino (3 months ago)
I'm the same height as you and I'm yet to not get a number from any girl I managed to get the balls to approach. Your main problem is this self defeating, negative attitude. Yeah, a lot of pretty girls might blow you off but you only need one cool one not to and boom, you have a cool, pretty girlfriend. Believe me, it happens. A lot of guys always were shocked when I showed up with my ex because she was stunning and I could tell they wondered how the fuck did I get her. I just talked to her and I'm laid back, intelligent and funny. Guess what. Girls like that too. It's not just about your dick and your wallet, dude.
ZeoDyce (3 months ago)
Men want quality women... lol no. Lots of women are the way they are because of society (arent we all), I just mean the behavior of society would be much different if it wasn't dominated by blood-thirsty men ever since the invention of Religion. So they treat men bad and they have high standards because every guy they meet just want to sleep with them so if the best they can do is a pig, they'll try to find a rich/good-lookin'/popular pig. Rather than wait for someone they actually belong with women will go from one guy to the next so they don't feel like a slut even though they don't love their bf's and the bf's don't love them (that's why they break-up or tolerate a loveless marriage). In most cases. Generally people only care about their life and nothing else. (You say you care about your child? Then you must care about every child (or you're selfish). If you're not sad everyday, you're selfish. People say they care about their child but they don't shed a tear or even talk about all millions of people that suffer every day.) Less attractive girls generally have lower standards because they're not desired as much and are usually desperate. Does Shocke89 not know that these easy hook-ups exist? Or is he just bashing quality women that he can't get while thinking he's better than all the girls that feel the same way as him? Maybe if you hooked up with a fugly you'd realize that he/she actually makes you very happy and that's all that matters. But naw, complain about the women out of your league while being a hypocrite and acting like them, to girls that feel the same way about you as you feel about the babes.
ToothDoc (3 months ago)
feel it as body feelings only, not associated with any kind of label of what it means/represents
Anas Shaikh (3 months ago)
Oops, got kicked out of the tribe again :(
Jeremiah Pasion (3 months ago)
I love #2! It's not just applicable to approaching girls but also in crushing your fears. Great stuff Matt as always!
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Thanks, man!
Angelina Lopez (3 months ago)
Guys guys guys 😂😂😂😂
Milan Radojevic (2 months ago)
Angelina why you no bater help , tell us what is your expiriance?
Alfonso C (3 months ago)
Hi Angelina how are you, estas bella Saludos
TheClassic Gents (3 months ago)
Guys all over the place <3
Erik Keith (3 months ago)
I watched this, tried it and then got kicked out of the tribe
Lysander Martinez (1 month ago)
Lol dude 😂
Anas Shaikh (3 months ago)
Lmao 😂
soulcash (3 months ago)
No comment on this yet, really? Well let me be the first by leaving a comment with an easy tip: Just go and talk to her. The worst thing that she can do is turn you down. Don't think about it, just do it. Easier said than done you might say, but ask yourself this: What do you have to lose? If you don't talk to her and let the chance slip, you already lost and haven't gained anything. If you just go up and talk to her, you have atleast a 50-50% chance that you would gain anything. Why be afraid of her making fun of you or laugh at you for example, if she does that I'd say she's not worth anything.
soulcash (2 months ago)
+anonymusopina1 Pretty much what I said or tried to say, explained in a different way.
anonymusopina1 (2 months ago)
It is not a rocket science. Three rules: 1.- You do not have to approach women. You have to approach people willing to meet them males or females. You will discover then how reality is. Some perfectly beautiful women are perfectly annoying creatures. 2.- You won´t get the model because that woman has been working so hard for a rich alpha guy to screw him. Lucky you... Superficiality is crap, the real luxury is authenticity and simplicity. 3.- You have to realize that you are a peculiar individual with your peculiar standards. Not any woman is compatible with you. Down to earth. A wrong decision is worse than being alone.
soulcash (2 months ago)
+anonymusopina1 Yeah sure, that's a great way of getting a relationship where she's definitely not just in it for your money...-sigh-
soulcash (2 months ago)
+Вячеслав Иванов That may be true, but it's still worth a shot, is what I was trying to get at. What's the point if you give up before even trying. There are a lot of factors, like how you approach her and talk to her. If you start talking to her by using a standard chat-up-line, the chance is higher that it's going to go sideways. Try to get a regular conversation going and see where it goes. How is up to you and the environment you're in. I'm not a pro, I'm just trying to share what can work and worked for me, not always ofcourse. Sorry to hear that it hasn't worked for you so far. But practice makes perfect, the more you try the more you learn, try to keep that in mind. A rejection after trying is better than not trying at all learning nothing, stressful or not. You being stressed about it may be the thing that's causing the problem for you, try to be calm, I know easier said than done. But again, you won't gain any experience by doing nothing except just looking at her.
I don't agree there is 50-50% chance. As my stats show it is 100% rejection and it is fucking stressful.

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