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How To Approach Women In A Store

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In this video, I show you how to approach a girl in a store. The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan who since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. FREE TRAINING: HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN & TRIGGER SEXUAL ATTRACTION: http://theattractiveman.com/lp/seduce-her-in-seconds/ Want more dates? Check out the Boot Camp Schedule here: http://attractivemantraining.com/ww-boot-camps/ ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattardisson www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson
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The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
FREE TRAINING: HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN & TRIGGER SEXUAL ATTRACTION: http://theattractiveman.com/lp/seduce-her-in-seconds/
Joseph Torreski (1 day ago)
This nigga is so gay. Bro I approach but you make this fucking weird. Make her feel at ease.
Musician Melody (1 month ago)
Hi Sir, need some help...you have a lot of videos but I'm confused which of those videos of yours do i have to watch first..I don't know if those are already arrange or not..thanks for the reply
Felix Tiger (2 months ago)
I dare every coach to pick up in south Italy.........
Mick James (3 months ago)
"what turns you on.... like in life" she starts moving around haha :)
Damian P (3 months ago)
I cringed so hard while watching this
NPC (4 months ago)
Fuckin stupid
Flary Fox (4 months ago)
Good approach but I feel the number will flake since there was no actual conversation or even a hook or investment on her part. Thanks for demonstrating how to open in a store, though. I have the same problem of giving up when they walk into a store.
Ray Beaty (6 months ago)
This type of response not uncommon. OK, he didn't look like Neil Strauss here, but the bottom line is he was upfront with his intentions and respectful. Yeah it looked awkward, but when you put yourself out there almost to let someone determine your sexual worthiness, you're bound to be a little nervous. It was probably a little awkward for the girl, since no one approaches these days and not every girl knows how to act in these situations. You don't have all the time in the world to make a girl go crazy for you. Not every approach no matter how smooth you think it is will ride the same with every girl.
brennan jarvis (7 months ago)
Matt, maybe you should consider to change real-quick words with other stuff, coz it's sound lame buddy, especially when said it everytime you approach a girl/woman
teamometeamo (7 months ago)
I think this video was made just for illustrative purposes. Because Matt Artisan is way too advanced to follow such a simple approach, secure approach.
Birki gts (7 months ago)
teamometeamo simplicity is beautiful. No point making things overly complicated and coming off as "try hard" when the simple approach works better.
Matteo Sarai (8 months ago)
You ARE THE BEST man
Ripsta (8 months ago)
how old are u btw? i want to do this but i feel like I might be too old at 29.
Thatperformer387 (3 months ago)
Ripsta You're only going to get older. Are you trying to die a virgin? Get out there bud
The Attractive Man (8 months ago)
35
ABHI J - ROCK (9 months ago)
love your style its direct, bold , need a lot of confidence and thats what makes it amazing // beacuse girls usaually dont get approach in malls, and thats why i think some of girls like it .. i have seen all your videos and as i watching this one i saw how you were buliding sexual tension , eye contact when shaking her hand and introducing yourself , it looked like it worked ../// even i tried this once in mall well she was checking me out but still it worked but in the end i was just so happy that wow this appraoching works so i forget to ask her no .. big regret still / / loved it .. teach us more matt..
Jacob McCarthy (10 months ago)
Bars and clubs are the only socially appropriate, non awkward places to approach girls you dont know!! But approaching women on the streets or in malls is kinda creepy and weird!!
Carlos Bravo (4 months ago)
That is bullshit, everything is permitted. It might be awkward to you, but confident people can get away with almost anything.
Birki gts (7 months ago)
Jacob McCarthy wrong. You can and should approach women everywhere. It is not wrong, it may be awkward at first, but once you get it down it comes off as bold and highly attractive
Jacob McCarthy (10 months ago)
Most guys meet girls through school, work or their friends friends or through hobbies, sports leagues!!
Birki gts (7 months ago)
Jacob McCarthy most guys have sex with 7 women in their entire life and end up settling with a 7 and emotional 5
Jacob McCarthy (10 months ago)
This seems like a unnatural way to go about starting conversations and meeting women!! Attractive women already know there attractive!! Being that direct to someone you met in a store or on the street is kinda awkward!! That’s not how a lot of guys have met their girlfriends, wives etc..
Birki gts (7 months ago)
You have to show intent. And when you're blunt about it you quickly polarise. Thus filtering out the women who are worth your time and those who aren't. Beating around the bush is what lands guys into the friendzone. This is awkward at first, but eventually you learn how to use body language to defuse the awkwardness. Remember, words only account for 10% of communication. Everything else is body language and tonality.
Matt Ardisson (10 months ago)
Actually it's totally natural for a man to approach a woman and give a compliment. And attractive women don't get hit on often during the day, it's mostly at bars and clubs. Works much better than small talk because you're just wasting her time and she knows your intentions anyways. So man up and be honest to her.
Hall of Fame (10 months ago)
Man real shit if this is real white girls must be real nice and cool with other white men!! I bet he and the rest can't do that shit to a bitch in DC FL or NJ!! Walking upbtona girl saying you are real cute bitches don't want to hear that shit!!!
Mason Rogers (11 months ago)
You try too hard
Lacy Proudhouse (1 year ago)
Matt is calculating and logical. But doesn't doesn't like girls who are.
Denise Simpson (1 year ago)
That is very creepy to be approached like that and could cross over EASILY into sexual harassment. He's coming on too strong.
Flary Fox (4 months ago)
Denise Simpson Let's see a photo of you- I would be willing to bet you are the type of woman no man watching this video would be interested in approaching, let alone dating. So it is completely irrelevant you find his approach "creepy" since the woman in the video seemed delighted to be approached in this way while you, as someone not being approached and most likely ignored by attractive men, have no say in the matter.
Ray Beaty (6 months ago)
It's not sexual harassment, he's not making her do anything against her will. Nor is he being creepy. Creepy is when your body language or actions don't match your intentions. IE. A man sees a girl he finds attractive, but doesn't talk to her and constantly keeps looking at her. That has to be worlds creepier than the approach.
Birki gts (7 months ago)
Not really, i find that most women really are happy about being approached even if the guy isn't attractive to them, makes them feel desirable. Your body language can certainly make you creepy but as long as you're somewhat normal you won't be. By the way, this, and catcalling are two different things, there is a difference between yelling "damn girl, dat ass is fine" and respectfully and politely introducing yourself to an attractive woman while showing intent. In fact, approaching a woman randomly in public might even give you "bonus points" because it shows high confidence and assertiveness, both of which are sexy traits in a man. Its also excellent for your own mental health, the more you put yourself into anxiety inducing situations, the better you'll be able to handle it.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Yeah she's so creeped out...i think she was about to call the cops for sexual harassment and pull out her pepper spray and rape whistle :P
mrsins (1 year ago)
something about this seems fake...
David Ung (11 months ago)
He said hi to a woman in real life and had normal conversation. She agreed to exchange numbers. What seems fake?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
all of our infield is 100% real
Shahryar Haque (1 year ago)
Really fake 😂😂😂
DP P (8 months ago)
it ain't fake. Why don't you try it for yourself.
bokelund917 (1 year ago)
+The Attractive Man so why did you make it?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
100% real. There would be no reason to do a fake video.
kungtony (1 year ago)
Thanks for taking the time to reply. I do like your approaches. I'm also attracted to big women but they don't always take compliments too well. any tips?
alphA Mix (1 year ago)
What if my dream girl works in a foodshop and she ain't got time to talk so much.. How can i get right to the subject and being funny as well ? Thanks
Luka Petkovic (11 months ago)
Robert Bun Google the abumdance,not scarcity mindset
kungtony (1 year ago)
I'm curious why you say "adorable? isn't that something you'd say about a pet or a baby? I've actually told milfs they were sexy and they loved it.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
You can definitely say that. I prefer "adorable" and most women in western culture don't take it as something you would only say to a pet or baby. In other cultures they might.
Onlyme2015 (1 year ago)
I feel like this was staged.
SVETOGOR (7 months ago)
100%
Liquid Fire (7 months ago)
It's not dude, look how he looks her in the eyes, she's fucking melting in that eye contact like she would orgasm
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Watch our other videos you will see
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Definitely not staged
Joe Alvarez (1 year ago)
Thanks Matt.
Olito Nottero (1 year ago)
this is gold, thanks mate!
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
No problem! :)
BEN PAUL ESHUN-WILSON (1 year ago)
approaching ladies gives a man a lot of courage in life . I was really shy but when I reached 25 . I simply didn't care about anything. now 26 . Approaching women what's the worst thing that could happen?
Arthur Healey (1 year ago)
jert opp if more people thought like you we'd all be much better off 👌
jert opp (1 year ago)
I'm at your same age and I think the same way now as well. You stop giving a fuck what people think OVERALL and you except who you are. I don't need anyone's approval to be excepted. Not everyone's going to like you... but guess what, I'm not going to like everyone either.
Will Lopez (1 year ago)
Matt!
sts31 (1 year ago)
when approaching girls at a crowded place like this, how do you not think about what other people are thinking of you especially if they are watching you?
Birki gts (7 months ago)
sts31 it's best not to care about them. 99% won't give a shit, they might glance over and then assume you know eachother and move on. People have a million things on their mind, they don't have time to focus on some guy saying hi to a girl.
FroManGaming (1 year ago)
"SO I STALK MY PREY INTO THIS STOOOOOREEEEE"
Mr Scratch (2 years ago)
Yeah people speak like that in real life!!!!! Idiot fake crap
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
It's really easy to approach women man....we don't need to fake anything. Try it out sometime and you will see how responsive women really are.
Walter Manfred (2 years ago)
Why is he having the fig leaf (submissive) pose? 2:04 ... this is very incongruent with the speech (ask her to do things etc), things like this body language faux pas makes me think that this pick up (day game) could be staged!
The Attractive Man (11 months ago)
Picking up girls is easy. No need to ever stage anything.....especially just getting a phone number.
ALFRED HERESI (2 years ago)
HOW. TO. KEEP. A. WOMEN AND. HOW. TO. MASSAGE. A. WOMEN
ALFRED HERESI (2 years ago)
ALFRED. HOW. TO. GET. WOMEN. TO. COME. TO. YOU
Ryan Kagami (2 years ago)
number close...
Brandon Ralston (2 years ago)
SMOOOOTH!
Akshay Dhiman (2 years ago)
You got a stranger girl's number under 2 minutes, not bad ;)
ivan escobar (2 years ago)
thanks for your videos. they have helped me alot!
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
Appreciate that man!
ivan escobar (2 years ago)
the attractive man how to approach a woman while she is at her job!
BullCitySBC (2 months ago)
Still waiting on this video
Carl Jones (2 years ago)
he's always talking to white women
Thatperformer387 (3 months ago)
Carl Jones Yeah cause they're hot
Error 404 (1 year ago)
thats his type
NeutralGenericUser (2 years ago)
CRINGEEEEEEEE
CrimsonSlayer7 (2 months ago)
+Jason Loera if you have no standards that does actually say a lot about your character. A woman would see far more disparate and willing to take anyone and everyone if the slightest chance rises. Have some standards helps save you and her time from dealing with someone you just wont click with. Plus having low standards can put you in awkward situations or get stuck with someone you truly dont like being around. Standards that are realistic and arent higher than Mount Everest is more reasonable.
Jason Loera (3 months ago)
The Attractive Man can’t be having standards if dudes are ugly right? Or at least that’s what a girl will think
The Attractive Man (11 months ago)
You should be picky about who you hang out with. If you are willing to go on a date with any woman that will have you what does that say about you?
john p (1 year ago)
The rest was good lol
john p (1 year ago)
PPX EDITZ 'I'm very picky with the people I hang out with?' Very douchebagish
richiexp2 (2 years ago)
Nice video!
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
Thanks man!
the spungolator (2 years ago)
Saw this video on a pornography platform. After I went and took a shower, coming back to see that the video had ended tragically in your inevitable death. Whoops, spoiler alert! Oh, and thanks for nothing for that jump scare at 2:36 I fell out the bottom bunk onto a pile of rat feces. Anyhow, LIZARD PEOPLE ARE USING MY BODY AS A VESSEL FOR HUMAN CONTACT PLEASE SEND HELP tips really helped now I'm picking cute guys around the city peace out fellow boy bouncer
the spungolator (2 years ago)
i make videos now
Dan M (2 years ago)
In fucking CRYING
NeutralGenericUser (2 years ago)
+Matt Rowboatsun LOL. good stuff man
NeutralGenericUser (2 years ago)
LMAO. Please tell me you have more comments like this in other videos or a page I can follow with your writing or something.
Van Eeden (2 years ago)
I really like your videos, they're very helpful and useful. But I got a problem none talks about. I live in a very small town (30 thousand people) and I feel I just can't do a lot of practice because if I do, over a month, I wold have approached almost every girl and I would be labeled as a pathetic loser who bothers every girl, unfortunately this kind of ideas are really present in small places. So would you have some advice for someone who doesn't live in a big city and just cannot approach every girl he sees? Thank you.
kungtony (1 year ago)
Van Eeden I live in a small town too and I will do the occasional approach too. Surely there are nearby cities?
Rasberry Jam (2 years ago)
Even in high schools where there is only a couple hundred girls your age a guy gets decent at dating just by trial and error. Some girls like you, some girls don't. Just go for it and don't give a shit. There are so many variations of people that it just does not matter at all even in small pools of people.
Van Eeden (2 years ago)
+finallyanime You mean in this channel or on YouTube in general? Can you link some of them? I just never found anything on that topic.
finallyanime (2 years ago)
There's so many videos on this dude look it up
mike hunt (2 years ago)
you look like a major douche
Alex R (1 year ago)
look at *you*
Live Free (2 years ago)
cool video, but what else you got?
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
Thanks man! You can check out other videos at youtube.com/theattractiveman1

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