In this video, I show you how to approach a girl in a store.
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most of your audience that like this video are probably virgins who never even spoke to a girl in their life and they will find this amazing but in reality this was terrible game u need to go take notes from Todd valentine
This why he will never see this girl again or she will put him in the friendzone
1. He did not escalate verbally and physically (e.g. I think I'm falling for you, you get a hug for that etc)
2. He did no use any pre-selection (by ex-girlfriend or female friend...)
3. He did not use any attraction switches (like what he does etc etc - she is high value, why would she even reply to his text? She know nothing about him, just some random guy who complimented her).
This is just a numbers game and not real game.
Good approach but I feel the number will flake since there was no actual conversation or even a hook or investment on her part. Thanks for demonstrating how to open in a store, though. I have the same problem of giving up when they walk into a store.
This type of response not uncommon. OK, he didn't look like Neil Strauss here, but the bottom line is he was upfront with his intentions and respectful. Yeah it looked awkward, but when you put yourself out there almost to let someone determine your sexual worthiness, you're bound to be a little nervous. It was probably a little awkward for the girl, since no one approaches these days and not every girl knows how to act in these situations. You don't have all the time in the world to make a girl go crazy for you. Not every approach no matter how smooth you think it is will ride the same with every girl.
love your style its direct, bold , need a lot of confidence and thats what makes it amazing // beacuse girls usaually dont get approach in malls, and thats why i think some of girls like it .. i have seen all your videos and as i watching this one i saw how you were buliding sexual tension , eye contact when shaking her hand and introducing yourself , it looked like it worked ../// even i tried this once in mall well she was checking me out but still it worked but in the end i was just so happy that wow this appraoching works so i forget to ask her no .. big regret still / / loved it .. teach us more matt..
This seems like a unnatural way to go about starting conversations and meeting women!! Attractive women already know there attractive!! Being that direct to someone you met in a store or on the street is kinda awkward!! That’s not how a lot of guys have met their girlfriends, wives etc..
You have to show intent. And when you're blunt about it you quickly polarise. Thus filtering out the women who are worth your time and those who aren't. Beating around the bush is what lands guys into the friendzone. This is awkward at first, but eventually you learn how to use body language to defuse the awkwardness. Remember, words only account for 10% of communication. Everything else is body language and tonality.
Actually it's totally natural for a man to approach a woman and give a compliment. And attractive women don't get hit on often during the day, it's mostly at bars and clubs. Works much better than small talk because you're just wasting her time and she knows your intentions anyways. So man up and be honest to her.
Man real shit if this is real white girls must be real nice and cool with other white men!! I bet he and the rest can't do that shit to a bitch in DC FL or NJ!! Walking upbtona girl saying you are real cute bitches don't want to hear that shit!!!
Denise Simpson Let's see a photo of you- I would be willing to bet you are the type of woman no man watching this video would be interested in approaching, let alone dating. So it is completely irrelevant you find his approach "creepy" since the woman in the video seemed delighted to be approached in this way while you, as someone not being approached and most likely ignored by attractive men, have no say in the matter.
It's not sexual harassment, he's not making her do anything against her will. Nor is he being creepy. Creepy is when your body language or actions don't match your intentions. IE. A man sees a girl he finds attractive, but doesn't talk to her and constantly keeps looking at her. That has to be worlds creepier than the approach.
Not really, i find that most women really are happy about being approached even if the guy isn't attractive to them, makes them feel desirable. Your body language can certainly make you creepy but as long as you're somewhat normal you won't be. By the way, this, and catcalling are two different things, there is a difference between yelling "damn girl, dat ass is fine" and respectfully and politely introducing yourself to an attractive woman while showing intent. In fact, approaching a woman randomly in public might even give you "bonus points" because it shows high confidence and assertiveness, both of which are sexy traits in a man. Its also excellent for your own mental health, the more you put yourself into anxiety inducing situations, the better you'll be able to handle it.
approaching ladies gives a man a lot of courage in life . I was really shy but when I reached 25 . I simply didn't care about anything. now 26 . Approaching women what's the worst thing that could happen?
I'm at your same age and I think the same way now as well. You stop giving a fuck what people think OVERALL and you except who you are. I don't need anyone's approval to be excepted. Not everyone's going to like you... but guess what, I'm not going to like everyone either.
sts31 it's best not to care about them. 99% won't give a shit, they might glance over and then assume you know eachother and move on. People have a million things on their mind, they don't have time to focus on some guy saying hi to a girl.
Why is he having the fig leaf (submissive) pose? 2:04 ... this is very incongruent with the speech (ask her to do things etc), things like this body language faux pas makes me think that this pick up (day game) could be staged!
+Jason Loera if you have no standards that does actually say a lot about your character.
A woman would see far more disparate and willing to take anyone and everyone if the slightest chance rises.
Have some standards helps save you and her time from dealing with someone you just wont click with.
Plus having low standards can put you in awkward situations or get stuck with someone you truly dont like being around.
Standards that are realistic and arent higher than Mount Everest is more reasonable.
Saw this video on a pornography platform. After I went and took a shower, coming back to see that the video had ended tragically in your inevitable death. Whoops, spoiler alert! Oh, and thanks for nothing for that jump scare at 2:36 I fell out the bottom bunk onto a pile of rat feces. Anyhow, LIZARD PEOPLE ARE USING MY BODY AS A VESSEL FOR HUMAN CONTACT PLEASE SEND HELP tips really helped now I'm picking cute guys around the city peace out fellow boy bouncer
I really like your videos, they're very helpful and useful. But I got a problem none talks about. I live in a very small town (30 thousand people) and I feel I just can't do a lot of practice because if I do, over a month, I wold have approached almost every girl and I would be labeled as a pathetic loser who bothers every girl, unfortunately this kind of ideas are really present in small places. So would you have some advice for someone who doesn't live in a big city and just cannot approach every girl he sees? Thank you.
Even in high schools where there is only a couple hundred girls your age a guy gets decent at dating just by trial and error. Some girls like you, some girls don't. Just go for it and don't give a shit. There are so many variations of people that it just does not matter at all even in small pools of people.
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