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THIS Is How To Talk To Girls And Spark Attraction (This is how a woman wants you to talk to her)

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SAY IT LIKE THIS To Spark Attraction With Girls! Click here to claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► https://attractioninsights.com/conversation-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/talk-to-girls-and-spark-attraction Matt shows EXACTLY WHAT TO SAY to create that amazing attraction with women! How do you talk to girls to spark attraction? Most of us aren’t taught how to talk to girls growing up. The good news is, learning how to talk to women the right way is a LEARNABLE skill, just like any other. In this video... International Dating Coach Matt Artisan reveals 4 ways to talk to girls and spark attraction. He explains how and why women usually show more EMOTION than men. He also demonstrates how to display your MASCULINITY's to make her attracted to you. How both of you can enjoy your first conversation together by using self-amusement. You'll develop that strong connection RIGHT AWAY! Matt reveals: ►The BEST way to START THE CONVERSATION with women! ►How to add EMOTION and PASSION to your conversation to always get that amazing response. ►How to be MASCULINE with your words and how to convey a STRONG STATUS. Women instinctively love this! ►The fastest way to build TRUST and CREATE A CONNECTION with a woman you just met! Want to learn how to talk to women the right way? Click here to claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► https://attractioninsights.com/conversation-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/talk-to-girls-and-spark-attraction Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- See the Boot Camp Schedule Here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Find our blog here: ► http://www.theattractiveman.com/ The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men all over the world. Claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► https://attractioninsights.com/conversation-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/talk-to-girls-and-spark-attraction ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Want more dates? Check out the Bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► https://attractioninsights.com/conversation-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/talk-to-girls-and-spark-attraction
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Text Comments (1001)
SFIFA (23 hours ago)
Tip 1: Use makeup powder on face Tip 2: Stay away from the weight room Tip 3: Drink soy
Brian B (5 days ago)
How about go to the gym and focus on your purpose instead of trying to pick up some chick that is not looking for an alpha instead of a beta. Lol
Uncle Benz (6 days ago)
DO NOT TALK ABOUT RELIGION OR POLITICS but that’s how me and my gf got together
C Fernando (9 days ago)
This guy has never met a woman in his life.
The Attractive Man (9 days ago)
Thanks man! If you have any questions hit me up on IG @mattartisan
Jermaine Jones (10 days ago)
Great video bro...👍👍
fcuk yourmom (13 days ago)
Rubbish. Load of shit
Edy (14 days ago)
She: You don't know how excited you made me feel. Me(putting the gun away): Yeah,I know how to talk to women.
maria mistretta (14 days ago)
I agree a man can make jokes without insulting a woman. So not nice when a guy think bullying a woman. Perhaps he should see this.
Dalton Hughes (15 days ago)
what do I do if I try to ask a girl out and speek really fast?
Branzinotito (15 days ago)
I want to die
Rob Hardy (16 days ago)
Dude, you are legitimately built like a woman. Just being honest.
outdoordoorwildnes1 (16 days ago)
Helpful
Air After (19 days ago)
I feel like your confusing guys with this vague advice
3Pac Shakur (20 days ago)
Jack manley has a god level on attracting Girls
Ian Meadows (21 days ago)
Nice to hear some tips, with everything in the media nowadays I feel like I have to carefully play a chess match when I’m around women.
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Nel's Wolf (22 days ago)
Where can I find a very masculine woman?
Ali Rezaie (22 days ago)
Learned number 2 the hard way! I mean really hard!
Demetrius Dixon (22 days ago)
🐐
benja torres (25 days ago)
He looks like Adam Levine
101010101 _ (25 days ago)
Girls love it when guys talk down to them, that's why they all love tall guys ....
Christopher Bagley (28 days ago)
I met Matt recently. He is a cool guy and really seems to know what he is talking about.
Raiel Rswarmz (28 days ago)
Thanks i’ve been single for more than 3 Years
Trátíor Phoneix (1 month ago)
I'm shy Tho..
MisterPotatoBag (1 month ago)
ok next time im in the club im gonna walk to girl and say"your gonna be mine tonight" , i wonder how will it go xD
Fernando Rivera (1 month ago)
Does this work with texting?? Like online dating? Wondering about the qualification thing and her coming to you, online that’s a bit difficult
sarayoooooo (1 month ago)
hey ,if anyone else trying to find out best way to attract a girl you like try Nevolly Attract Women Nerd (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my work buddy got amazing success with it.
taha (1 month ago)
yo fuck this dude, this is only alpha male shit
Stephan Paris (1 month ago)
While I don't subscribe to #MGTOW I think there's some confusion as to what that really is. It doesn't mean become a monk and never look/see/interact with women again. Just means to put yourself first and choose your battles so you don't get taken to the cleaners.
Dat 1 Song (1 month ago)
Not really. First thing is looks. Second is money and if both don't work for you then you should...End of explanation.
Abdul Bubbly (1 month ago)
What should i talk about?
Hey Herc (1 month ago)
NEVER ASK____WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT____ONE ITS CHEESY____AND TWO ITS OVERRATED AND BASICALLY BULLSHIT____THE CLOSEST ANYONE CAN COME IS MILDLY INTERESTED____THIS PASSIONATE BULLCRAP DOESN'T EXIST____AND I'M PASSIONATE ABOUT THAT!!!
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks for watching! :)
Pitt Bull (1 month ago)
dud I bet u can't Evan get with female dog with all ur tipes ,its about look and how natrul u act in ur own skin .
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, man! :)
Am I the only one who thinks this guy looks like Edward Norton?
+The Attractive Man No problem. Thanks for the advice and happy Holidays.
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks for watching!
Madison D (1 month ago)
“The women you find most appealing are deeply attracted to masculine men Me, a lesbian: 😭😭😭😭ITS TRUE😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lou says boo! (1 month ago)
im a women and its true :D
Lou says boo! (1 month ago)
+Acrolein welp
Acrolein (1 month ago)
😿
Lou says boo! (1 month ago)
+Acrolein nope :)
Acrolein (1 month ago)
can i date you 😹
tucan sam (1 month ago)
I had this friend at the gym. I was walking up to her to talk to her. I was staring at her pussy. lol I dont know why. I slipped up. What she saw, was my eyes going from her pussy, to her face. I gave her a big genuine smile when me made eye contact. She gave me one right back. I told her " Hey, there is something i wanted to tell you.". I completely drew a blank. I did not know what to say. She stood there with a huge smile on her face, in my personal space. After she saw I choked up, her smile went away, and she went about her business. I hate how I'm attractive enough to look her right in the pussy, and she doesn't get offended, but when it comes to my social skills, she could not stand it. LOL I'm sexy, fit, and good looking. Like causing that physical attraction on women is not a problem. I'm handsome. When it comes to talk to them though, they scare the crap out of me. lol
tucan sam (1 month ago)
Thanks bro.
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Wow, thanks for sharing that man! Here is a free conversation cheat sheet that will help you out: https://attractioninsights.com/conversation-cheat-sheet
Joel Driver (1 month ago)
At the end of the day it really doesn't matter what you say it just matters that you actually go up to women, start a conversation and then ask them out. It doesn't need to be any more complicated then walking up to them and saying "Hi...I'm (insert your name here). How's it going today? Hey are you single? Can I get your number so I can take you out sometime?" Takes 30 seconds and it's either going to work or it's not. All this other bullshit this guy is talking about really is superfluous. Just be yourself and if you don't click then it's because your aren't compatible.
just be yourself dude it works everytime for me and banged 32 girls trust me B)
Lou says boo! (1 month ago)
exactly
Josh Capra (1 month ago)
THE GREAT WGITE BUFFALO
Lee Murray (1 month ago)
How do you pull a woman who works in a shop ? If its the only place you see her.. like buying petrol when you fill the car up.. behind the till counter..
Steady Life (1 month ago)
Thx dick neck...
Merdi Mobani (1 month ago)
I was talking to my friend (boy) and a beautiful women who I never talk before comes and talk to my friend. What is the best way to include her in the conversation when she talk to my friend.
DanDawg05 (1 month ago)
I need help. So my crush just told some of her friends that she liked me and it spread to the whole school. I really like her and I want to go up and talk to her but I get nervous when she is with her friends and I’m with mine that things will get really awkward. Also everyone is going around saying “ship” names, I’m just worried if I go up to talk everyone is just going to bug me about it. Plz help me I really don’t wanna lose a amazing girl that are hard to come by.
Leo179 Videogames (1 month ago)
1:39 contradicting yourself lol (i'm referring to "speak loudly ... low voice"
George Humphrey (1 month ago)
I was engaged to get married and couldn't get my mind off one gal in the office. During lunch I went to talk to her. I told her I was interested in her for sex only. She said I thought you were in engaged. I told her I was but wanted to know if she would be interested in getting together for a romp in the sack. We met that night and I got laid. We got together a few more times but just foe sex. I got married and never got together with her again. Girls like men who say what they want because there no different than we are.
Dorian Grey (1 month ago)
All of this is utter garbage.There are men who have never done any of this and have had tons of women.A woman is either into you or not.If she is ,nothing more needs to be done except get in contact with her.If not,you are wasting time. And to have many women to be interested in you,one just need looks. That's fucking it.And has been so for all of Human history.
Bugsy (1 month ago)
The girl I like posted on her story asking if anyone wants to hangout, I’m gonna go for it. Wish me luck fellow soldiers
thisismusic (2 months ago)
Maybe you should stop ripping off Tom Torrero or at least give him credit. You're just copying his content. Not cool dude
Melvin Miller (2 months ago)
I’m gonna give a small piece of advice. Proper posture. You’re Welcome.
Giancarlos Rosales (2 months ago)
Speak though feelings? Instructions were unclear woke up on crack
TIm G (2 months ago)
your conversations with your friend in the videos always seem super forced
Cycles Ov Hatred (2 months ago)
sounds all great, but the problem is, here in my neck of the woods, I have absolutely no respect for our local women... No, in no way am I saying all women... its just that our local women here are very spoiled rotten, with goddess complexes, and dont take any care of themselves "because their so spoiled they dont have to, but be expected to be pampered"... the problem is,no way to get out of this local area with a full time trade job, so your pretty much stuck here with either a lump of shit vs a bowl of diarrhea to choose from...
Ryan Shinault (2 months ago)
I mastered this in 5th grade no lies I knew this but not fully
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
Awesome! Thanks for the comment!
TWNS 10 (2 months ago)
“Be masculine”. And yet he wears makeup. Hmmmmm...
Ben Beast (2 months ago)
Just carry around magnum condoms.
jason gamingz (2 months ago)
Wut was the joke?😂😂😂
LILxboat (2 months ago)
NO IM IN MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP IN MIDDLE SCHOOL AND IDK FUCKKKK
natvc (2 months ago)
Hi, great video! I also have a blog about dating! check it out: www.datingnirvana.com
Liam A (2 months ago)
Can any girls confirm this?
flowerydeath (2 months ago)
I don't know. It really depends on the woman. I like cute, kind guys who aren't super masculine but still have some of it. I suggest to just be yourself, be kind, and don't be afraid. I don't like fakers or show offs, and a lot of women don't either.
RC AWSOMNESS (2 months ago)
I like this one girl but I feel like there is more than one who likes me
im1who84u (2 months ago)
And the reason I want a girlfriend and all the drama that comes with it, risk losing half or all my stuff, risk being falsely accused of rape, possible loss of my job over her false and vindictive accusations, possibly do jail time over it, spending MY money on things SHE wants while she complains I am not spending enough of my money on her even though she has her own job, her own money, claims to be independent, doesn't need a man, secretly hates all men and considers all men to be toxic, to be her “pack mule” through life to support an unrealistic unsustainable life style she has seen on television or has read about in some femanazi magazine, and finally just dumps you after sucking your bank account dry and then monkey branches to her next victim that has more money than you. ................ is because? Please tell me again why I want to be in a relationship. I keep forgetting. I can hire someone to clean and cook for me, and on those nights I get a little lonely I can pay for companionship to someone who will at least pretend to like me and I still come out way ahead financially.
im1who84u (2 months ago)
+flowerydeath Hi floweryDraws.... Thanks for the encouragement, I am 65 years now and it's not likely I'll change my mind, but thanks anyway. What I don’t understand is why divorced or single women from 30 to 50 years old are so bitchy and abusive when they finally do meet a “nice guy”. I know of a guy that is single/divorced, has no children, which equals no child support or ex-wives hanging around, is in good health, has a college degree, above average in the looks department and can still turn heads when he walks into a room, is able to pick and choose who he wants to date, has a respectable job that pays a respectable wage, is a good Christian man that attends church regularly and volunteers at the same church, lives in an average home that is paid for, drives a current model car that is paid for, doesn’t go out to bars, takes nice international vacations every year, helps others in need around him, and is generally well liked by those around him and is known for being a nice guy. There are plenty of women that want to date him, or want more, but he is selective about who he will let get close to him. Now that being said, when he finally does allow someone in, it’s not long before she starts to get somewhat “bitchy” & demanding. Starts grabbing at the steering wheel and trying to drive the ship on some sort of wild & reckless joy ride with no goal in sight. It’s kinda like a five-year-old just took over the space shuttle and is at the controls. Doesn’t have a clue how it got to be where it is, how it is successfully staying in orbit, how it all works, and is recklessly careening it around the earth in some selfish fashion with no plan in sight, and then getting mad at the Cpt. Because she got herself, and now him out of a proven and stable orbit and into a death spiral. She’ll blame him for all the problems she caused, leave him to pick up the pieces of what is left, and then move on to entrap some other poor unsuspecting slob. Well that’s where this story is leading to. She’s acting like guys like this are a dime a dozen and begins to treat him cheaply and disrespectfully. You would think that she would appreciate her situation and recognize that other women are envious of her. Some of her friends may even be jealous and giving her bad advice to ruin the relationship. Who knows? Now the reality is this. She is on either side of forty, not getting younger, and may be somewhat attractive meaning she doesn’t have to much trouble finding guys that want to be with her. The other reality is this. Out of all the men in the world, some are married and not really available to her, out of all the single men in the world she is most likely limited to those that are within a twenty mile radius of her, out of those men the age may not be appropriate, he might be physically undesirable to her, he may be interested in finding a boyfriend and not interested in females, some will be drug attics or alcoholics, some will be physically & mentally abusive, some will be cheaters and can’t be trusted, others will be broke and not know how to manage money, they may have a sh*t job, or just plain boring, and so on. These are the guys that are generally available to her. They are broke from at least one divorce and paying child support to at least one ex-wife, drive an old beat up used car, might have a well-paying job but much of the money goes to ex-wives for child support and vaginamonie, has to deal with unreasonable ex-wives and their moods that affect his dating relationships, is probably on some sort of prescription medication, in debt over his head, and is often times just plan stressed out. So why when she finally does meet the nice guy without all the baggage I just described, does she not recognize it for what it is and do everything within reason to make it work? Starts getting bitchy and demanding? Who knows? But I would say that as heartbreaking as it is for the guy, when he’s finally has had enough of her sh*t & comes to his senses & breaks it off (much to her disbelief & bewilderment) that this is a blessing in disguise to him. It’s a nice feeling to come home to a nice quiet place of tranquility, be healthy, have peace of mind, food in the refrigerator, his home smells of his good healthy home cooked meals, have good friends, a good social life, home and car paid for, extra money in the bank, pay off credit cards in full every month... and…. I can kick off my shoes, sit back, stretch out in a nice soft leather recliner, relax, do nothing, and nobody is yelling at me because I am sitting there doing nothing. I think women generally hate to see men happy or doing nothing. I am not being badgered about…. “is this relationship going somewhere”?..... Is this marriage going someplace? The answer is NO! It has arrived at its final destination with a good foundation, is stable, and has a bright future ahead of it and if you want to recklessly change it with your poor decision making abilities… then go someplace else and make someone else’s life miserable.
flowerydeath (2 months ago)
Well, a lot women aren't really like that. Most women also aren't just stupid gold diggers. You'll change your mined one day.
Andrew Kell (2 months ago)
1. Master death metal growl. Gotcha! 2. Stare at her like you are in a contest. Okay 3. Tap into your inner feminine self. Ya 4. Talk about how many bodies you have in your freezer. With enthusiasm! Kay 5. Give her an interview like she is going to be your intern. Yup. Sure
Hector Ivan (2 months ago)
Dick jokes are actually funny, lmfao
Omar Espinoza (2 months ago)
OMG I DID THIS BEFORE WITHOUT KNOWING IT :O and I did it to my best friend god damn it
de’von plymouth (2 months ago)
damn im really on youtube lookin at this shit
Barock Johnson (2 months ago)
0:03, what’s the show called? I remember watching this episode lol
starfleethastanks (2 months ago)
Rule 1 Don't be Autistic I'm fucked!
Yhung. Pete (2 months ago)
Her ass 😭😭😭😭
Rickochet (2 months ago)
"Be masculine" as he wears makeup. 😂
biggo meat (3 months ago)
Yeah none gurls lik3 me!!😡😡😡😡
Neko TonguePunch (3 months ago)
Be an emotional beta cuck? No thanks.
Carl Aspinall (3 months ago)
Guys! Seriously, service! I've watched ya videos and shit meeeeee error, wow! The amount off girls was around me blew me away big time! I had guys coming up to me asking how I did it and I said i'v been watching your small help videos! I well snogged 20 girls tonight and all girls was watching me! Plus I can dance aswell..... this well made my night and I'll definitely be telling other men, friends, and anyone I can tell... u have boosted my confidence total big time! I would be willing to put my story on camera to prove your methods work! God pls tell me what u want from me, because I can't express my cratitude for all u have done 😉😉😉😉 pls if you can use me for your programmes pls do 🤗 anyways thank you for my escape from doubt x. Thank you so much, really x
Karlo Ispirean (3 months ago)
I'm tryna put ya in the worst ah p1 trying in your curch shoes ah
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Thanks for the comment!
gneticz (3 months ago)
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MAROUANE (3 months ago)
Great
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Thanks, man!
Krishna Prasad (3 months ago)
Gosh... Your voice is amazing
Tejus Wadbudhe (3 months ago)
Thank you
weirdo /-/ (3 months ago)
i’m. a. lesbian. lmao i will never find tips for lesbians.
Madison D (1 month ago)
weirdo /-/ saaaaaammmmeee
fellas4Krillin'-r G (3 months ago)
Dont losten to all these shit tips(no offense) in tjis lofe you either good lookong or ugly. If you ugly then hope that one special person finds you, or else ur ficked
父Legion父 (3 months ago)
You should make a list of the things you said at the end. I feel like it would help.
Humble Wonder (3 months ago)
Thank you my g
Lalit Pant (3 months ago)
Good
Jim Walker (3 months ago)
Your advice is almost exactly what a good salesman does, Interesting....
pioco56 (3 months ago)
Dude, I'm gonna train my sons so they will be able to get any girl they want, or at least not regret for the rest of their lives that they didn't talk to a girl.
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Sounds good, thanks for the comment man
Stephen MacLeod (3 months ago)
Thanks but I prefer my money.
This Person (3 months ago)
What the fuck is this bullshit? I want a friend first, then a partner.
Wavy.Key1 (3 months ago)
I watched many of these videos and they never work or maybe I just suck at talking to girls or I'm just weird as usual as in *WEIRD WEIRD*
Scott Wisniewski (3 months ago)
Sweet i got a GF Yesterday
DKS 001 (3 months ago)
this works for the brain drain chicks in bars and who aren't too bright upstairs. But for the rest of us, we know what you're doing and it's a turn-off, not a turn-on.
B Chouchaoui (3 months ago)
Good morning Matt. I watched some of your videos and I thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience in this field with us. I am a doctor-engineer, 50, single (never been married and without children), entrepreneur, fit and no bad looking. I came across a beautiful medical doctor, likely in her early 40s, beautiful, where I live (a friend introduced me as a patient). I value looks, education, and family (background). My friend is saying she lived with a rich man *rich from his dad, a very famous lawyer in this area) for years then brook up (the man is with someone else), and she is seeing (apparently for s...) a friend of that man. I am not into this (have traditional morals and religious inclinations). Not to make this too long: Do you think this lady could be the one for me? Thank you so much.
Tech Ankit (3 months ago)
wow sir you are awesome .
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Thanks man!
Sloe Bone (3 months ago)
No
David Geffeney (3 months ago)
Got my teen boys to subscribe, awesome work here. Just like what I have taught, but even easier to understand and better coming from you. Thanks bro.
The Attractive Man (3 months ago)
Glad to hear! Thanks for the comment, David!
RedInterceptor (3 months ago)
Ehh not Emma stonr
nobodysperfect06 (3 months ago)
"For a girl, "improving her dating life" would probably just mean making herself more accessible vs any kind of growth. I'm honestly not sure how a girl would become better with men other than just being prettier and maybe learning how to be slightly more engaging"
Adolfo Ochoa (4 months ago)
$$$$$$ talks, the rest walks
vlxedits (4 months ago)
This guy is a fucking legend
Varun Rode (4 months ago)
Excellent knowledge
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
Thanks man!
Gabes Grapes (4 months ago)
Thanks bro for the conversation sheet
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
You're welcome, Gabez!

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