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The guy i have feelings today told me " i can not give you what you want. You can find someone else who will really love you..." Crying, drinking blah blah blah.watchinh your video puts a smile on my face, you are so funny ! Hahaha....I love your way! 2:22
My bf just LAST MINUTE canceled us hanging out after I showered, plucked all the hair from my lower half, and went through the process of makeup ready to head out the door. His excuse was "I'm with a buddy". I know I'm trying too hard, but when I don't he starts asking questions as to why I've gotten distant and when I give my reasons calmly and nonchalantly, he gets pissy and more distant. I'm losing my mind. IT TAKES GIRLS FOREVER TO GET READY FOR A DATE YOU "MEN"!
Why a guy is checking in and call you for your first date then the day comes, he messaged you on the time you’re supposed to meet up that he is running super late and asked you if we can do at this time instead?? WTH
So, here is my dilemma. It is a little lengthy, so I'm sorry. (Viewers, feel free to comment and give feedback/constructive criticism/support)
My dilemma is that I have been friends with this guy since November. I had been dumped by my girlfriend of 2 years early in October, and I had met this guy on several occasions at social events on my college campus through mutual friends. When I first met him, I was like "Oh, so you're the funny guy that everyone in Group X keeps mentioning! Did you know that you kind of look like Jake Gyllenhaal?" which got a laugh from him. Aside from his similarity to a celebrity, I was fairly disenchanted by him because I was still heartbroken by my ex. Flash forward a few weeks after this initial meeting, and I see him twice in a play on campus. I didn't say much to him as another one of my close friends was also in the play, hence my reasoning for seeing it twice to support this friend. On the first night, I was heavily emotional, thinking about my ex and how I had wished she had been there supporting our friend. On night two, I took more notice of this guy and really noticed how cute he was and how talented he is. I still did not do anything to move forward on that, as I was still recovering from heartbreak and it wouldn't have felt right to just be like "Hey, I know I just met you, but you're cute, here's my number, etc." I let it go, and I just went about my life. Well, he shows up in my suggested friends' list on Facebook days later, so I decided "What the hell?" and I sent him a friend request. He replied back almost instantly and started liking my posts, one right after the other. I still thought nothing of it, but it admittedly excited me. In the morning, I saw him still up liking posts of mine and such and I decided to tease him with a little "How are you even awake right now?" as he had been up liking my posts until nearly 1 am. Days go by and we're talking over Thanksgiving break here in America, and then we decided to meet in person for dinner when we came back to university. That initial meeting was admittedly rather awkward as we had other friends around who had inserted themselves into the group to sit and chat. However, we continued to talk, and at points, it got almost flirtatious. There was even one instance where I had done a texting roleplay with him that was quite flirty and very almost intimate, and he said something along the lines of "I'd kiss it to make it better, but I'm not qualified for that." Looking back, I wish I had said something like "I think you are confusing me with someone who has been on more dates with you, has gotten to know you better and is ready to kiss you" instead of just getting scared. Nevertheless, fast forward to now, and I have brought up my attraction to him 3 times. Never have I been taking things too fast, but I do guess that I have been a bit more invested. However, I'm confused as he does show very often that he cares, and this last time, I even told him that no matter what he chooses, his friendship is more important to me than my "crush" on him. Have I done the wrong thing here, and possibly what can I do to fix this, aside from being just friends and allowing him the space to make more efforts to text me, talk to me, meet up with me in person, etc? He still sits with me when he sees me, even though he can choose to go anywhere else, and he still at times makes efforts and excuses to get closer to me but has rejected me twice. Should I stay friends, cut him off and move on, or subtly "move on" with room for him to come after me should he actually start having feelings?
What do I answer him if he does not answer me for 11 days, dont open the messages, but was online the whole Freaking time. I've known him for a while now. We already kissed (...and a lil more) and have a close connection. We write regularly. As an excuse he said: he was away for a while, to switch off, breathe and have peace. What is a good answer here? 🙄
Thanks for the advice. I'm fed up with my boyfriend. He's cold towards me, he treats as if I don't exist. There are sometimes when I decided to break up and at those moments he wore the sweetest boyfriend mask.
I hope that your method will work for him .
Here is me trying to learn more about relationships.
So I play this one when I text the girl I like. After meeting I wait couple days to see if she takes initiative, if she doesn't then I do but start slow pace.
Whatever the time she takes to answer my first message I take around the same time to reply back. If she increases her response time I double that time, or at least reply in x1.5 of that time. If she reduces the response time, I do half of her response time, to a minium of normal conversation time, at this point I make random 1-2 min delay for some messages.
That way if she wanna get interesting, I'm more interesting than her, if she wants to invest, I will invest more but not excesive.
Way to go! The only thing that I need now is a girl to talk to :)
I feel like I just did this on my own with a guy who not only would text every few days, but only invite me over passed 8:30pm to watch movies/touch me when I was really craving adventure and day time activities. (Hes 27 and I’m 30 I told him I’m really outgrowing/bored w. hooking up)
I told him this and he did offer to go out, BUT, I never replied because I started seeing another guy that was my exact speed- spearfishing, hiking, road trips, etc. where we bonded incredibly. I learned it’s best to be cut throat with your standards to find true happiness. Do not entertain that feeling of mediocrity you think you are receiving ❤️
I just got breadcrumbed for over a month by a male I fell in love with. When we were together I fell so hard for him, we had a misunderstanding one evening and it ended kinda sour. I tried to make it up to him and reconnect, but he breadcrumbed me for over a month. I would pick myself up and move on every week, and then he’d text giving me so much hope it would go back to the way it was. It was the most emotionally devastating and exhausting month of my life (recently) and it was just insulting and cruel. I would give anything to have him back but I wouldn’t want to be with a girl who would come back after a month of breadcrumbing and insulting fuckery. So I guess that’s that 😪 what a prick.
Wouldn't a guy who doesn't text back quickly in the first place not be a guy worth investing in at all? Like, I think she shouldn't have responded with the grandpa-esque speed comment in the first place. She should have just responded "good, how are you?" and leave it at that. Let him continue the conversation and peace out if he doesn't proceed to ask the woman out.
I loved your video Matthew! You are great and us girls surely need to understand the crazy games some men are up to. But it is sad that we need to think and know about gaming rules and how to not text etc. So sad. But I loved the vid! :)
I've been stringed along. Then finally when I gave up, after couple of months he asked if I wanted to be his f-buddy. I was like wtf. Then when I wasn't interested, he started to complain how much he had given me his attention (irl he didn't do anything, for months). Then the self pity when the guilt trip on me wasn't working. "I guess I had already enough sex in my life". Oh, now it's my job to fill his needs and not getting a relationship I want? I told him two times (keeping my standards) that I'm not interested in being someone's f-buddy. I want a serious relationship. Then I told him he lied to me and then I kicked him out from my social media (where he seldom was, just sometimes writing under my posts, this time commanding me not to share my personal stories... wth?).
He took so much of my time, I was worried that he might not like me (my ex was just as handsome and he just hated me, because I fell sick). So I did all the work for this guy. And all he wanted was to use me and finally, after months, since I gave up on him. Suddenly all he wanted was a f-buddy. What a waste of my freaking time! I got so pissed.
The guy texting me is texting more than I do and actually I kinda hope he just stops. Problem is I already asked him out one time and I realized then that he’s just not my type because of his personality. I’m really shy and can’t bring myself to just say that I don’t like him the way (I think) he likes me after texting him with emojis like this one 🥰(obviously before the date). Also he never asked me out (it’s one month after the last date!!!) or tried to kiss or hug me so I don’t even know if I can trust what he says.
One thing women fail to realize is that for 10% of men dating is really easy but for the other 90% we live in a world of constant rejection and loneliness. You women don't know what you're talking about.
i want to marry my bf firstly it was not effecting me he told me that he is going to tell his parents about me i was so happy but now after a month he suddenly stopped talking to me n when he communicated he shouted on me n said my parents ll not allow love marriage so if u want to be with me u can but i ll not marry u what sud i do to get him back n tht he talks for me with parents and wants me desperately in his whole life
This sounds like high school games. Personally, I would not text except to see if it's ok to call. Then I would do things with a more personal touch. Text is cold and unfeeling and meanings are lost without the inflection of spoken words. Moreover, If something happened to my wife I honestly dont think I would date again given the current state of the world today.
Honestly, I am so, so, SO tired of this game. I wish I cold just be. My interest grows when I realize the other person is interested, if they are not, I just want them to gtfo and don't even care. I hate the games, they don't work for me. The problem is that this time I actually fell in love, after YEARS of not falling for anybody, and being flipped around like this HURTS and now I find myself actually playing this fucking game!!!
First of all the funny thing is I am over thirty and already know this. Kind of. But it is soooo helpful to hear it in a focused and easy way. I tried it. I was a little bit annoyed that a guy didn´t act in a active way. We decided during chatting we want to meet each other. As the days before. Then silence. Good night wishes from him. I got annoyed again. But I learned so good night from me as well plus "have a nice week". I took my mobile phone away. Next morning: "Just say when do you have time?" ;)
I watched your videos a lot the last days and I really like the thing to be honest with your standards in a nice way. That is what I really learned. Honestly, I am the aggressive type. I do always push if a guy is too slow... *smile* but not any more.
And damn it feels good. Today was really nice to chat with him. I recognize his interest and also that he really like that he can acting like a man, hunting a little bit because I let him go being active. Let him looking for a nice Cafe and made clear that I will be surprise what he is going to choose for us :))
Wish I had seen this with the last guy lol XD I thought "playing it cool" was a waste of time and I needed to show energy right away to get results right away -- but that just cooled everything off and wasted way more of my time
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