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Matt Artisan shows live infield footage on how to approach a girl in a coffee shop. Claim your free Confidence Training: ►►► https://ballsofsteelcourse.com/ How many times do you see a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN sitting ALONE at a cafe and never had the guts to talk to her? Is it that hard to pick up girls in coffee shops? International Dating Coach, Matt Artisan, shares a video of him in action in-field. He explains his best way to approach girls in coffee shops. Most men MISS THE OPPORTUNITY to approach and talk to beautiful women. Especially while they’re out in public areas like cafes or shops. With our videos, our coaches will show you different settings and how to approach women in each one. It’s actually SIMPLE and EASY- and in this video, we’ll show you exactly how to approach a beautiful girl in coffee shops. In this video, you’ll learn: ► How to approach a beautiful girl in a public coffee shop. ► What to do if she's MUCH younger than you. ► Why age doesn't matter (this is perfect advice for an older guy). Want to learn more about how to approach women in coffee shops? Remove your Approach Anxiety with our free Confidence Training here: ►►► https://ballsofsteelcourse.com/ Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattardisson www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan who since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. Claim your free Confidence Training: ►►► https://ballsofsteelcourse.com/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 How To Approach Women In A Store | Infield Day Game Footage ► https://youtu.be/7ki_3hxKXZw PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### We have a blog! Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Check out the bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com
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Text Comments (143)
Aladin Kurtanovic (8 days ago)
Belgrade 🔥🔥🔥
Stefon Bussell (1 month ago)
Cuz lookin big
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
hi 🙋‍♂️, "Attractive Man". how do you invite a girl out that works in a coffee shop? thanks in advance!
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
ToothDoc (1 month ago)
"I dont mind that you have less life experience than me"
Kamil Mamil (2 months ago)
1:49 I'm glad that Chris Hansen wasn't there
Steven Vasquez (2 months ago)
Matt did this girl actually talk to you later on?
ToothDoc (3 months ago)
'its ok, I dont mind that you are so much less experienced than me"
royce angeles (4 months ago)
I watched the video while I'm having coffee at Starbucks.. I watched it 3 times and studied it well.. After that i saw a beautiful lady, and yeah.. It was totally amazing how i got her number.. Thanks Matt.
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
Cool! Thanks for sharing!
1970harleybike (4 months ago)
in other words bud get lost...
Rahul G (4 months ago)
I have a method that really works - show up in a Lamborghini and any girl will go out with you. It’s all about the display of wealth.
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
that's like saying.. if you want to win a soccer game, you need the best players in the world. not everyone is Leo Messi, and Neymar. not everyone has a lot of money, but I still see below average guys holding hands with girls on the street.
AlexJamesGTV (3 months ago)
+The Attractive Man ahahahaha perfect response. That guy will certainly be attracting a specific type of girl for sure. Jesus...
The Attractive Man (4 months ago)
We appreciate you sharing your thoughts, man!
Nemanja Panda (5 months ago)
Come again to Belgrade 😁
Well done brother thanks for the good advice I'm going to start going to Starbucks I need to get me a girl so I can spend time with
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
you have to look for that girl everywhere, not just in a coffee shop. I almost try to invite a nurse out, after I woke up from having surgery, I'm committed to finding me a girlfriend, and i WILL find her.
Rick Grimes (6 months ago)
That was brutal
Commando Master (6 months ago)
It takes a lot of balls to approach girls sitting in a quiet place like a coffee shop. Lots of people around to listen and judge you. The only thing I would add in the interaction is something about yourself that makes you stand out and provides value to her, so she would be more interested in getting to know you further.
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
I have approached most of the girls at my gym, and nothing has happened to me. I don't worry about being judged by people, we are social animals, too. I think you have to risk more...
Scorpion Stinger (1 month ago)
kiddynamite (5 months ago)
Commando Master no way man, you don't have to show or prove nothing to her. It's part of the mind game.
Ousman Manga (6 months ago)
Great video I loved
Maryam H (6 months ago)
I can’t talk like you Matt I get run out of things to say lol
Johnny Lion (7 months ago)
Can we see the text exchange for this interaction?
Acdragonrider Videos (7 months ago)
Could this also apply to a barista if you found her really cute?
lalo rc (7 months ago)
Balls of steel.. well done brother
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
you have to do it almost every day to get good at it, just like playing an instrument.
The Attractive Man (7 months ago)
lalo rc thanks man!
Ned Moss (8 months ago)
it's way more easy to do it when you have blue eyes xD
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
bologna!! what really HELPS is having charisma, good energy, positive attitude and a good pair of steal balls. blue eyes? are you on something...
Samuel hunter (8 months ago)
Your tips help a lot, however, it seems to me that my talking speed still needs improvement.
Samuel hunter (8 months ago)
Definitely a helpful video!
Daniel • (8 months ago)
That entire exchange felt unbelievably awkward and unnatural.
lalo rc (7 months ago)
Daniel • it only is if u feel that way..but Matt kept pushing and got the number
grant rawlyk (9 months ago)
would this work if you went to her home to ask her out for coffee ??
Giannis Pantazis (9 months ago)
Ehhh, ehhhh, 19? 19 anyone? Noone is gonna mention this?
Vonder Gong (9 months ago)
This is awesome
Panz3r KilL3R (9 months ago)
This whole think works so well on english but in my language is ehh a bit harder to find the words cuz if i traduce evreything u said its bad af, i wish i were an american or englishman.....
Don Romeo (1 year ago)
I know talking to a girl in a coffee shop is no big deal, but still, I often do the getting-her-to-qualify-herself thing, and they NEVER come up with something that fast. Unless she had just done that thing in the last couple of days and had it on her mind, theres no way this is real. Women react to that change in dynamic. Theyre off-ballanced by it, and stumble as they try to answer it - thats why it works, its unexpected, a role-reversal. They never come up with something That quick. (Unless of course it just happened). Im not hating on you, but also whats with just getting their Facebook account?! Seems several 'puas' teach doing that these days, thats not even a real number close.
Albert Nel (1 year ago)
3:09 preview of what came later that night
Aubrey Rex (1 year ago)
Do you text? Are you kidding me?
MichaelMotorcycle (1 year ago)
Man English is my second language. Im afraid that my words or grammar might come up cheesy and turns them off.
Jacob McCarthy (1 year ago)
Letrell Stevens (1 year ago)
Matt you're cute
Letrell Stevens (1 year ago)
Buy Lydia I love this video send 2 you are the best video chapter in the world do we need to make more videos sometimes I watch Junior browser but sometimes sometimes my mom won't let me I'll talk to you later if you call me back no you never text me back
Letrell Stevens (1 year ago)
I hate this video
Amit Debnath (1 year ago)
taino xaragua (1 year ago)
Wowwwwww. You are fucking good man.
Rajveer Singh (1 year ago)
What do you think about rsdtyler?
Black Out (1 year ago)
Make me your disciple!
Michael Pawlik (1 year ago)
This is cringeworthy man
Michael Pawlik (1 year ago)
But effective! I like it!
ray katanbafnezhad (1 year ago)
What if she works at the coffee shop?!!!!?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Then it's a little different. If you know my CQC method you can do that just make sure to acknowledge the reality that she is working.
Niks Puri (1 year ago)
Dude your " Guru " it really helped me 😉
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Thanks man really appreciate that. Good luck on your approaches!
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
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Joel Aguirre (1 year ago)
you should write a book like Models by mark manson
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
thanks joel i'm actually in the process of writing one now
Minh Vuong Le (1 year ago)
omg, that's so fucking great, i love it, AMAZING
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Thanks a lot!
B H (1 year ago)
Says, "Maybe we'll grab a drink" whilst shaking his own head. Even this guy doesn't believe his own bullshit. A 2 minute canned routine with absolutely no chemistry aint getting you anything!
B H (1 year ago)
Who do you think you are kidding? No date happened. The woman clearly didn't find you attractive, and probably gave a fake number. By the way, for the hetrosexual man, the date is to try to fuck her, then you decide if you want to keep her afterwards.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
It's okay if you aren't 100% sure about the girls in such a short amount of time. That is what a date is for to decide if you really like her or not.
ee tt (1 year ago)
Your videos are giving me a lot more confidence Matt. Good job with them! No "excuses" to talk to her, no pickup lines, no bs, just straight forward and truthful. I've actually been doing this approach lately including today to a girl at Starbucks. I can tell I flattered her when I told her she was pretty, and she was interested in talking about herself when I qualified her. The only problem was, when I asked if she texted, she refused to give me her number. It's not gonna stop me from looking elsewhere of course, I'm just telling you what happened today.
Miles Trombley (1 year ago)
What do you if she said she doesn't do anything cool?
S M (1 year ago)
but what if you were 47?
Jake It (1 year ago)
You're a well grounded man.
Beatle #9 (1 year ago)
Gee, that music is really fucked. Won't be subscibing to you, I need to hear whats going on.
ravid karmany (1 year ago)
I was talking with more than 10,,000 girls and Man U are the best bravissimo tnx
talkvids (1 year ago)
She's not into you. She asks how old are you because she can tell your much older than her. Put yourself in her shoes. You came across as a old creepy guy. Then she says I'm really bad at it. Meaning she doesn't want to be mean. Her tone of voice showed she was not interested, along with the short replies.
talkvids (1 year ago)
The Attractive Man . True, rejection is a part of life. I'm learning to not care and let the girls put the effort in. Make them feel lucky to have your time.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Honestly man don't worry if the girl is into you or not. Some will be into you, some won't, so what? I've posted all sorts of reactions from women, some extremely positive and some more neutral. Once in a while you might even get a negative reaction. Who cares?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
When you start approaching women during the day you will see that you won't always get girls that jump out of their chair to hug you with excitement. Often times you get a someone neutral response either because she is shy or shocked that this is happening. As long as you stay composed and confident in your responses and body language you can still get the number and the date. So don't worry if you don't get an overly enthusiastic response, just keep going. If she says she's flat out not interested then end the interaction.
Marco Romero (1 year ago)
Some girls are about 18 and I tell them Im 24 and still say its kind of a big age gap. But then I just tell them that I dont care, and that it kinda turns me on. It has worked very well so far.
NbgdStyler63 (1 year ago)
you have been in Belgrade? I do game there too. If some backup translation needed. I would like to help and learn something new. :)
John Scott (1 year ago)
Matt is the king of the game for one simple reason: he doesn't have all these stupid techniques like all the other "pickup artists"
Humble Wonder (7 days ago)
Matt and Justin Aguiar
Zachary Green (5 months ago)
u r clueless!
jdubb408 (1 year ago)
lol king of game?I hope your not serious
B H (1 year ago)
Erm, he actually does. This very video was specifically about a PUA technique, QUALIFYING, which doesn't actually work, unless the woman already likes you, and everything he said to that woman was scripted.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Thanks John!
Onlyme2015 (1 year ago)
She' will flake on you. She won't answer your texts/ answers.
Mike Barooshian (28 days ago)
I don't think it's gonna work most people like to be left alone I seen it all
hanzo hattori (1 month ago)
+Julio Padua exactly.
Julio Padua (1 month ago)
that man! wrong thinking. just because there's a goalkeeper doesn't mean you can't score a goal.
Scorpion Stinger (1 month ago)
That doesnt matter.the objective of this exercise is how to approach a girl in a coffe shop.if she texted him later then all the better but either way it was successful excersise.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
The opposite attitude works much better. Assume she's into you. Don't assume she will flake on you and won't answer your texts. That attitude is very unattractive. It's literally the opposite of confidence.
Olito Nottero (1 year ago)
this is gold, thanks!
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
No problem thanks Olito
Julian Bruce (1 year ago)
But seriously man you got me started in game and taught me a lot. I highly appreciate it.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
love hearing that man thanks!
teamometeamo (1 year ago)
Why didn't you grab a chair and sit in front of her. Girls would be more attracted to this, it exudes confidence.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
You are definitely right. If you want to have a longer conversation definitely sit down next to her. If you keep if short then it's okay to stand....especially if she's not sure about you yet, if you sit down next to her it can put her off. But yeah don't stand more than 3 minutes.
Will Lopez (1 year ago)
Matt Ardisson's so awesome 0:44
Will Lopez (1 year ago)
Matt can you go to the Ultimate Advanced 0:44 Day Game bootcamp please ! please. :\?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
lol thanks man!
FMRadio (1 year ago)
I was at a event in Indy and after taking your advice I got a date and had several girls wanting to be around me. Too often I see people claim their method works and the advice they have is what works, too often that happens and it never works. But then I found your channel. Your different though. Your method and advice works. Thank you. I hope you have a nice life.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Thanks man really appreciate that and keep up the good work!
and do girls get attracted to guys who just walk over and pursue them.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Most of the time yes because it shows confidence that you believe she will be attracted to you. But it all depends on your subcommunication.
why do you always start with "this is totally random"?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Because it's very random for her to get approached in the middle of the day so i say that to acknowledge her reality. You can say "unexpected" or "i know most people don't do this but..." it's up to you. It also creates tension and anticipation rather than just saying, "hey you are cute!" the build up is what makes the compliment more effective.
Al Paz (1 year ago)
That's call the system
Jj Corbin (1 year ago)
You've helped a lot manPersonallyWith results and all aroundYour technique and style are just very effective in including
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
I really appreciate that!
Jj Corbin (1 year ago)
If your congruent it's actually 10 / 10 of the time
any girl you approach if you get her number it doesn't mean anything. she's just being nice.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Well if you are getting a lot of flaky numbers then that is probably the case. Work on qualifying her because that will make the number a lot more solid.
Julian Bruce (1 year ago)
Hey Matt I'm wondering since you been in the game for so long, why do always use the same opener. I think it's holding you back.
Aubrey Rex (1 year ago)
Older men are fascinating to women. It's the way of the universe, love it.
Ric Mare (1 year ago)
could you demonstrate and show us how to pick up a hot western girl in her early 20's with some solid results in the end and not just a number?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
I think it's all about how you present yourself. If you are not well groomed and dress like a "dad" then it may creep her out. But if you look sophisticated and dress like George Clooney the chances are much less that she'll be creeped out. And of course your body language plays the biggest factor.
bull2037 (1 year ago)
Ray Ban (1 year ago)
good luck .
Al Paz (1 year ago)
Smooth way to deal with rejection.
Mike Barooshian (28 days ago)
You don't know what there thinking there's nothing u really can do about it who knows for sure
Mike Barooshian (28 days ago)
Al Paz I don't think youl meet any women in a coffee shop I never seen it happen it only happens if your a rich person
Scorpion Stinger (1 month ago)
Have you guys ever coached in ireland?
William Asarch (3 months ago)
His technique*
William Asarch (3 months ago)
Hey Stephanie just got me the phone number of a girl who is going to be a pro cheerleader for an NFL team
C. H. (1 year ago)
Wow she seemed so NOT down to meet up again! That's how the conversation sounded; One word answers and a monotone from her...gross.
Ray Mason (1 year ago)
great video . Any more advice for US older Men . I'll be 49 this year but like women in their 20/30s
ChrisP (1 year ago)
The man speaks the truth. Same here. I've had approaches where I swear to god 100% there was no way I thought that she wasn't totally down and she never even responded, and then as Matt says I've had chicks be pretty quiet on initial pickup and met them that night and f closed. It's a mind fck but it's reality
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Well remember a girl sitting alone at a coffee shop is usually not in a social state. It's very different than approaching a girl at a bar. One word answers doesn't necessarily mean anything. I've had approaches where the girl talks my ear off and then never texts back. And i've had approaches where she barely says a word or looks at me and we end up going on a date that night. Sometimes the girl is just nervous because something like this has never happened to her.
C. H. (1 year ago)
You should have showed us her RBF. lol
Aymane benlechheb (1 year ago)
wow! what are you going to do next with this girl? would you take her on a date maybe? or just to show us that it's not really super complicated to get a girl number :) .
Ric Mare (1 year ago)
yeah man , i know how things work as i approach as well.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Not every girl will be interested and some will be interested but they won't give you an obvious signs. It's okay man. Just like in sales not every person is going to buy your product but some will. Don't worry about the ones that are not interested just find the ones that are.
Ric Mare (1 year ago)
haha nice way of saying she's not interested.
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Yeah next is texting to get the date. Often times I'll go for the instant date but she said she had to get back to work.

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