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Lindsay tells you how to deal with rejection so you can get back right into the game! ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/lj/how-to-deal-with-rejection ►►►Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? Learn more here: https://attractioninsights.com/training ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/ Let's face it. We all face rejection at some point. The same will always be true when we're approaching women. That's exactly why you should be prepared to handle rejection when it hits you right in the face! Even the best of the best get rejected by women. You may be that guy that got rejected by the girl they liked. Rejected by your crush for years. Rejected by your girlfriend. Got friend zoned? Well, we're here to help you out! In todays Wing Girl Wisdom, Lindsay shares her top solutions on how to deal with rejection. Once you've got the suave and grace to handle a rejection the right way, you'll definitely appear even more attractive to women. You see, rejection should never be a downer. Most guys stop approaching just because they got rejected. The truth is, EVERYBODY, GETS REJECTED at some point in their life. Make sure you watch the video to see how to make a positive outcome out of rejection! Also, don't forget to get your- ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/lj/how-to-deal-with-rejection #TheAttractiveMan #WingGirl #rejection The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?asdlist=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/lj/how-to-deal-with-rejection Want more dates? Take a boot camp with us: ► https://attractioninsights.com/bootcamps Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► https://attractioninsights.com/coaching
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The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
DON'T ever let REJECTION get you down! ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/lj/how-to-deal-with-rejection ►►►Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? Learn more here: https://attractioninsights.com/training ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/
James Huffmar (3 months ago)
This is so superficial because there are different levels of rejection. You can be in love with someone and that person cheated on you than rejected you. You cannot just say oh, well...have a nice evening everybody ! :D
Mahmoud Khater (5 months ago)
thank you for this information. I will keep it in mind about rejection.
Naman Kumar (5 months ago)
You explain very well, beautiful girl😘
Carlton Soo (2 days ago)
I've been rejected so many times since high school until my late adult life, I'm thinking if I should operate a Reject Shop outlet.
Samantha Eaton (7 days ago)
What are some ways lesbians can safely turn down men.
shivanand g k (10 days ago)
women who walks fast takes decision s quickly so he rejected I think..
Vineet (11 days ago)
Rejection means that you are trying. But some of us take rejection as something final and refuse to try. How you handle yourself after facing a rejection can be critical to your well-being. http://somedaytoday.in/get-over-rejection/
Azir Main (11 days ago)
Who came here after gettin rejected?
True Colors (12 days ago)
So I had that date that went perfect.. We had a very nice long conversation over a cup of coffee and I felt that she was attracted to me by noticing her body language.. She was leaning towards me while she was talking, pulling her hair up and showing her neck.. So I tried to set up a second date by offering to go to a movie. I wanted to make sure how comfortable she is . So she said yes . I got so excited , but I told her I will text you the details. Once I got back home , I sent her a nice text and asked when would be a good time for you to go watch a movie? I also did not want to go for a kiss cause I did not want to give the impression that I am needy and she was kinda of quiet. I wanted to give her space and time . She has not replied to my text that night. But it’s been only a couple of days.. What do you think I should do ?
True Colors (12 days ago)
I set up a date with a very nice woman, but the next day she asked me to give her a phone call so she can get a vibe. I called and I tried to make it short. I was friendly and sincere, but I did not want give a lot of details as we were supposed to meet the next day. Next day morning she canceled the date and when I asked. Would you like to set up another time or can I call you tonight? She said Not at this time because she has some personal issues.. I think it’s either because I make the call short or because of my accent... What do you think I should do? Should I try to contact her again? When and what to say ? Thanks,
drhappyninja (26 days ago)
i assign negative emotions to women period.
Jose Martini (27 days ago)
My associating her with the topic of rejection, makes me wanna punch her face.
Dylan M (30 days ago)
thank you lindsay! I really needed to hear this. Just got rejected today by text. Felt a bit bad about being shot down. But, ultimately, if we didn't click, there's no way we could have spent more time together. I guess i will just have to keep on being myself and trying.
Dylan M (5 days ago)
+Ennis Whalen tbh, I don't have a reputation to defend 😅. I don't really care what other guys might think of me. Just recently I was talking to someone who was extremely interested in meeting me. She was quite nice. But, due to distance, it was impossible. A 40 min drive. And I don't even have a car. So I would've had to Uber there. She also invited me to watch Netflix at her place. I simply couldn't. Too expensive of a trip. Plus, we hadn't even gone out before. So had no idea if we we're even going to want to be in the same room together. So I declined her kind offer. I know. I turned down her invitation. But I think what I did was right for me. Had no obligation to please her
Dylan M (5 days ago)
+Ennis Whalen interesting question. If she had asked me out on a date, I would have gladly accepted. But that doesn't mean we would have clicked. For me, it all depends on personality and how the conversation flows. It doesn't really matter if she's physically pretty and into me. If we don't have similar interests, then it can't work out. I'd rather get to know someone whom I have a lot in common and is average looking, than a very pretty woman, but who I don't have much in common with.
Ennis Whalen (5 days ago)
D M - Really interesting observation about your experience! If she had approached YOU for a date, would you then believe that the two of you would have clicked? I think that the guys who read your comment will say that her interest in them would make a very large difference.
Krishnakumar K A (30 days ago)
The video is good. But could not watch full coz of ads of 5-10 mins lengthy!
murphsviews (1 month ago)
The first time I asked someone out I was so scared it took me a whole week of thinking about little else to drum up the courage to ask her out (she worked at the photo lab/shop I got my photos developed at). She said no, but it ended up being a positive experience overall, because as well as having become stronger from having overcome my fears, I also learned a very valuable lesson from it. I'd been hearing the song by Savage Garden which went "Oh I want you, I don't know if I need you, but oh I'm dying to find out" and I kept sort of singing that line in my head and wondering that about her, but after I took that leap by asked her out, I had an epiphany that I don't "need" anyone, and that I'm all I need or that I have all I need. So from that moment on I've never thought of myself as needing someone else to "complete me", or anything like that. Doesn't mean that I don't want to find someone special who I want and love to share my life with, because I do, but I know that if I don't find that I'll be OK.
Sloe Bone (1 month ago)
Mistake number one, asking a girl out. Mistake number two, approaching women. Mistake number three, giving a crap.
Suspect333 (1 month ago)
You women don't approach guys so how the fuck do you know what rejection feels like? What are the guys not picking up on your stupid signals?
Jarno (1 month ago)
If 90% of people reject you it becomes really hard to be positive about that.. i can't fucking handle it at all, people dont give me good reasons for it either so i'm left confused and interpreting it as "i'm just not good enough" etc..
murphsviews (1 month ago)
Jarno sounds like you might need to invest a bit of time and perhaps a small amount of money into the more advanced courses that these guys and others like them (eg Coach Corey Wayne, Scott Jack, etc) have available that can teach you to have more "magnetic" interactions with women. You may just not be aware of how to press the right buttons with them- so that they are much more likely to be attracted to you- which is something they can teach you.
David Parks (1 month ago)
To all girls out there if you are being asked out and don't like the guy say no and don't let the suspense build up in a guy that does she really like when you give him a sympathy yes then breakup later on.
David Parks (1 month ago)
The thing is I got friend zoned hard
David Nasr (1 month ago)
does it matter how you approach the person or no?
calvi playz (1 month ago)
I just got rejected😢😢
Leggs013 (1 month ago)
Why NoT You Ladies ask Guys Out!! ............. Afraid of Rejections
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks for the comment!
Lil Grimes (1 month ago)
I got rejected 9 times since 7th grade and I'm in 10th grade and I dont even care anymore I've given up, I bought a girl stuff for valentines day, took her to the mall, gave her rides to school (in a 76 mustang) and I even gave her money for her mom who was sick in the hospital and couldnt pay the hospital Bills, I hate my life
Lil Grimes (1 month ago)
Am I being too nice? Am I not nice enough? Do I not have enough money? Is my car not nice enough? Women just fucking hate me
Georgi Donev (2 months ago)
Rejection is an opportunity to expand your comfort zone. And by expanding your comfort zone you will get more successful not only with woman but also in life. Great video Lindsay!
SarahTheGreat (2 months ago)
I’m a girl....I got rejected today.....that’s why I’m here....I’ve liked him for 2 years....I had a mentale breakdown....so yh
Levant (2 months ago)
A woman who doesn’t approach guys is telling guys to keep approaching because otherwise women might have to *gasp* take responsibility for their emotions and woman up, yeah last time someone threatened to call the cops, which nowadays guarantees I lose my good job. I’d rather work and improve my lifestyle and spend my money on books to increase my knowledge.
calindicusar (2 months ago)
The way this girl talks about rejection is clear she speaks theory and she hasn't been experiencing it.
S&Tguy (2 months ago)
I am 40 something years old and ever female. I have ever talked to from all my years in school. When growing up and till this day as rejected me. Because of this I have never had a girlfriend in my life. Never have I kissed a female or been intimate with a female. Confidence is no longer something I have when it comes. To females they do not give me the time or day. I do not know what You women want. I have done everything short of tying a $100 bill around my neck to get a females attention.
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Matthew Scanlon (3 months ago)
It is a negative experience every time I approach
Raj B-Boy (3 months ago)
I love you wanna be my girlfriend
Thiranga Thamidu (3 months ago)
This video is really important😀
Trashy the Raccoon (3 months ago)
fuck off
Ennis Whalen (3 months ago)
God, they do their VERY,VERY best to talk guys into approaching. Wow, the effort!
maykoo메이 (3 months ago)
Hahhahahah I never get rejected ahhahaahhah Cuz I dont have confidence to approach someone..........😢😢
Previ Da best (3 months ago)
Channel says attractive man...shows attractive woman instead
Mahbub Hossain (3 months ago)
Her getting rejected is hard for me to believe
Mahbub Hossain (3 months ago)
Okay i was rejected just two days ago this videos not bad
Dragory (3 months ago)
I was rejected today. I'm fine now.
Kelvinator Ng (3 months ago)
Rejections will cause wet dreams
Mount Everett (3 months ago)
I love you Lindsay
Mahmoud Khater (3 months ago)
I can't handle rejection when it comes to woman keep going for a bad guy instead of a nice guy like me .
murphsviews (1 month ago)
Mahmoud Khater nice is fine and all, but it on its own doesn't turn them on. You need to learn to be nice and a good person, but at the same time also do some of the things that the so-called "bad boys" do that they are so attracted to. Like being direct and confident, not pretending that they want to be her friend, when they really want something romantic with her, playfully teasing her, flirting with her, seducing her, touching her, etc.
Carlos Garcia (3 months ago)
Sounds like job hunting.
Greg Chase (3 months ago)
Two main reasons for rejection 1) not enough men in the upper echelon of looks, status -- majority of guys who are approaching are thus falling short on looks and status 2) too many men in the upper echelon of looks, status -- it might seem paradoxical, but research shows an overabundance causes the selector (the female in our culture, the 'gate keeper', the one who rejects) to become a lot more selective if there are large numbers of eligible men The takeaways from the research are: - if you're a guy lacking in looks/status/wealth/etc your rejection ratio will be noteworthy - if you're in a region with a lot of competition, even if you're a good looking guy with social prominence and money, your competition makes the available women become more selective because they have more options. Rejection will be a factor in your life - if you're in an area with an over-supply of women (there *are* areas of the country with that 'problem') you'll still suffer rejection Women are picky. The only way to deal with rejection is AVOID IT. How can you avoid rejection and still get laid? Play in a band. I figured that out in my teens and it worked great. Women suck, generally and they've gotten worse in our culture. Much worse. It's not their fault, it's the brainwashing of all the lesbians in their ranks that coerced them into thinking marriage/family/man as breadwinner was bad bad bad. . . . . . .
Russell Warrick (4 months ago)
In western culture yes. But away from western culture you can be needy and play no games. With Asian and other non western cultures they love nice guys and don't like bad boys. Basically it's because in western culture they date so so many guys they spoilt for choice and mix this with hedonism, drinking,etc there is a higher probability of being messed over so they have issues. Other cultures this doesn't happen, they meet guys through friends over dinner at home so no issues. Honestly take a simple step to change your demographic and see your success soar like I did. Will never look back. I'm generalising but that's my experience anyway.
Gabby J (4 months ago)
What if you're ugly and you will be rejected by every single person?
ADELINE PARRISH (4 months ago)
and hay all of people heres how i Deal with rejection WATCH TOM AND JERRY AND FIEND OUT
horsehungnigga j (4 months ago)
The wing girl hi
uncleelmer (4 months ago)
Actually a lot of the rejections I got were in the long run good because I can see that had things went differently it would have been worse than the rejection.
sadhu singh (4 months ago)
why the hell you get rejected you are already awesome
Soccer21 (4 months ago)
You rejected !? I don’t see why !? You’re so pretty
mike dee (4 months ago)
men must learn to view rejection as a good thing....that you are doing something right.....
Chirag Wasan (4 months ago)
Could you make a video on how to get out of friend zone ,if you're friends with her for 3 to 4 years , after being rejected, bcz rejection didn't affected the friendship much... Plz
Shania Frangipanini (4 months ago)
It depends on your view of rejection tbh..like what are they really rejecting? It could have literally nothing to do with you. Sometimes insecurity can cause rejection to take a toll on us as well, tell yourself it's their loss at all times, you know your value? Elevate It, embrace It, c'mon someone out there is looking for everything you've got inside you.. Oh yeah totally agree, change your perception on rejection
Gregoire Rad (4 months ago)
what is lindsay @instagram?? do ur research please
King Josiah (4 months ago)
Rejection does not exist! People miss out on exceptional opportunities.
rtcmanga (5 months ago)
Good honest advice. The subtitle noise is somewhat irritating. Also the length of the video with 10mins is too long. Now everybody is doing 10mins videos for the ads. Stop doing that. You can't use the time of viewers that much.
Robux Billionaire (5 months ago)
I’ve been rejected by the same girl multiple times, and probably will be 100 more times before I realise I don’t have a chance, but I care about her more than I’ve cared about anything, so I can’t just give up, no matter how painful it is, no matter how much I want to, I just can’t....
Lavan S (5 months ago)
I've been rejected 5 times. I want to die
Asea Holyweek (5 months ago)
I think the best way to deal with rejection is just not to take things personally, i mean its not about you!
Asea Holyweek (5 months ago)
Your welcome +The Attractive Man.
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Asea!
jesse haaland (5 months ago)
I have 5 nipples,I'm uniuqe.i get rejected when I show girls my 5 nipples.maybe it's cuz there lactating.
炎Kuraiji (5 months ago)
I don’t even have the calls to talk to women so I’m not even on that level
Western Revival (5 months ago)
I don't approach in the first place.
Derek Fischer (5 months ago)
I've been getting rejected since high school. I'm already a pro.
MKK (5 months ago)
I’ve been struggling with talking to women my whole life and I’m 28. Never had a girlfriend either. I needed this. Thank you.
Hundooey does it (5 months ago)
The rejection idea at the end of the video is absolutely genius... If u go in thinking rejection is success u just can't lose 👍
Rajesh Jha (5 months ago)
Love that
gorank soni (5 months ago)
@mattartisan thanks for these.i had dm you on insta and you made these video.thanks a lot
J German (5 months ago)
The audio on most of your videos is terrible. You need the help of a professional. You'll get more views and subscribers if you address this.
Patrick Keating (5 months ago)
Thank you Lindsay. You are a breath of fresh air with regards to dating advice on YouTube. I’ve been through rejections beyond counting and even a handful of failed relationships but I know I owe it to myself not to give up on finding the happy and fulfilling relationship that I know I deserve. Your advice is fantastic and I hope you keep on helping others realize their dating potential. Keep up the amazing work! 😊
tubularbill (5 months ago)
It’s usually because she’s very picky. Women today are incredibly picky.
Birol Kaplan (5 months ago)
Hey Man applied for free confidence cheat sheet but i didnt get it. Also i bought two program of you but didnt get any information. The reason i am writing here you dont respond email. I hope you see this and do something Thanks
isaiah Diaz (5 months ago)
Because some one is waiting for me in the future
isaiah Diaz (5 months ago)
I'm in high school but I usually get rejected often but I still love my self
Neal Sabel (5 months ago)
It's interesting how negative emotions translate to positive emotions through a proxy of negative perspectives transmigrating to positive dynamics of the binaural psychological distortion profiling affect, and within this constitution of negative to positive polarity we find ourselves at a dissolution between the vacuum of migrational paradigms in the distorted reality of time, space and all that is which binds the negative to positive characterisations of the uninhibited mental construct. After watching, suddenly it's all evidently clear to me.
Truth Seeker (5 months ago)
I expect to get rejected 90% of the time. Approach 10 women, get laid once. Just gotta approach. That’s the game. Approach. Approach. Approach. Get denied 9 times, get laid. Repeat
Joseph Torreski (5 months ago)
I usually dont ever talk shit about any body. But you are the gayest try hard I have ever seen. Same ass this is random line. Ive got more balls and looks than you fag. You look like a fag.
jinneemagic302 (5 months ago)
It is funny how people live like this. You all take so many things for granted.
nobodysperfect06 (5 months ago)
It's obviously easy for women to say because women don't have to deal with rejection like men do, because they don't have to do the approaching
Ennis Whalen (5 days ago)
+Daniel Faulkner - There seems to be a lot written about the fact that she is NOT ever going to love you back . . . on a totally unrelated note. . .that name you chose for your YouTube "handle" is a VERY special name in Philadelphia, PA . . . . .
Beemqueen 789 (1 month ago)
I’m a women and I recently told this guy I known in class I liked him and he said “thx but I’m talking to someone else” so yea I’m a girl that made the first move and got rejected. I think that when a women gets rejected it’s way worse cuz women never get rejected.
Itz_me_ Unicorn (2 months ago)
Nah bish if a girl wants it bad enough and has guts she ain’t gonna wait for him she will do it herself so stop being a sexist bitch
Daniel Faulkner (3 months ago)
So I had a crush for a long while until one time I thought it was the right time to ask her out. I thought she like me too but NO she rejected me in front of everybody like my friends siblings. But for some reason I still love her but I don’t know how to make her love me back
Satchel Channel (4 months ago)
We are men, we must do that. Women are not as brave as we are, and we must risk if we want to be happy
Swirv Fly (5 months ago)
guys, listen. get money and use woman’s hypergamous nature against them. be what they want and use them for sex. we have to take back control. is it fair? no. but neither is getting rejected for no reason without getting a chance to show her you are right for her. they wouldn’t reject a celebrity. reject her after you have sex with her.
Swirv Fly (5 months ago)
“she may look at her friend and say ‘actually, i think this person is right for you.’” lolol yeah right 🙄
Joel Bell (5 months ago)
But what if you get rejected because of who you are? Like what if you’re the lowest from of shit to ever crawl on the surface of this planet?
Easin arafat (5 months ago)
I just love getting rejected .
Morgow (5 months ago)
Girls are too expensive.
DarkSolidity (5 months ago)
This video didn’t help me I still want to die
DarkSolidity (5 months ago)
The Attractive Man got the friend speech last night with a girl I’ve been into for awhile and it was like the straw that broke the camel’s back. She was someone I’ve known for a long time I told her we could still be friends but that I needed time but it broke me hard... she gave a lot of signs that she was into me but I guess I misread.
DarkSolidity (5 months ago)
The Attractive Man it’s hard not to be... divorced, 5 break ups after, and countless rejections. I just feel numb and I’ve lost my ability to connect with people. I’m sick of feeling like this...
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
Don't be so negative!
Meshal (5 months ago)
As a man I see rejection from women is a normal thing because there are many reasons for rejection, they might think you are not their type, they have boyfriends, husbands, shy, bad day, social, personal and religious reasons or even unattracted which is a very normal thing, or in worst expectations she might think you are less than what she wants. Anyway you got to be a man and accept rejection. I have been rejected many times and accepted many times. Just be positive. Thank you for uploading the video.
Marko Mägi (5 months ago)
dentaldepot (5 months ago)
Change my hobbies and personality for a woman? No way. I know what I want and how to get it.
Vitor Ribeiro (5 months ago)
Rejection sucks. But once you realize that rejection is not a big deal you start to understand that people are unique. The problem is when a girl lies to you saying that she likes but inside she only likes the fact that you are caring, not you as a person. When you get rejected by a girl you just met it feels bad, but when you get rejected by a girl that you already like and you think that she's into you (but inside she's not)... well that feels a lot bad. Beeing rejected when you're in love that's the big deal. If I could give one advice for girls would be: if you don't like the guy, just say NO. And if you like him just as a friend, just be friendly, don't say things that might seem lovely, don't give him too much intimacy.
Bradley Tompkins (5 months ago)
I asked this girl at work on date and say no and she mean
Branio Fan (5 months ago)
In some cases rejection can be God's protection!
Michael Cunnane (5 months ago)
Social rejections are valuable experience, you can't escape from it until you accept rejection. Rejection exist because everyone has different needs, wants, different life outlooks. I learnt make sure there is no embarrassment, awkwardness for others, that's mean make sure the conditions are correct to deliver warmth, indirectly. Nothing else. Emotions drives behavior. Warmth is best emotion.
Rob T (5 months ago)
I've spent the last 4 months improving my fashion from square one. I wore oversized jeans and t-shirts and got rejected 99% of the time. Now I look like a male-doll. I hope that will make a difference and minimize the rejections.
kim lim (5 months ago)
who will gonna reject u
Jonny Enough (5 months ago)
Get a crotch rocket so they ask, after fucking them, ignore them. Your hair lacks volume.
max iifoojar (5 months ago)
Rejection is not fear i love rejection
The Gorn (5 months ago)
You can deal with rejection with one word: chloroform
Eddie Sanchez (5 months ago)
The Gorn The best way to make women chase you... Grab their purse and run.
Haki Mann (5 months ago)
I'd like to date Lindsay, she's smart, wise and sweet.
The Shady One (5 months ago)
Prettyyyyy... UHHH I MEAN GREAT ADVICE!!!!
Joe Trampozzo (5 months ago)
Q: How do I deal with rejection? A: I don't give a shit.

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