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Here are the top reasons why women may be rejecting you. ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: http://theattractiveman.com/f/confidence-cheat-sheet-sy ►►►Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? Learn more here: https://attractioninsights.com/training Tired of getting rejected? Don't want to hear that "No thank you." anymore? We've got the solution for you. And it's simpler than you think. Here are the 5 Reasons why women reject men, and how you can fix it! In today's Wing Girl Wisdom. Renee shows you the top reasons why women reject men. She'll explain how guys tend to always get these things wrong. She'll tell you what turns a girl off, and what you should never do in front of women! And get this: She'll tell you HOW to FIX it, too! She'll show you simple ways to turn a girl on. Even without having the looks to back it up! She'll show you what women truly desire in a man. She'll even tell you how to make a move in front of a girl you just met and instantly have her attracted to you! Renee shows: ► The top 5 reasons why women reject men. ► Things NOT to do or say in front of women. These are the things that turn a girl off. ► What to do when you approach a girl you like. These help increase your attractiveness. AND TURN A GIRL ON right from the start! ► Her number one advice to men to avoid getting rejected! #TheAttractiveMan #WingGirl #datingadvice We have international coaching just for you! ►►► See the boot camp schedule here: https://attractioninsights.com/bootcamps The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ ► FREE Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://theattractiveman.com/confidence-cheat-sheet-lh Want more dates? Check out the boot camp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.comom/lp/seduce-her-in-seconds/
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The Attractive Man (8 months ago)
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Steve A (2 months ago)
Hi Renee *Is it possible to pull a girl, lady, woman if you no longer work? Ie a stress disorder or something along those lines. Or simply if you can’t hold a job down like me and have had hundreds of jobs over the years but for various reasons never last?? I’m divorced now and in my 50s. I’m ex forces plus had many civilian jobs since leaving in late 80s also self employed brickie for years now wrecked joints to add but I can walk and I scrub up well which is a bonus. Anyway would very much value your opinion on this Renee especially when a woman asks that worn out first question what do I do? I usually say I’m a builder in between jobs but of course i don’t want to have to be economical with the truth especially if I end up going out with her afew weeks down the line. Anyway your view on this would be much appreciated and hopefully help others too! thanks. Steve*
Wael Faraj (2 months ago)
+Chris Akane the one who loves Seafoam Kitten's ASMR I have had similar experiences but life is wonderful to enjoy and redirect yourself into better ways that are endless and amazing . Leave her alone and decrease her importance. You are worthy and you could always get better at everything . There are billions of other girls . If someone doesn't want you , others are better. I wish you all the best my friend...
⚠️⚠️ Graphic Language ⚠️ damn bro I just tried to shoot my shot, with a girl ik from school yrs ago she had a BF, ok then she broke up and moved to my town at the time I lived In Her town , so yrs pass, I hit her up, like couple yrs ago. She politely rejected me, but now I remember her I saw her on insta a yr later (now) she only got like 3 pics. So I guess she rarely goes on there and she only like 19 I'm 21 btw. And so I hit her up earlier, I said what's up baby so u stay in ( my town) me too maybe we can go out if that's ok? She messaged me back so mean!!! She said " nigga don't come on me like that I'll get my man to beat you up wya? I messaged her back I said woah, it's just last time you were single, I didn't know I understand. No need for trouble. She said " nigga we don't even talk and don't ever talk to me in yo life". I'm like thinking in. My head bitch who TF u think u is. Nigga I'll whoop your dude bruh. But it's clearly not worth it. But IDK I just think she was really rude about it. And she could have not messaged me at all. I think she's in some kinda trouble, so not the girl I want iny life then. So I blocked her. But it's like damn I didn't know u have a BF how TF a nigga supposed to know, I'm just trying shoot my shot and u dog me like that stupid ass hoe. I ain't say all that but I'm thinking that so im kinda mad cuz if she ain't gonna say nothing nice don't say it at all you know. And I maybe have been in the wrong probably for messaging her IDK I mean how was a nigga supposed to know am I right? But anyway thanks guys.
Wael Faraj (2 months ago)
I like your advice and instructions . Could you make a video about making the life of couples more enjoyable , peaceful and self-fullfilling . Is it discussing spirituality, work , adventures , discovery , helping and supporting one another that are ways to strengthen the relationships ?
Wael Faraj (2 months ago)
+nonya biz Man , mostly everything and everyone in the world including girls , favor, have faith in and prefer the stongest in heart , mind and spirit. I am not saying girls are angels( neither are we men ) and there may be exceptions to the rule but girls are like all other creatures who love power , strength and joy. The most powerful attract the most usually because beauty is in power combined with peace and joy.
Simon Nwadikwa (1 day ago)
This sounds like working two full time jobs...
Chris Belaen (2 days ago)
I think I understand women more than this woman understands women. Lol
ben arellano (5 days ago)
In the end it’s the “i want you but i don’t need you”
ben arellano (5 days ago)
Be both a dog and a cat..
mcpartridgeboy (7 days ago)
NO the reason men are getting rejected is because western women are spoilt as fuck, they get literally thosands of offers every week and we have to learn everything to even stand a chance, dont let the woman fool you, the reason why you have to do so much isnt because your doing everything wrong its because you need to train rediculously hard because western women are spoilt as fuck, the odds ar literally thosands to one and thats only if the woman waits a week or 2 ! its no coincidence i got rejected by all women in the uk and yet when i went east to armenia i got a date straight away because there theres only 8 guys for every 10 women, women there dont get thosands of offers every week, they have to say yes to a guy if he asks because she wownt get asked again for a long time wereas in the west if a girl says no she will literally have another 200 offers by the end of the day , a few thosand offers by the end of the week and over 1 million offers after 5 years ! its simply just 100% the power gap, think about it, would women reject a guy that was too nice or didnt time his aporoach right or didnt come o to her too soon or too late if he was the only guy on the planer and there were 3 billion women :? no of course not, its just the power gap !
Firedrop2 (7 days ago)
this is why fleshlights were invented, women are insane
The Attractive Man (7 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!
Richard Aidoo (8 days ago)
high class girl looks at me bat reject me for the first time i approach her should i go again
PrettyInPink (9 days ago)
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news guys. But I'm confirming that women do indeed know what they want, and they will tell you. You just have to listen! It won't always be what you want to hear either.
top click4444 (10 days ago)
womens are soft with body but hard at heart men are hard with body but soft with heart 😂
how do you give someone a chase that you want when you want someone you're automatically being too full on which put the girl in the position of leading the chase, how do you flip that around especially in the day and age of social media, I'm sure there's many other guys also trying to get with the same girl
Blood Reaper (12 days ago)
I thought I would give it a go and try to win her, but then I realized why the fuck would I want someone who rejects me
robert gurciullo (16 days ago)
Rather than listen to this chick , think I'd rather rent one
The Attractive Man (15 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!
Dr Johnson Hungwell (18 days ago)
I love to reject them the looks on their faces is priceless.
The Attractive Man (17 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!
fenderstratocaster (21 days ago)
Finding balance, not to passive, not too aggressive. Not too nice, not too rude.
Dj Jones (22 days ago)
fellas, 90% you get rejected is because your ugly. Nun you can do about it. You just gotta settle for ugly girls
KerrBox (23 days ago)
Can we just tell the blunt truth and say that some guys are plain and simply NOT attractive?
Hela Goddess Of Death (23 days ago)
why = no money what = YOUR BROKE DUDE
Daniel Bengtsson (25 days ago)
All you say make sense! I feel I am on the right track anyway... I try to think what James Bond would have done. Not that he is my ideal raw model what a man should be like, but there is something about his behaviour that correlates to the advice you give.
Jordan Dsouza (25 days ago)
Don't take fishing advice from a fish LMAO 😂
bubbajack black (28 days ago)
I like your ideas about what guys need to do.. I'm staring at your red lips and your body language. You're way to hyper to be believed calm down and have a more controled presentation. Are you bipolar ? because you're talking way to fast... slow down that way I w;on't have to use closed captions inorder to understand what your saying.... :-)
L Gardner (28 days ago)
Long video short. It's all the man's fault.
Landshark 0068 (29 days ago)
I reject women, and not the other way around.
eddiespagheddie (29 days ago)
To get out of the friend zone is to friend zone her, fuck a lot of other chicks, treat her as your bro and get over her. Then she’ll chase. By then you won’t need her and you’ll find many more women u prefer over her. It’s hard but it feels incredible eventually!
madaz13bbp (30 days ago)
A well described list of reasons why not to bother dating western women.
Its ASetUp (30 days ago)
I think in the name of equality, men should start rejecting women more often until the numbers are even.
Dhammavijaya Dh (30 days ago)
Plutonic? This advice might be a bit Mickey Mouse.
koko sky (1 month ago)
Reject you if you look poor.guy, but once she knows you are loader, she.will regret n probable she.will look for you to.come.back.
William Slocum (1 month ago)
Par for the course, not to much, not to little, changes like the waves in the sea. Don't hold your breath. You can't do it right because she is saving up everything you do wrong to dump on you later. She will not tell you until, "that is the last straw" And it will all come out. Hang your hat near the door!!!
J Ex (1 month ago)
Best advice for guys is focus on yourself an your goals. Never about these women cuz they need you a hella of alot more than you need them. 💯✌
Eric Hernandez (1 month ago)
You're simply beautiful Renee. 💙
Round One (1 month ago)
women like to be groped ive done it on 2 women damn it worked
Joshua Rugger (1 month ago)
Cool so the reason I get rejected is because I am to nice. Time to be a rude jerk!
Jerry Ryan (1 month ago)
Women play too many Headgames & women are WAY OVERATED!!! I'm not gay just saying the truth, they think the world revolves around them!!!
John Wahl (1 month ago)
Hi there! So just because I am way above average in looks means I lack confidence??? So the truth is that other men are the ones who lack confidence. When these so called confident men get around me, weather it's at the gym, or at a party, or wherever there are women and I'm there, they are the ones who unravel because the truth is that I don't have to have a woman to be happy. A lot of men seem, yes I said seem to feel like they don't have to have a woman to feel confident, but rather a BEAUTIFUL woman. Now with that having been said. In the book of Proverbs God says and the LORD will be your confidence. Now it is impossible to be more confident than that. Just because I am a beautiful man does now mean I am insecure. I have nothing to be insecure about. I am what I am. In other words... You see I don't want a woman who lacks confidence and a funny sense of humor. The door swings both ways. Men like to throw insults at me because they are jealous,and the ones who have to learn how to act around women and how to talk to them. It is pathetic. And yes I am a gentlemen. I couldn't care any less about... It is so sad... It's like God said "I am that I am.". I don't need any advice from a man or a woman. I get my best advice from my father. It is just that YouTube has changed over the years. It used to be great for listening to music. Now it has become really weird. And I mean really WEIRD. I feel like men out there must NOT have any confidence and the ones that claim they do are really just snakes. They are NOT truly confident. And that's a fact. I stumbled upon your show. However at least you are giving sound advice. And when a woman does not show interest in me I'm perfectly ok. They don't have to. It's that simple. Just like I don't have to date a woman who I'm not attracted to. Interesting topic, but sad. Thanks for the upload!!!
MrBamshy (1 month ago)
I'd like to see the video of what you tell women
castlev1986 (1 month ago)
it's easy go mgtow.
Jesus Satan (1 month ago)
Bitch, you’re really annoying.
Divyansh Saxena (1 month ago)
I didnot get ur free escalation and confident cheat sheet as I have already tried soo many times.... Plz do something with it🙏
Chris Namaste (1 month ago)
So women want what they want, when they want it, and now? How is that different than a two year old?
Chris Namaste (1 month ago)
This woman must be on Adderall--gives me a headache. Go to .75 speed and it is listenable.
Frank Castle (1 month ago)
I do like these videos, but sometimes they can make us even more confused. I think the key is not to focus too much on her as we guys need to be leaders. I have this "artistic personality" so I am always a bit confuse about myself and I can't be that CONFIDENT guy all women like. On the other hand I show my flaws and they see this a courage attitude. I know I am not attractive to many women because of that but on the other had there are women who are more sensitive and are intrigued by my personality (1 of 4), they do want to help me to move on in life and to understand myself but also are so intersted for what I do that this really boosts my confidence. I am almost 40 and people say I look 30, I don't make much effort on women, most of them are below my age, so I am more experienced and I've been through so much more things than a girl in her 20-30. I feel pretty confortable interacting with them. I worked a lot about being ok whith myself when I am alone, having a great life WITHOUT DATING ANY WOMAN and also not having sex. I think that triggles something in them and also breaks the needness that many of us guys have.   On the other hand I just love the way women see the world, the way they express themselves, their subcomunications. If there is something I could say to you guys reading this is to make them FEEL, give them EMOTIONS and never put them on first place in your lives, they love this freedom of being able to be themselves and walk away anytime they want because we are not dependent on them.
Nawaz Khan (1 month ago)
Love you 💖🌷💖
Rajat Kumar (1 month ago)
It's all about looks.
sherif el housseini (1 month ago)
i am a 41 years old man who got work and is saving money yet i encounter women in my age who want stability, when you sit and talk to them you hear a child who is barely 12, maturity is a lost word for the majority of women, they never realize that self entitlement has an expiry date. we dont have to put efforts on individuals who have zero self knowledge
Explore17 (1 month ago)
I asked her out 2 hours ago: she said she has some volunteering work to do and cant make it out anytime soon with me... next! 😕 (let me guess... I didnt put in enough effort with her? I literally tried to pick her up although it was our 2nd meeting!).
Secular - Atheist (1 month ago)
women are fucking crazy !!! Wish I was gay ! :)
Chad Urbanek (1 month ago)
I was raised up most of my life to be a gentleman and got rejected a lot as a teenager for the way I looked. In other ways, my apparel game did not match my talking game. Now, I'm in shape and I think that the reason I got rejected is because of the flaws I have which I'm trying to work on, but it hasn't been easy. Women do flirt with me from time to time, but I fear that if they found out my flaws that they wouldn't want anything to do with me. I have been in relationships that didn't work out because of this and almost all of the women I've been with always had something wrong with them. I dated these type women because they understand where I'm coming from and they don't judge me too quickly, but keeping a relationship with them goes down the toilet quickly. Now, beautiful women flirt with me and I can tell, but I don't want to misinterpret their intentions and automatically assume anything because I know that's going to screw me over. I want to be with a beautiful woman, but I feel like I may come off the wrong way like I did as a teenager which can be stressful because I don't want history to repeat itself again. I'm at that point in my life where I want to get married and have kids and all that, but I feel I'll been an old man before that happens because I can't catch a break. I'm working on my confidence, but can you please help me get out of this rut.
Robert Phillips (1 month ago)
You lose when you think you're a loser. I'd rather win a million dollars than have an attractive and very pretty young lady.
Dr Johnson Hungwell (18 days ago)
I'd like to win the million dollars and then watch them fight for a chance and reject them.
Jim Walsh (1 month ago)
..before you reject me, ..just a few quick questions… #1-why are you not back in your kitchen, #2-have you finished your daily 30 minute job blowing me…. o.k. that's good, now, I'm sorry , did you saying something ??
adam kings (1 month ago)
I love that you say we women are always jumping our guns. you couldn't get most women to say those words lol
Rahman Ansari (1 month ago)
Your lips are very sexy
Rahman Ansari (1 month ago)
Looking very hot
Rahman Ansari (1 month ago)
Looking sexy
Rahman Ansari (1 month ago)
Looking gorgeous
Rahman Ansari (1 month ago)
You are looking so beautiful girl
Man Himself (1 month ago)
Sounds like getting a job in NASA
Ananda Krishnan (1 month ago)
How to contact you
Dillon Shaw (1 month ago)
I'm always in the fuck zone :D. We usually always end up staying friends too I just never date them anymore. None of them so fsr seem worthy to keep around tbh
Americana Bear (1 month ago)
Half way through this video. Shes exhuasted me. At 41, after three marriages Im not putting this level of effort into another person ever again. Its not worth it. And by confidence she means money in yr bank account.
Sundar Prabhu (1 month ago)
This is good but it's a little faster. make it slower and give subtitles it will be helpful for a lot of friends.
Aditya Thakar (1 month ago)
After watching this video I got more depressed!
AJ Castro (1 month ago)
Feminist crap dont listen to this hienas. Go travel to 3 world find a real quality woman that Will submit to men with love. Mgtow
p_ _ (1 month ago)
TOO!!
Wayne Beriman (1 month ago)
This is a women to steer clear of .
Nick Maze (2 months ago)
Who cares
Siddharth Singh rathore (2 months ago)
So basically there is no way.....u have to be born perfect....
Nick W (2 months ago)
And this is why men decide to go gay.
Steve A (2 months ago)
Hi Renee *Is it possible to pull a girl, lady, woman if you no longer work? Ie a stress disorder or something along those lines. Or simply if you can’t hold a job down like me and have had hundreds of jobs over the years but for various reasons never last?? I’m divorced now and in my 50s. I’m ex forces plus had many civilian jobs since leaving in late 80s also self employed brickie for years now wrecked joints to add but I can walk and I scrub up well which is a bonus. Anyway would very much value your opinion on this Renee especially when a woman asks that worn out first question what do I do? I usually say I’m a builder in between jobs but of course i don’t want to have to be economical with the truth especially if I end up going out with her afew weeks down the line. Anyway your view on this would be much appreciated and hopefully help others too! thanks. Steve*
wayne allen (2 months ago)
Very nice
Earthly Life (2 months ago)
Why are women so complicated and stupid? Let's play the chess game then...
Sivakumar (2 months ago)
U have beautiful eyes.
B&S London (2 months ago)
Guys female robot revolution is coming
Mick Faro (2 months ago)
Don't be confident in love only, but be confident in life first. The rest wil follow
Toluwalope Adekoya (2 months ago)
She is always telling me she does not like to text is that possible
Nurkey Ali (2 months ago)
Only one rule maintain a sexual tension between you and her. Remember it's just a game try pushing the boundaries hold her ask her to listen to music with you.
Pr Sego (2 months ago)
When introducing yourself on a dating site , like Ashley Madison or Adult Frind Finder what is an appealing, fun, worth fucking kind of intro note, that interests someone to contact you as a potential mate (short term/long term)
Abiy Kuza (2 months ago)
In short find ur self.
Abiy Kuza (2 months ago)
Thank you. This is a real tAlk.
Steven Plata (2 months ago)
Ted Bundy found a short cut for this problem.
Sunset Shimmer Gaming (2 months ago)
*friendzone* Not a real thing
Jayant Yadav (2 months ago)
I don’t fear rejection. Women have become the man they wanted. And I cant stay with another man. 20% women who still are womenly have become very difficult to find or are taken. That’s what we have 20% slot
I met God shes Black (2 months ago)
1. Be a smoking hot guy 2. Have a shit ton of money 3. Become an asshole alpha male 4. Say all the right words 5. Don't be ugly
EinSofQuester (2 months ago)
Because you're ugly. It's not rocket science LOL
Bad Bobby Z (2 months ago)
5 reason 1.you don't have enough money 2. You don't have a cool car 3. You're not 6 foot 4 4. The earth is flat 5. The moon is made out of cheese
Darkstar (26 days ago)
actually it's all about whether she wants to fuck you or not
Mike Walsh (2 months ago)
after hearing this clip, I gotta take a nap. ..whew....I'm just being myself and if a woman doesn't like that then, she's free to date the asshole who'll probably end up abusing her down the road while trying to change him into the kind of guy SHE wants him to be, and THAT will NEVER pan out for her.
CAPRICORN WOLF (2 months ago)
Grab them by the pussy. I'll save you from the dragon then eat that oyster for 17 hrs???
CAPRICORN WOLF (2 months ago)
I'm Alpha on steroids. Latin of course.
CAPRICORN WOLF (2 months ago)
From nothing to extreme harem...that's moi. Focus!
Chris Sandoval (2 months ago)
Ahhhh... I think I'll just focus on my studies lol
martin ernesto pinta (2 months ago)
I watch your videos over and over and I always come to the same questions....¿ How can we apply all these techniques to approach to woman when we are talking about someone that changes hemotionaly every second according to EVERYTHING around and inside out...? It sounds to me like "you have to be born for that" cause if you don´t...wel...you don´t. The Cyrano de Bergerac remains, you know... It would be so easy if woman would be trained in "Not to expect from man that he will resolve, riddle and guess all the time in detail what you woman want to..."
Chris Abbott (2 months ago)
Rejection don't hurt the way you interpret it hurts....
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
Thanks for the comment!
ihatescreennames89 (2 months ago)
Fix it? Never ask the same person out twice. Rejection doesn't need a fix. It's just a numbers game. Ask other people out until someone says yes. Easy.
Ducati M (2 months ago)
Rule number one, never take getting advice from other women if you’re a man
Bruno lopes (2 months ago)
I think its time to educate women to the idea that they have to fight for men too.... they are not the center of the universe and thats not only men that have to feel the pain of rejection....
The Attractive Man (2 months ago)
Thanks for the comment!
khalel khaled (2 months ago)
if you are the kind of guy that already married and this video is not for you anymore.
Johnny Napoletano Jr (2 months ago)
It’s all about what you look like at the time what she’s looking for the time how she evaluates yourself with the shit professional or whatever OK OK it’s all a bunch of crap they don’t even go by their own rules anyway they’re running by their hormones from day-to-day one hormone one day they wanna have sex next time and then I want to be bothered crap garbage
Stephen Jack (2 months ago)
I wonder if a woman would like u if you jus be your self nowadays?
Esse Missmo (2 months ago)
The only reason why I do get rejected all the time is because I do exist therefore I think I know how to fix it
doobiewah357 (2 months ago)
I kissed the girl of my dreams and she said my breath smelled like the Unabomber's taint.
COLD GAME EXPOSED (2 months ago)
🤔👍 💯

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