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Spark Attraction Using Push-Pull

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Artisan talks about the concept "Push-Pull" that you can use to keep from showing too much interest or too much disinterest. ►►► Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? Learn more here: https://attractioninsights.com/training HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN & TRIGGER SEXUAL ATTRACTION: http://theattractiveman.com/lp/seduce-her-in-seconds Want to train with us? See the Boot Camp Schedule Here: http://attractivemantraining.com/ww-boot-camps/ ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson
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Roodly F Buts (9 days ago)
Told a girl I like her hair. I don't think I'd even recognize her if she cut it short enough to get rid of the bleached part. End of the day as I'm walking out of the building her and her friend are like five feet behind me. I opened the door and threw it open as I left. Her friend has a remark about me not holding open doors for them and she pipes in too. I just kept walking and picked out a song on my phone without giving them any attention. Don't know if I did push pull right.
aun hussain (17 days ago)
I think he is working on some new sort of tips.......o hail, bravo
The Attractive Man (17 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!
aun hussain (17 days ago)
What has happend to master, has he become overconfident or pretentious as to sport silly look...
murphsviews (11 days ago)
aun hussain he recorded this video 6 years ago!
Bryan McCallum (30 days ago)
This is very helpful! Thank you!
JaXa GAME (1 month ago)
It’s a fucking horse shoe!
Luka Haenraets (1 month ago)
Push, pull, legs
OnlyFromAbove JP (2 months ago)
Great video, ur a cool dood.
Toronto3 77 (2 months ago)
Wtf, you’re hair looks weird
bianca pianca (2 months ago)
Guys, you look so silly doing these things because nowadays everyone knows about push and pull games. Once I realize a guy is doing it, I walk away because this is a sign that he is not mature, he is not secure and his confidence is fake. If everyone knows about all the games what is the point of playing? Still so many guys are doing it. The ones that do not play actually stand out. If you really have options, you would not be afraid to man up and ask a girl out and you would not care if you get rejected because you have real confidence and your confidence does not decrease by a girl's polite rejection. If a relationship begins by games, it is a clear sign to me that it will not last. If a girl really likes you, she will like you when you play no games. If a girl does not like you, you can make her curious and maybe she will chase for a little while but eventually once she gets you she will walk away. You only attract low quality women that do not know what they want by playing games.
hari sparrow (3 months ago)
U r my role model 😍😍 I want to speak to u 😭😭😭 a girl rejected me ,ur advice is healing me and understand my mistakes 😭😭
Zild Benitez (3 months ago)
Mehn u look bad back in the days HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH
johnyou35 (3 months ago)
Tell her “come here and give me a hug” Then when she gets close, bust her in the mouth.
JackofSpades (5 months ago)
Look at that fucking hairstyle! Loling in 2018
Andrew Johnson (5 months ago)
I'm really glad you re-thought your look over the years. This look made you look like Jean-Baptiste Emanuel Zorg.
Ryan Cerny (7 months ago)
Are you sure the finger wagging isn't too condescending?
J Gomes (7 months ago)
push-pull is amazing, the only problem is finding the balance so you dont push her away for good, i m having a hard time figuring out her blue print but i think once you do it right you can have a better idea if you should push more or pull. it takes time.
The Attractive Man (7 months ago)
Yes, man, once you got it right, that'd awesome! Patience, understanding and practice will help 🙂
creemyice (11 months ago)
Push pull method works with doors aswell
DentGaming (7 months ago)
Time to fuck a door now..
XMLS (11 months ago)
Hahaha wtf is that hair man
UNDERSCORELXRD (5 months ago)
XMLS ooooo got em doin cocaine with the black dudes YEHAAAAAA loook
stoic (5 months ago)
It's disgusting
LanguageOfTheMad (6 months ago)
He looks like that guy from The Fifth Element
Jose Torres (11 months ago)
Take advice from a guy with this hair? Lmao
Underwear Baker (1 year ago)
6:01 pinky swear you serious ? Shes gonna think Im fucking gay if I say that shit
Fagot Reich (1 year ago)
this bullshit will get you nowhere, look bro, dont overcomplicate things, either she likes you or she dont. do your best to be the best guy you know. excercise, do things you like hangout with people you like, get your career going. its what you do when she dont see you that counts the most. And then when you are at the bar or somewhere. go to her only if your eyes meet for more than 2 seconds, even then she might be just increasing her confidence but if she dont even know you exist she will brush you off 99 times out of 100. trust your gut feeling on this. if you feel some spark chances are she feels it too. dont focus on outcome. You will fail alot. there is no shortage of competition and chicks are choosy, even the ugly ones. But those who never loose are those who never risk. BRO tips: dont go for the hotest chick. Dont even go for chick you find too attractive, start on whatever girl you find barely doable and talk to her, it will relieve a lot of stress and you will be able to talk to her more relaxed and fear of rejection will simply not be there. flirting is a game, so keep your difficulty low until you know what you are doing, and work your way up.
Darth Dogoz (1 year ago)
Is that the same guy?!... That hairstyle
Mr. L (1 year ago)
So basically a tsundere?
Ken Weezy (1 year ago)
Yeah I'm all the way fucced up with this shyt here mayne.
S UT (1 year ago)
I think my bf took your advice. He pushes me away then expects me to still be interested. Three years into it I'm dealing with these mind games? Woe doesn't work.
NickBash onYT (28 days ago)
S UT I see what you did there
92kosta (1 year ago)
It's funny how you are giving an example by saying "We'll go up to my house real quick, but no funny business. OK?", where, on the other hand, the "funny business" is all you think about doing with a girl.
E yooo! (1 year ago)
His hair?..😂
kirbythebamf (1 year ago)
How Newton's are in the push/pull?
Dan Dude (1 year ago)
I understand why women are attracted to push-pull methods. It is because women are crazy and have bipolar or other personality disorders and see themselves in you because of your crazy illogical behavior. Again men are not crazy to try this. I don't because I hate crazy people and acting crazy could turn you into crazy. Women are just like dumb animals. It's all by instinct. Men who do this are just hunters who know how to play you. Thank God Hillary didn't become president. No woman should ever become president. Ever. Because women are just stupid animals who don't think things through.
Joe M (6 months ago)
Nope wahmen do the same thing to men dude. Been doing it since Cleopatra. If anything, men learned this technique from women. It's seduction. Keeps things ambiguous, keeps them wondering. Play on a sense of loss. Drives people nuts. Either gender.
Марк Юрьевич (6 months ago)
We all are animals actually. We all decide whether or not a person is attractive by instinct. The thing is that men's attraction instinct is way too simple - if a girl looks good, she's good enough for you to want to bang with her. But see, women can't bang with everyone around them. Simply because they will have to wait 9 months before they can bang again (yes, i know that you can bang during pregnancy, but still). So they really have to decide. Men just need to bang without any decision. A man wouldn't bang the girl that is super unattractive. But the rest ( Bellow, middle or above middle ) - they all would be wanted. Because men don't need to wait. So you're just as animal as they are, but your instincts are more simple. Who's to blame? I think it's men who are animals, because they bang without making any decisions. Women make decisions and decide whose genes are good. If a guy is not needy it means his genes are on the level. In this way, she decides him as the guy whose genes are good.
Johan van Burik (9 months ago)
C A onnnn meee ahahaha this pinky dicked fool got cucked and he’s ragging on what he can’t get 😂
C A (10 months ago)
Someone got burned bad...chug down a chill pill and take care of yourself bro
92kosta (1 year ago)
What does Hillary has to do with dating and seduction?
Vladimir Garcia (1 year ago)
can you translate your film? to spanish please thx
Silver Rain (1 year ago)
It only works with stupid girls who don't know this game. Using all this mind games... and we wonder why modern relationships are so shallow and meaningless. People get cut up in all the games and never grow up. Dopamine junkies are sick for life.. 😂
JaXa GAME (1 month ago)
Silver Rain maybe stop being so smart then, we men don’t know any better.
Jake Becerra (1 year ago)
Silver Rain so this has been used on u prominenly then?
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
As a man with other dating options, he should never be fully invested in a girl immediately. That would completely turn the girl away.
srg007 (1 year ago)
Brilliant!
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks for the comment man!
James (1 year ago)
Women are so childish and stupid that men can just use some simple techniques to grab them by the pussies.What a pathetic species!
Tania Sab (2 years ago)
That's no gentleman advice ! Lol and never say bad girl after a first kiss!!!
12345a (2 months ago)
unless they rich af
12345a (2 months ago)
well gentlemen never get women
Chiefloudmouth (2 years ago)
haha it's all fun and games till u fuck around and say "I don't like/date blondes then that blonde roast tf out of u and make u rethink ur whole life😂😂
hoolywood07 (2 years ago)
I'm sorry . But fellas I'm never saying "YOU BAD GIRL" . It's so fuckin corny bro 😂😂
92kosta (1 year ago)
And what wasn't obviously corny in this video?
Mark Clark (2 years ago)
for fucks sake, do they make girls you don't have to bull shit your way to their heart
92kosta (1 year ago)
I sincerely hope so.
Ishmael Raines (2 years ago)
women have just become  too complex but its biting back at them why cant they simple and know that men are ordinary beingsnand we mean just what we are saying
12345a (2 months ago)
life's not supposed to be easy bro
Will Lopez (2 years ago)
Matt Artisan, genius; absolute respect ... (concept of push pull -- interest/disinterest)
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks for the comment man!
Andrew Speid (2 years ago)
You definitely got my ratings bro on point this shit actually works
Darius Malone (2 years ago)
At first glance I have a hard time believing this nigga gets bitches
jdubb408 (1 year ago)
he's a numbers collector of flakey Numbers
aj buckman (1 year ago)
Darius Malone same like 😂
Jerry Costilla (1 year ago)
Lol .. but yeah mind games smh the things we do because keeping it real ain't real no more ..they don't know what they want themselves lol..
J Barnz (2 years ago)
audio jockey hehe. he speaking facts tho. shit works like a charm.
Chiefloudmouth (2 years ago)
Darius Malone I was dead when he said he pushes her away then they'll chase him😂😂
Mercy305 (2 years ago)
if you think all guys we should do this, the best guy that stands out from the rest is the one that does not play games and expresses himself and take her feelings into consideration.
tez Sharpe (7 months ago)
To be fair... I used these tactics too the girls I have kids with now and I didn't get it from this video lol.. Was actually from a book just general flirting tactics and having a bit of wit. Every guy is needy but u have to have self control over yourself now that's attacrive too a girl.
Sierrah Hofzon he's not getting any because that's what the good guys do
Sierrah Hofzon (2 years ago)
Mercy305 do you get women?
Hafid Muhammad (2 years ago)
Can you gain her attraction back after you gave her to much attention with this method?
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
I recommend emailing Matt. Thanks man!
Kathleen Castro (1 year ago)
d___
DEVINECLUB (2 years ago)
Hafid Muhammad you can never give a women too much attention at first...The key is to turn it off asap till she temporally acts right then you show her some and I do mean little to almost none kind of attention for motivation for her to want more.
smileyourock (2 years ago)
restrictions - promise that...
Kathleen Castro (2 years ago)
Good advice for mind games I guess. Players advice.
Don't ask man woman started all this bullshit
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks for the comment
lalo rc (10 months ago)
Kathleen Castro because woman are the masters of mind games that is why sweetheart
Jerry Costilla (1 year ago)
mr Kuk you're right Mr Kuk I got with a female for the second time in a year and made her my girl when we were just FWB it ended not far from there we talked a year again afterwards just simple chatting.. right me I wanted to know bad what went wrong that's just me.. well again this is like over a year we "broke up" and she finally came out herself and told me that she ended it because she knew she had me.. I wanted to press her when it ended but I left it alone the truth always comes to light.. I still liked her but after what she said I was like naw fool me once shame you lol
mr Kuk (1 year ago)
Kathleen Castro well if a guy loves you more than anything and is completely honest about that as soon as he thinks about it, he will be needy. For those who cant see it themselves, studies have shown that women are more attracted to men whos feelings for them are unknown. As soon as she finds out how much he likes/loves her, the desire for him drops. I can see how this push-pull thing can become abusive at a certain point. But it really seems as if we need to be a bit dishonest/manipulative and make you wonder how we feel, if we want you to stay with us. Easy for you women to say "ooh we just want nice guys who always shows how much he loves us". For us its not that simple if we dont want you to divorce us and take our children and material belongings.. You dont need to worry about this stuff since men dont work like this. But you must instead worry about your looks aswell as things like chastidy. Wich im sure can be hard too.
Senuol Icak (2 years ago)
it's like penetration somehow !!!!! lol push it........pull it !!
Mark Hemming (2 years ago)
Don't most women realise that guys are using this push-pull technique on them? And they still fall for it? Maybe I'm missing something.
Mark Hemming (2 years ago)
+Obie Hive thanks for replying. I guess women just don't think about these techniques like us guys do. They just enjoy the conversation!
spoonman73 (2 years ago)
Well done, man. Thanks for all of the real world examples.
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks for the comment man!
j s (2 years ago)
u really explained this really good.i know all the time that this push pull got to come natural.not with lines
Charlie Nonya (2 years ago)
LOL. Where's his fedora?
92kosta (1 year ago)
Gone missing on Reddit.
row0111 (2 years ago)
females are so animal like, well I know we are all animals, but its like a game of fucking donkey kong
Mental Circus Podcast (2 years ago)
+John Doe this^^^^
Himamshu C (2 years ago)
Ur awesome bro Thnx a lot Love uuu
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
+Himamshu C This is an old video but thanks for liking!
drin shaelon (3 years ago)
+The Attractive Man this guy should have a million views ....like seriously
x moses (3 years ago)
2:32 isn't that a neg?
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
+Moses one a Bootcamp or 1on1 training is going to be the best and fastest way to improve your skills because it's live practice and feedback. Watching videos can only offer info. You need practice to improve. It's just like going to the gym. Watching workout advice isn't going to give you muscles. You need practice but you have to make sure you are doing it the proper way. Check out our different options at theattractiveman.com as we have some affordable bootcamps worldwide. Good luck!
Moses Castillo (2 years ago)
+The Attractive Man will a boot camp help if so how ? I'm terrible with girls terrible it's depressing
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
This is a question that would take pages to answer. Have you considered taking a boot camp?
Moses Castillo (2 years ago)
+The Attractive Man how do I overcome shyness and nervousness around girls and not know what to say
x moses (3 years ago)
+The Attractive Man I know you are very experienced. But I'm pretty sure that remark was a neg since it conveys disinterest and doesn't put her in pedestal. Also i don't know where you got that from but negs arn't supposed to make a girl feel bad, they're humorous and should make the girl feel good/laugh.
Tara Trowbridge (3 years ago)
Genius
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks man!
Stunt Dix (3 years ago)
Good vid but Jason puts it better
Cassius Stroman (3 years ago)
Very well detailed description of push pull techniques...good shit dude.
The Attractive Man (3 years ago)
+Cassius Stroman Thanks!
Sara Adam (3 years ago)
I understand this. BUT, what's wrong with wanting to talk on a regular basis to get to know eachother? It doens't mean you are all over that person or needy. But how are you supposed to get to know eachother if we keep playing these games? Even in conversations you can do a push and pull. Grrr... I actually find all these things so confusing and I end up getting scared to open up for someone.
CREME FRAICHE (1 year ago)
Kathleen Castro oh yes it fucking is kathleen . Because if you start giving her attention and love she calls you clingy and needy .if you don't she says you are negelzcting her . Ladies fucking choose . If i love a woman im not going to start measuring up how much attention i should give her per day . I would just really love her and show it to her and then i would regret it because she would see me as clingy and will go cheat on me on that guy who plays the " idgaf" attitude .
Kathleen Castro (1 year ago)
So its the women's fault that men play mind fuck games, right, right.
Rozli Yusof (3 years ago)
Its not about playing games-sadly women dont work with logic.thats why u see nice guys not having dates but the hooligans have plenty.And hopefully now u see how women make men's life difficult.we have to learn all these nonsense.Funny that our ancestors dont need them.-why? becoz men in those times were all high value in women's eyes.Humans evolve.We need them now becoz women are not dependent on men anymore.The rules have changed and so the way we men should interact with women
Daniel Laver (3 years ago)
That big BUT you used showed that your not willing to listen and have a closed mind to the subject. You just want to talk.
Matt Ardisson (3 years ago)
+Miss Earthling Great question and its really not about playing games. It's about actually being a challenge because you have standards and options. When you see yourself as the prize you will naturally show interest and disinterest.
camilla bringner (3 years ago)
Ok so let's make a video in reverse. Should the girls play the same way? ;)
12345a (2 months ago)
i don't think you need to. you're attractive
Kick Bam (8 months ago)
Hossain Wassim yes on me
Hossain Wassim (9 months ago)
yeahhhhhh now it's 3 years any girl has tried that ??
CREME FRAICHE (1 year ago)
camilla bringner NOOO DONT DO IT DONT FUCKING DO IT .
Julio's Evil Twin (1 year ago)
Well it's been two years Camilla, how'd that hustle go for you?
skione n (4 years ago)
Amazing technique thx
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
Thanks man!
Kovats Balint (5 years ago)
great advices, thx
The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
You're welcome man!

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