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3 Ways to Overcome Approach Anxiety (NY Seminar with Matt Artisan)

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THIS is how you overcome approach anxiety with 3 simple steps! ► Claim your free Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/3-ways-overcome-approach-anxiety ►►► Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? More details here: https://attractioninsights.com/training ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/ Feeling anxious whenever you're around beautiful women? Do you get flustered when you face hot girls? Most men lose it and just seem to freeze whenever they see a girl they like. That my friend is approach anxiety. It happens even to the best of us. But don't worry, that's what we're here for! We'll show you how to remove anxiety, gain confidence and transform into the attractive man you are destined to become! Matt Artisan talks to his students about eliminating the fear of approaching beautiful women. He has these 3 steps that will do wonders for your confidence and get rid of anxiety. Matt talks about how normal it is to be anxious. He has it! But the trick is not to let it hold you back. What you do is OVERCOME this anxiety. And you could do so by following his 3 simple steps all based on science and psychology! Matt explains: ► His method to EMBRACE the fear instead of FIGHTING it. And how easy it is to overcome anxiety once you accept it. ► The science and psychology behind his techniques to remove approach anxiety! ► How to use the "WORST CASE SCENARIO" (Flooding) and PROGRESSIVE DESENSITIZATION - 2 psychological methods to eliminate fear and anxiety. Want to be better at meeting and dating girls? ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/ Matt Artisan is the leading expert in transforming the lives of men and empowering them to create authentic relationships. He was voted "World's Best New Dating Coach". Over the past 7 years, he's coached men in over 40 countries, including U.S.A., Australia, Germany, Czech Republic, Denmark, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India, Dubai, and many more... He's the creator of Turn Her On Through Text, the C.Q.C. Day Game Method, and the 2-Minute Chase Me Method. ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattartisan www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ ► Claim your free Confidence Cheat Sheet: https://attractioninsights.com/confidence-cheat-sheet/yt/ma/3-ways-overcome-approach-anxiety ►►► Want us to personally take you out and show you how to meet women? More details here: https://attractioninsights.com/training ► See the boot camp schedule here: https://daygametraining.com/training-schedule/
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The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
What's your biggest fear when approaching women? ►►►Boot camp schedule here: http://daygametraining.com/ ►►►Confidence Cheat Sheet: http://www.theattractiveman.com/confidence-cheat-sheet-ma/
Ctaig Woolsey (3 months ago)
Navn (3 months ago)
Oh no, there comes that guy who always needs directions...
Sum Ting Wong (4 months ago)
That guy who said that first step of overcoming fear of approaching is swiping on Tinder is dumb... Jesus
Jesús Gallardo (6 months ago)
Congrats on following your life calling man. Listening from someone who has actually surpassed his fears is both enlightening and inspiring.
The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
Thanks for the comment man!
Denis (6 months ago)
Thank you very much!
chovie23q (7 months ago)
Matt, what are you meant to do when you're afraid that they will be just harsh or mean to you or don't exactly know what to say or to keep the conversation going smoothly?
me me again (5 months ago)
move on and find another woman... you dont need negatively like that
The Attractive Man (7 months ago)
Hey man, that's a hard question to answer here. I recommend sending Matt an email about your question [email protected]
Made In USA (7 months ago)
This guy is gay.
Delain124 (8 months ago)
It's called social anxiety.
greentea (9 months ago)
Thumbed up straight away when you said embrace the feelings.
james miller (9 months ago)
TheGrumpyShell (9 months ago)
These days it's best not to approach girls. If they have student loans, they'll sue you for wasting their time in order to pay it off. I've seen too many Lifetime movies to understand this concept.
Aces (8 months ago)
TheGrumpyShell and that’s your problem. Watching to many movie instead of living in reality ..
Jay Pandit (9 months ago)
Step 1 :don't think, just do it.... that's it. The longer you wait, the more ways your brain will come up with to tell you it's a bad idea...
nobodysperfect06 (9 months ago)
It seems women don't really have to do much growth like men do in order to improve their dating life
nobodysperfect06 (6 months ago)
+Jeffrey T "For a girl, "improving her dating life" would probably just mean making herself more accessible vs any kind of growth. I'm honestly not sure how a girl would become better with men other than just being prettier and maybe learning how to be slightly more engaging" That statement I read somewhere, I feel it sums it up
Jeffrey T (6 months ago)
Life isn’t fair bro, it is what it is
nobodysperfect06 (7 months ago)
+7VERSACE I don't see how women have to do any growth when women don't have to learn how to deal with rejection or step into any tension or take any social action
7VERSACE (7 months ago)
nobodysperfect06 everyone is human and no one is perfect we all can improve
YungmanDAN Official (9 months ago)
I’m going to die a virgin thanks
music (9 months ago)
where do you get your t shirts?
Aksh Chaturvedi (10 months ago)
never approach girls its better to be single than doing hard work on girls rather than focus on your work
me me again (5 months ago)
your fucking gay!...
YourƊЄƛƬӇ 311 (10 months ago)
EASIEST WAY ; just watch this on your phone : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0 👍😹😹😹
Rudy Carrillo (10 months ago)
my man!
Dhawal S (10 months ago)
Best is to change your beliefs... it will cure everything... anyways regarding this video ... walking upto a beautiful and not saying anything and just change direction... liked this... doing this repeatedly should help in getting to talk sooner... keeping goal should push here
Dhawal S (10 months ago)
Best is to change your beliefs... it will cure everything... anyways regarding this video ... walking upto a beautiful and not saying anything and just change direction... liked this... doing this repeatedly ... sometimes atleast there will be a conversation
Willi Schwartz (10 months ago)
I have approach anxiety to almost every pretty girl I see. So I just can't even approach them. I don't feel my fingers, I start to sweat, I stutter when I speak, it's pathetic. That's why I just stop, relax, breathe, and just move on. I don't say anything I don't approach them, and life goes on. Really easy.
7VERSACE (7 months ago)
There’s vomit on his sweater already moms spaghetti
Aces (8 months ago)
I think you just kinda still suppose to do it anyway. Which is what bravery is. Being scared but still doing it anyway. The feeling dissipates as you talk to her ..
BARAKA BLESSING (9 months ago)
Poetic Nation (10 months ago)
This is amazing advice, and tips. Thank you for sharing (I just subscribed).
Poetic Nation (10 months ago)
:-) You're welcome.
The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
thanks man!
Keith Perry (10 months ago)
Matt's been working out look at his arm
Mc Lovin (1 month ago)
Keith Perry Yeah but he has no chest 😂😂
Luzifer Sohn (10 months ago)
Instructions unclear, dick stuck in Toaster.
It‘s extremly hard to overcome the ’I’m not good enough’ belief (regarding one’s own appearance), that’s why I don’t approach women... and I’m getting older and older... and one day... I’ll be too old for any woman, especially the young and beautiful ones.
Aces (8 months ago)
That’s why you have to act now. There’s no time like the present ..
BEN PAUL ESHUN-WILSON (9 months ago)
Let me tell you something. I don't know how old your , but if you're in your 30's to 40's you are literally a beast because, you can hit on almost any woman you want because age wouldn't be a factor . Just imagine the age range 20 to 30. You just have to take care of yourself and be on your purpose . Good luck my friend
Raul Martinez (10 months ago)
ドイツI am from Say to yourself, ' I'm not getting older...I'm getting BETTER'. Don't buy into the belief getting older is a bad thing. Remember: women love experienced men, and the older you become, the more experienced and seasoned you become.
Vena (10 months ago)
You were in New York? If you're still there I'm interested in meeting you comment if you see this thanks.
Vena (10 months ago)
The Attractive Man I see, Ok thanks. I'm much more interested in the boot camps now, the extra knowledge from you guys would be useful.
The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
Yes we often do boot camps in NY....make sure to join our mailing list so we can let you know next time. Just opt in for the cheat sheet. Thanks!
ee tt (10 months ago)
No doubt this good and all, but I think they should post more videos actually going to places and approaching girls, so they can show people how it’s done. The thing is in Matt’s videos that he’s done lately, those are all staged, and it’s the same girls so of course they’re helping him out, I think though they should make more infield videos like of them at shopping malls or the beach or wherever so people can actually see live approaches, and give them a better idea of how girls might react. It just seems like lately they’re posting videos more for entertainment purposes rather than really trying to help someone.
DaboooogA (10 months ago)
Good video, but hes actually talking to an empty room
Aces (23 days ago)
DaboooogA Or, you’re dead wrong and maybe the students wanna remain anonymous. Look at the window behind the speaker you’ll see a guy with a white shirt sitting down in the room @ 1:56 and also listen to the room agree with him, as well. You’re welcome.
Crazykev 73 (10 months ago)
Yeap. This is sooo me and happens way to much.
Alan Tube (10 months ago)
Guys it’s easy to talk to girls but it’s hard to take rejection it’s simple we all same. If u go for a girl that not even looking at u it’s clear she is not attract to u u can ask but 90% u get rejected. If a girl smile at u and often looking at u go for it if u like she is all urs. Believe me. 🤙
Aces (8 months ago)
Alan Tube so that means you’ll get 1 hot girl out of 10 if you do it daily. And 7 hot girls in one week, About 30 in a month? Lol sounds good to me I’ll take that deal ..
Eaton Beaver (10 months ago)
I asked a girl for directions recently and she said can't you just look that up? Then I realized these might not work so well anymore now that we all have maps on our phones. I am legally blind so I find that I have to ask for a lot of help finding things but when I ask a cute girl she will help me more often than not but more in an i pity you and am not attracted to you kind of way.
B. Alvn (10 months ago)
good stuff. thank u
Matty (10 months ago)
Take Xanax.
Ivan Vasilev (2 months ago)
Iceman WAUGH (2 months ago)
Aces (7 months ago)
Matty or a shot of vodka
icecoldezio (10 months ago)
I would probably die of an heart attack if someone dumped a bucket of spiders on me
Marshen. (10 months ago)
Question what is that under your lip, a stain from all the shit your talking?
Patrick Tran (10 months ago)
Thank you, for making videos like this.
The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
You're welcome, man!
RebelShift (10 months ago)
Let's take away the most important piece of information here.. You can't take a cold shower in the Philippines?!
RebelShift (10 months ago)
Angel Villahermosa ahh ok. I was confused lol
Angel Villahermosa (10 months ago)
RebelShift what he meant was he can't do freezing showers all the time. Its so HOT in the morning here, ice cold showers turn into regular ones. lol
Grey shadow (10 months ago)
But my question is, do I approach any girl I find attractive or just the one who smiles at me? Someone answere from experience
BEN PAUL ESHUN-WILSON (9 months ago)
Just do it mate. Rejection isn't a big deal . If you're still alive after a rejection , then it means you will not die , but you will became stronger . I'm a salesman it has made me see rejection as not a big deal. Focus on how best you can held rejection that's the most important thing .
Grey shadow (10 months ago)
liligman Good point!
liligman (10 months ago)
Grey shadow Dude, you approach whoever you wanna approach. You don't wanna overcomplicate it. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she has the choice to be an adult and end the conversation . Really is that simple
Grey shadow (10 months ago)
Those 3 steps can apply to most things in life! Thanks
Greg Swiezy (10 months ago)
Ur awesome, thanks for sharing this
Kerem F (10 months ago)
Here is it in the shortest and most easy to understand way: 1. Accept it, repeat it and experience it fully. (he also talks about the example to take a freezing cold shower) 2. Put yourself in worst case scenario (thinking the worst possible thing to happen and getting prepared for everything, so you get better at it experiencing it. Other said experience the fears. 3. Say or ask something simple/easy as possible like asking directions, or telling anyting simple to her until its manageable to approache any girl you want to get to know each other. And after that you can measure her reaction and decide to go further or not.
S M (10 months ago)
HitlerNr 2 lol
LejonelNr2 (10 months ago)
Kerem F this is obvious for an alpha male like me 😈
S M (10 months ago)
Kerem F thanks ✌
initiatorhater0688 (10 months ago)
simple, it's just do the act repeatedly, desensitation
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Kurt Cobain (10 months ago)
I love this guys voice
Humble Wonder (2 months ago)
U need that
robert shelton (7 months ago)
I like yours more
Clark Dauphin (10 months ago)
Kurt Cobain no homo though, ai?
LION FOR LAMBS (10 months ago)
Why make me nostalgic....
liligman (10 months ago)
Kurt Cobain you were pretty good too
Discovery Planet (10 months ago)
how I overcomed my anxiety I JUST DO IT
S M (10 months ago)
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FratBoy101 (10 months ago)
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S M (10 months ago)
can someone write down the 3 ways?
S M (10 months ago)
32 X 😂 fingering
H.m Wahaj (10 months ago)
You are great 👍
HowTo Soccer (10 months ago)
Can you tell me what to do if you know a girl likes you but she makes it akward
HowTo Soccer (10 months ago)
Daniel Suelzle thanks dude
Daniel Suelzle (10 months ago)
It's only awkward if you are. Learn not to mind the tension, and even better embrace the tension. That's where attraction is built. If you aren't being weird about it and keep pushing the interaction normally it'll pass.
S M (10 months ago)
That one kid Reacts ignore it

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