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The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
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Andre Eli (20 days ago)
Good vid, I like the more direct approach, say your intentions, if she ain't ready or aint feeling it move on and talk to her female friends
Scorpion Stinger (5 months ago)
Dude you ARE the master.,,, if this was star wars you would jedi master yoda, lol
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Hi! We checked and the links are working okay. Try to wait for the page to load a bit after you click on it, it should direct you to the cheat sheet.
Altiri (1 year ago)
the link don`t work
ivan (5 days ago)
Pussy ass shit
PleaseHoldMyBeer X (12 days ago)
How to touch women ok that sound normal
Sam Williams (14 days ago)
Who’s afraid to take any of these steps because any kind of comments made to a girl that he talks about in this video can be considered sexual harassment and can get you in big trouble? It’s honestly hard to gauge if those comments are wanted or unwanted regardless if you just met her or if you have known her for 2 To 3 years or 6 to 8 months. Sometimes I wish we could turn back the clock and go back to a time where all you had to do to get a girl to become attracted to you was be you and that would be enough to get her to want to sleep with you. Now it feels like just being you isn’t gonna cut it anymore and if you don’t take these extra steps we’re never gonna have a fulfilling fantastic love life.
Robin Marquardt (15 days ago)
3:57 looked like hes about to cup her breast xD
Jeffrey Miller (18 days ago)
3months later, just wanted to stop in and say THANKS it worked!
Andre Eli (20 days ago)
Then why do women push this whole "friends first" b.s alot of women will play games and act one way but want the opposite
James Nguyen (29 days ago)
If she’s ok with a lot of physical touch but just not around to many people, is that fine?
Macedonian Gaming (1 month ago)
Step one attract her and she will get you out of the friendzone. There is no fking buts and donts, dont you stupid people understand this
Demetris Theodoulou (1 month ago)
What if you are 15👀
Luke Cutting (1 month ago)
I live in the Uk, shes 19 Im 17 and she said im good looking but im too young
Jack Attack (1 month ago)
Alright, so in conclusion: If she calls you dude or bruh or bro, you're done for.
Victoria Alice (2 months ago)
this doesn't work unless she already finds you somewhat attractive *don't hate on me*
HELAMAN PENA (2 months ago)
I want a virgin
Mike90 susanoo (2 months ago)
Sadly I put myself in the friend zone when first meeting her because I didn't know what I wanted and now as her best friend I'm starting to like her. :(
Andy Black (2 months ago)
The friends zone sounds like something Incel's made up.
Emma Davis (2 months ago)
Matt, can I talk to you on a chatting handle, like Instagram, I need advice, personal ones
Rahul Rajeev (2 months ago)
Am i the only one who felt the woman in the start of the video deserved a slap?
Prince Izzy (2 months ago)
I rather be friendzoned than familyzoned 💯💯💯 REMEMBER THAT FELLAS 👌
noor of my heart (2 months ago)
She will think you're a pervert if you ask "what your favourite position !" LOL she gonna FROZONED you
Perfecxtion (3 months ago)
Went to lunch with her and she said I was like a brother to her, I’ve told her she’s pretty multiple times I’ve known her forever I just don’t know anymore I told her I liked her last year and told her she didn’t know how to answer and now it’s this year and now I’m fucked
john martinez (3 months ago)
2 years ago I started going to this church I went twice and the 3rd time I saw this girl and she sang, I loved her voice and thought she was cute but I didn't know how I felt about her yet and ik this is were i messed up. I found her Instagram and I requested and said "Hey Church Pal" ik ik I'm dumb for doing that. But like I said I didn't know what I felt towards her yet and I just didn't want to randomly follow her and not say anything. So after that she responds in maybe about 10 minutes which surprised me and we ended up texting for 2 hours we fell asleep on each other but the next morning she texted good morning and we texted again for a while, she was in school but she said her teacher didn't care since it was choir practice. So she went to her next class and couldn't text but later on she texted back and we talked this repeated for the rest of the week started on Wednesday and ended on Saturday when she asked if I had Snapchat. I told her yes and we added each other we began talking on their and started a streak, after the first week she stopped initiating the texting. I remember she sent a snap of her friend doing her makeup, I told her she looked beautiful and she sent another snap of just her with no caption (she did this a few times) . I began having feelings that night we then continued for 4-5 months of texting but i felt like I was annoying her by texting her so much because of the fact that I had to start the convo, around December 2016 we talked occasionally, 2017 was good we didn't talk as much in 2018 that dropped even more towards the middle of 2018 we had an argument and we stopped converstating we went to camp that year just like 2017 and I didn't like 2 of her friends because one was a hypocrite and the other would talk all friendly towards me but then behind my back would say things and I got mad at the girl I kind of liked for just letting them talk about me the way they did but she ended up saying something as well so when we came back home we blocked each other on social media, towards the end of 2018 we started talking again but in person still had each other blocked but after a while we started following each other again and talking a little bit we send each other funny things sometimes and check on each other as well but right now I'm fasting social media so we don't text plus she is really busy because she has a musical coming up so I don't really want to bother her. So I really do like her now we are both 17 and we are both seniors and we also are both in the youth band. But I really wanted to know why would she stop initiating the texting and why would she block me on social media? But start talking to me more in person?
Explore17 (3 months ago)
As soon as he said "dont blow it by confessing that you liked her for a while" - I knew I fucked up! 1. Casually show interest! 2. Touch her more! 3. Create sexual tension!
Liberty Prime (4 months ago)
What if she has already heard that you like her and she hasn’t done anything about it ? I would like a video on this please
ZULKAR NAIN (4 months ago)
Change ur tshirt
Thomas Bubniak (4 months ago)
"I made a whole video on how to touch women" *NSA agent- "hey Jim add one to the watchlist"
Julie Salzer (4 months ago)
I Like the friend zone. I believe you can get to know your partner better because you are more relaxed.
j'aime le temps 2299 (4 months ago)
The title must be "how to find a new girl" and not how to get out of the friendzone
Andrew Drobot (4 months ago)
*I made a whole video on how to touch women*
joe king (3 months ago)
A whole video on grabbing them by the pussy?
Keegan Delaney (4 months ago)
Orange Man Bad 😂😂😂😂😂
untouchable360x (4 months ago)
1. Spend less time with her 2. Make a lot more money 3. Date chicks hotter than her
ROMAN (4 months ago)
Well said. Now I understand why ABC news is telling - "He has mastered the art of seduction". Love you man 😍😍
Mbm TJ (4 months ago)
Be veryyyyyyyyyyyyyy careful about how and who you touch BC it's 2018 and if she fells uncomfortable on how you touch her and it doesn't matter where it's sexual harassment nowadays so make sure you read her really carefully when you touch her and if she doesn't like you touching her then apologize for touching her that way it may save you from a restraining order💯💯
Dat Boi (4 months ago)
Why can't I find any love tutorial vids that aren't by an extractive man
Nate So Royal (5 months ago)
Bullshit advice watch Corey Wayne on this topic its way better
Rob StrickeN Feary (5 months ago)
"Youknow what, you're actually kind of sexy" ...GAAAAAAAG! ERGGHHHHGOOUGHHH!!! That's cringy as fuck and she will think the same. Narrr... go "i've just noticed your boobs actually look pretty cool" Maybe you go for weird cringy girls though that like cringy shit.
Patrick Harris (5 months ago)
I really need some help getting out of the friendzone with this wonderful beautiful girl that I'm friends with! I really like her so much! I wanna be more than friends with her!😔
Patrick Harris (5 months ago)
+The Attractive Man nah not yet but imma check it out!
The Attractive Man (5 months ago)
We'd love to help you, have you checked out our website - www.TheAttractiveMan.com?
N0ZP1K3R (6 months ago)
Yea don't be a loser.
uncleelmer (6 months ago)
I have lived long enough to know that if I am only interested in being friendly with a woman that everyone going in is on the same page. In other words, the only time the "friend zone" has been sprung on me was when I was being rejected! And I've learned if I ever hear "let's be friends" or any variation of that to move on and PRONTO! Hit the highway and never look back. There is no getting out of the friend zone for most guys--sure you have the very few who do but odds are strongly that you ain't getting out of the friend zone so find someone who accepts you and move on.
The Attractive Man (6 months ago)
Thanks for the comment!
Riley Ferrett (6 months ago)
Anyone know how too get your prom date too fall for you?
ART IN ONE (6 months ago)
Jesus.. I have more skills than this dude.😂🤣 What are you on about?!
Adriyan Slavchev (6 months ago)
Yeah man fuck it :)
Fuze Bash (6 months ago)
"Another option is to keep looking down at her lips as she’s talking. After a few seconds say, “Sorry I didn’t hear a word you said for the past 2 minutes I just keep thinking about kissing you. Okay, proceed. You were saying?” She will likely be a little flustered as she goes back to what she was saying. After a minute say, “Sorry it just happened again, we have to do something about that.” And kiss her. "........KILL ME NOW....WAIT..IM DEAD FROM LAUGHING
Cole Bennett (3 months ago)
+Fausto Gzz ahh gotcha lol probably could work good if you set it up right in other situations too
Fausto Gzz (3 months ago)
Cole Bennett lmao but I did this shit in a party with like a random girl 🤟🏽
Cole Bennett (3 months ago)
+Fausto Gzz wait for real? I might try this one out then....
Fausto Gzz (3 months ago)
Fuze Bash yoooo this shit worked bro! Thank you so much 👌🏽
Do you even care ? ? (6 months ago)
Screw that shit. I want to die.
Gerardo (6 months ago)
I need to grow a pair
Donnie Copeland (6 months ago)
It works
Jedi Scum (6 months ago)
Hey Matt
The big Crush (6 months ago)
Ok well what if you only get to see her twice a month or so and she’s a mother of a two year old. Which means she can’t go out much. I was defaulted friend zone because it’s a friends sister and she had already been married. Now divorced.
JonJon Castaneda (6 months ago)
dude, sexual vibe? but im just 12yrs old, help me
Hesus (3 days ago)
grow the fuck up and don't get a girlfriend until you're 16
John Cheng (7 months ago)
It's her loss anyway. I'm fucking love this~
Sean-patrick Moyo (7 months ago)
Got sexual on texts.... Her sister saw it and I got blocked, what now..... Btw l see the girl every week day
Sultan Saleh (6 months ago)
Say that you got a problem with your phone and she well give you her number good luck
New Guy (7 months ago)
Hey Mann so i need a little extra help ive had a crush on this girl like from the day I met here 3 years, we weren't really close in the beginning but now me and her are ultra close...she invites me to everything I mean everything(family events included) and me visa versa ,but she has been speaking to this guy who lives over seas for about 10 months and yet 3 weeks a go we hooked up we both lost our virginity that night I just don't know if this is a good sign because she is now going to visit the guy she has been speaking to for a full month. Should a proceed to go for her or do u think it is out of the question...If I should carry on what should my first step be
Sultan Saleh (6 months ago)
You should show her that you care MAN you need to go with her because some women can easily fall in love with others guys but you need do go with her and also say something emotional so that she see that your real care for her the rest is up to you man. Good Luck
Tejus Wadbudhe (7 months ago)
Indian's please don't follow these tips otherwise you will be jailed 😜
ROMAN (4 months ago)
Who the fuck told you like that bro. I tried this on an Indian girl but she wasn't ready to break that friend zone. At last I told her to fuck off
Henok (7 months ago)
"i made whole video on how to touch women" -matt
Max Penney (8 months ago)
Why does YouTube recomend this to me?
NoMercyButDeathOnly (4 months ago)
Youtube realized you needed it
Tony Sadallah (8 months ago)
i want to get what your saying but your choice of clothes is really distracting
Sean Fanelli (8 months ago)
Maybe this video can fix what happened after i followed anothernone of your videos
Steve Fixit (8 months ago)
I love girls ... it’s talking to them afterwards 🙄
The Attractive Man (8 months ago)
Thanks for the comment!
The Path To Knowledge (8 months ago)
What does it mean to fall in love if you're a differently abled person ? Please make a video on that
Sean-patrick Moyo (8 months ago)
Her:you are like a brother to me My mind: 😭😭 #friend zoned
Most Of A Banana (3 months ago)
Sean-patrick Moyo means something else in Alabama
Black Widow (8 months ago)
But im in highschool tho
archischnect (9 months ago)
157k people in the friend zone :(
bleach for sale (9 months ago)
Ok before writin this dont judge me. I am 16 and shes is 16 too. She freaking hot for that age at least and i know her for 1 week. She says she loves me sends RED hearts and but in the end she says that all of these are actually friendly and not flirty. What do i do???
Paulie Tonoro (9 months ago)
I feel fucking pathetic watching this I think I'll just stick to drinking and not giving a shit bout anyone or anything
Alex Arias (9 months ago)
I rather be aggressive cause my lust for women grows when I'm aroused by sexy women😈😈
Your advice is good, but it’s hard to take you seriously with that feminine V-neck shirt.
Lunch (9 months ago)
40 year old virgin? Pfft... Please.....
Sokar (9 months ago)
2 Steps To Get Out Of The Friend Zone #1 Be attractive #2 Don't be ugly
ibrotje. 5713 (9 hours ago)
So i already faild
Donut shop operator (4 months ago)
Sokar welp I’ve failed
Manos Meraklis (9 months ago)
Why im i taking advice fromsomeone who wears a v t-shirt
Andrew Drobot (4 months ago)
A *deep V* lol
Jona Andre (9 months ago)
I've been friends with this girl ... for 4years in the friendzone
Budget Survival (9 months ago)
Be a gentleman thats all you need
Vemeshio Hoskin (9 months ago)
hell yeah once u get in dat friend zone u just know u aint gettin no pussy hard 2 get out dat shit once u get in it some of them use that shit as a friendly wat to tell yo ass hell naw u aint finna fucc or they not just attracted to u like dat sometimes they facial expression when they c u will let y know if they like u its better than tryin 2 holla and get yo ass dissed in front of people,very embarassing but i pretty much be ready to fucc on sight if that girl fits the criteria um lookin 4 u know
Hunter Kimmel (9 months ago)
I just got put in the friend zone after a 2 year relationship😂😭
L04DING ERR0R (9 months ago)
Doesn't work if your best friends has a boyfriend already...
dai roby (9 months ago)
Oww shit i'll try this
Bloody Corvette (9 months ago)
Guys stop trying and start saying and do the right thing at the perfect time. Give your best Prince Charming vibe but not too obvious.Like don’t ever tell her your feelings for her. Be A Wolf In A Sheep Clothing. It should work
Alejandro Diaz (10 months ago)
Bboy Dawn (10 months ago)
You are a fucking boss hahahahaha
Abstruce Beast (10 months ago)
“They weren’t being a fucking man” Ey bro I love you’re videos
The Attractive Man (10 months ago)
Anthony Brink thanks man!
FPSghali (10 months ago)
I'm the only one who noticed "Money For Nothing" at 0:47 ?
huggable cactus (10 months ago)
I've been stuck axles deep in the desert with little water and got out , but getting out of the friend zone is the tar pits of death.
DA38 (11 months ago)
Look now hard we need to work for women, and they just get to choose.
Darker Room (11 months ago)
Hey man, love your content... learning a lot, REALTALK 👌
The Attractive Man (11 months ago)
Darker Room thanks man!
Gray LPS (11 months ago)
A guy got all flirty with me and I thought he liked me then out of nowhere he friend zones me😞
huggable cactus (10 months ago)
Gray LPS 😂🤣
jesse haaland (11 months ago)
what if you find out your friendzone dreamgirl has lice and herpes, even all over her lips.. do you play with her hair and lick her face when she accidently falls asleep at your place
ROMAN (4 months ago)
Insert your penis into her nose. I think it will fix the problem.
jesse haaland (11 months ago)
women like guys who put there finger in their butt and lick their finger when shes not paying attention. that will get you out of the friend zone
But, at the beginning she liked me, i saw it and she told me that, but as the years passed she became more good looking and at that point i started likeing her and she didn't like me anymore. Now that's bad luck!
noah schnapple (11 months ago)
is it just me, or am i the only lesbian here trying to get a girl? lmao
Brahim Koubeissy (3 months ago)
liz schnapp g
Max RA Cautivar (7 months ago)
mya schnapp 👋
Anthony Gabrjolek (9 months ago)
lizzy mcgay Probably not
LIyre (11 months ago)
As a woman, ughhh Hm Do you guys have any questions? (This is only one woman’s opinion lol)
LIyre (11 months ago)
Lmao all you guys talking about women like they’re bloody giraffes or something
kunal186 (11 months ago)
Hi guys so here's my case. Ive been having eye contact with this girl for a few months at work until we were finally introduced by a common friend. Then we went out in a group on her birthday and there were a lot of signs of attraction that night. After a few weeks we went out again in a group and while in the car i saw her tindering. Later while i was dropping her home i asked her out and she said shes into someone and that she treated me as a friend. She said shes on tinder just to socialise. Wtf. What can i do now to get out of this friend zone.
2:05 which movie is that??
Plato (11 months ago)
I just fucked up stuff with my gf.I'm fucking dead.
Asmit Singh (11 months ago)
5:18 how not to do it
Renzo Del Gaudio (1 year ago)
Damn it, this would have been great a few hours ago
Mikey (1 year ago)
What if you and the girl you like are both virgins then does that make the third thing unnecessary?
Mr. Nobody (1 year ago)
For a loner like myself, I would be thankful to be in the friend zone
you're not alone
360 Cinema (9 months ago)
It is not possible to be even in friend zone if you don't find attractive to a girl.
Alexander Lopez (10 months ago)
Mr. Nobody you need to stop commenting on YouTube practice smiling and just say hi to everyone
David Bedell (1 year ago)
Never seen friend zone end as anything but friend zone
Ivan Andrea (1 year ago)
I probably shouldn't do this but... FuCK iT
Another PUA scam. Want pussy ? It's all about looks period !!!

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