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Where to Go on a First Date

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Want some ideas for a first date? Here's exactly where to take her so she wants more... Discover what to say that Triggers Sexual Attraction: http://goo.gl/LGoE2H Want to train with us? See the Boot Camp Schedule Here: http://attractivemantraining.com/ww-boot-camps/ In this video, Artisan will show you where to go on a first date so that she wants to see you again. The entire date should revolve around three things. The purpose is to: 1. To get to know her, 2. To have fun, 3. To escalate the relationship if she meets your standards. You want to choose a place that allows for our three main objectives of the date: To get to know her, have fun, and to escalate the relationship (sexually). Don't take her to a movie or to dinner. In a movie, you can't get to know her and dinner is not a very fun place. Plus, dinner forces you to talk the entire time, which for some guys, is not that easy. On your date you want to take her to at least three places/activities. The more activities and experiences you have together, the deeper the emotional connection. Intimacy and connection is stronger through shared experiences as opposed to just talking. Remember these places should be fun, flirty and engaging. Here are examples of ideal first date locations: Ice cream – Walk in the park – Drinks on the beach Improv or Comedy Show – Drinks at a lounge – Ice cream Salsa Classes – Drinks at a lounge – Then Another lounge closer to your place (Pro Tip: Dancing is a great activity because it forces you two to touch and get close.) You should stay at each venue/activity for about 1 hour and choose locations that lead closer to your place. Having multiple locations is also great because if you don't like her, you can end the date on the next transition. How do you create sexual chemistry? Click here: http://goo.gl/LGoE2H ------------------------------------------ best first date ideas where to go on a first date dating advice fun things to do on a date things to do on a date fun first date ideas ⇨ Follow Matt on Social Media ⇦ www.Instagram.com/mattardisson www.FaceBook.com/matt.ardisson.page/ SnapChat: mattardisson
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awongfilms1 (3 days ago)
Good stuff! Thx! I wanna visit Manila!
Oli Hasan (19 days ago)
this guy knows the shit. amazing
Rob Schaller (1 month ago)
Go somewhere next to free, somewhere where you can actually have a conversation. Frankly, "dating" should be done with a girl you are already sleeping with. You SHOULD NOT be spending any significant amount of $$ on a girl you aren't INVOLVED with.
Carlos Castillo (1 month ago)
What about taking her to a mall? It works?
Tomas Rodriguez (2 months ago)
I’m learning a lot from your videos. Keep up the good work.
ali paquira (2 months ago)
What about taking her for a ride with Helicopter?
Robert (4 months ago)
your advices sounds so familiar. does corey wayne inspired you?
Acdragonrider Videos (4 months ago)
Is it really ok that I don’t drink? I mean I really have no interest in it and don’t get why it’s so appealing. I am a quiet, serious man and usually never talk much unless I feel I have something important to say
TJ Biasong (5 months ago)
Who among here are from the PH? This place from the video looks like it’s in the PH!
RAF71chingachgook (6 months ago)
Mat, suck your gut in and sit up a bit. Hit the gym a a little harder too. ;P
Jack Wehrung (7 months ago)
It's a good idea to double book.Have an early date ,and a later date.You won't come across as desperate. Trust me.
Mark Rubin (8 months ago)
Go to a movie. Tell her to meet you - inside.
Acdragonrider Videos (9 months ago)
What if you don’t like drinking? Ik I am weird :) I have just never liked the idea of it. That would eliminate bars and clubs from the itinerary.
Martial G (9 months ago)
Goal of a 1st date is 2 fuck. Wasting as little money as possible. Ideally, she comes over 4 drinx/smoke. No sleeping over & tell her l8r.
Martial G (9 months ago)
Crazy girl = hotel or car, preferably car
A jar of pickles (10 months ago)
“You don’t wanna sleep with a crazy girl, trust me it’s not worth it” I take it this is coming from personal experience?
Byron Austin (6 months ago)
sjescone congrats I was actually thinking of the bowling alley too when I just clicked this videos
sjescone (8 months ago)
A jar of pickles. I'm going to play bowling with a girl this sunday! Thats not long not short, you have fun and get to know each other! Its great
Yash Vijayvargiya (11 months ago)
How about a zoo?
Joshua Olithao (1 year ago)
What is our outfit to go for a date,will we need to bring a bag?
Joshua Olithao (1 year ago)
Can i have a advice for first highschool date where we have no job and money but we want to bring her to date and I also have no car
KIM JONG UN (5 months ago)
Public Ice skating or roller skating.
Byron Austin (6 months ago)
Joshua Olithao I have a job and money but I don’t got a car but a walk in the park is a great idea, I am also in high school
Antonio Alvarez (1 year ago)
Wow you just read my mind my first date is on Friday and ask her if she want to hang out with me at the park wish me luck
Grant Rawlyk (1 year ago)
that ok but what if you life in a small town that you dont have a lot place to go other than coffee
Max Swope (1 year ago)
You should always take a girl to do something that you already love doing on your own.
Amber&Black (8 months ago)
Mario 22 damn nice advice
Robin S (1 year ago)
Great advice, thanks!!
teamometeamo (1 year ago)
Hurray! I had been on a date with a girl in coffee bean, whom I like very much. I loved every second I spent with her there. Coffee bean indeed is a good dating spot.
Alexis Linares (1 year ago)
Yes ice cream really works lol..she loves it. i told her ill take you to a place you really like.. its a surprise ..went to her fav ice cream store she loved it
Marijn marijn (1 year ago)
The Attractive Man Jo what should you do when you see her again at the start at a date? Like hug or kiss or hand shake what??
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Dark Emeraldo (1 year ago)
That does sound like more fun going to three places instead of one. Awesome advice given.
adrenaline (1 year ago)
How do you get over people over hearing your convo with a girl in a venue and they keep looking and shit like that?  It throws me off a bit cause I just wanna focus on her
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
Tune them out. A great exercise to train your mind to tune out distractions it put a small object on top of a loud tv and focus on that object for 5 minutes without looking at the tv. try it.
Arron Smith (2 years ago)
is it better to go stag on the first date or is it better to pay everything?
Really good advice bro. Nailed it I should say. That's why I never want to go to the movies or dinner on a first date. It's not fun for me and probably not for her. Subscribed.
Alina Alexandra (1 year ago)
What if a guy asks me to choose a place for a first date? Personally I was very disappointed.
DJ jaimes (2 years ago)
thank you nice video
Jack Alpha Du (2 years ago)
I got a question for you~ should guys always pay for the food or the drinks for her on a date?
Jonah Wizars (2 years ago)
Always pay for the first date. Even if she tries to tell you to split the bill, insist on the first date. Especially if You initiated the date. After the first date, you two can work out how the bill goes.
David Stahlman (2 years ago)
Im not yet at the legal drinking age and I'm in a small town any idea for dare ideas
dark644 (2 years ago)
Quick question, do we pay for anything ? If we going 3+ venues and bouncing new places , that will cost me some money Or I say it in a funny way since I payed for the last place so you pay now :) or I don't pay at all, do I look cheap? Thanks for your time
dark644 (2 years ago)
thanks <3 +The Attractive Man
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
good question and you don't have to go to 3+ venues and buy drinks or food in each. You can just dance in one venue. You can walk in a park. You can go into a nearby store (like a sex shop).
user_name_hidden (2 years ago)
When should you contact after the first date? Or should she contact first since you're the one who set up the date and paid?
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
I usually set up the next date at the end of the first date (usually the next morning) and then text a day later.
mike hunt (2 years ago)
really dude multiple dates in one day? thats fucked up
The Attractive Man (1 year ago)
why? i know lots of girls that do that.
UnboxViews (2 years ago)
saikat chakraborty (2 years ago)
What if amusement parks?
Daniel Alvarado (2 years ago)
Amazing advice bro. I'm going for my third date next week, fourth of July weekend and we have gone to funny movies, amazing restaurants like The Cheesecake Factory and The Improv. I love having fun so maybe I'll take her to Boomers or Dave and Busters. Thank you so much!
Daniel Alvarado (2 years ago)
Amazing advice bro. I'm going for my third date next week, fourth of July weekend and we have gone to funny movies, amazing restaurants like The Cheesecake Factory and The Improv. I love having fun so maybe I'll take her to Boomers or Dave and Busters. Thank you so much!
Ravenex2 (2 years ago)
This was really good, solid advice. You hit the root of all the key points pretty much, good stuff.
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
Thanks man I appreciate it!
Vince Cantuba (2 years ago)
dude you're in our country... philippines :-D
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
+Vince Cantuba Yep lol I love it there. I'm actually here now in makati at gramercy.
Alexandre Levesque (2 years ago)
These are some very good advice Thanks!
The Attractive Man (2 years ago)
+Alexandre Levesque Glad you liked it!
gammergq (3 years ago)
Dam you sound like edward newton.
Robinhudloom (1 month ago)
Looks like him.too
TheGamerSquad (1 year ago)
Dan Khan (3 years ago)
Love it mate!
Ángel (3 years ago)
+The Attractive Man hey bro does getting shaved ice during the day work the same as getting ice cream? Thx btw.
The Attractive Man (3 years ago)
+Dan Khan Thanks!

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