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Duke reveals the red flags to notice when you start dating a new girl! Claim your free Instant Date Breakdown Video here ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/instant-date-dd/ International Dating Coach Duke Deleat reveals 6 RED FLAGS that may signal that it's time to step on the brakes and find another girl to date. The Attractive Man Team helps guide you to create quality relationships with women. From the approach to the close. Make sure to check out our boot camps and other videos - they're just as awesome and game-changing as this one! Just because she's HOT doesn't mean she's NOT CRAZY! If you're ever going to be happy with the girl you're dating you can't rush into things. You might not know what you're getting yourself into! COMPATABILITY is what makes relationships WORK. Don't settle for a miserable, unhappy life with a woman that's just going to pull you down. So before you go to the POINT OF NO RETURN, check out these LIFE-SAVING tips on dating and relationships! Duke explains that sometimes men miss out on obvious cues. Forcing yourself into a toxic relationship just because she's gorgeous? That isn't going to make you happy. But not to worry - YOU can PREVENT that from happening. Dating should be about qualification. Don't Invest your time, money, and feelings on the wrong girl for you. Duke shows: ► The proper mentality when dating women. ► How men make the common mistake of getting into a bad relationship with a CRAZY woman! ► The two best ways to quickly spot red flags. So you'll still have enough time to run away from a toxic relationship! ► The worst kind of women to avoid. Make sure you know who these kind of girls are because they will MESS YOU UP. Want to learn how to go on an instant date? Claim your free Instant Date Breakdown Video here ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/instant-date-dd/ The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” Duke Delaet is one of the head instructors and has since has trained men all over the world. Click here to claim your free Seduction Training: http://www.theattractiveman.com/seduction-training-dd/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### We have a blog! Visit our website at http://theattractiveman.com/ Want more dates? Check out the bootcamp schedule here: ► http://www.theattractiveman.com/live-training-dd/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your free Instant Date Breakdown Video here ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/instant-date-dd/
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The Attractive Man (9 months ago)
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happygoluky2 (3 months ago)
Your giving advice to people and your picking up chicks in night clubs. Lol that’s your problem. Pick chicks up in grad school, Museums church. You don’t go to a night club and expect a quality person. Water seeks it’s own level my friend. If you are attracting low quality people you probably need to fix yourself before jumping into a relationship.
Edward Wilson (4 months ago)
Carrie Geren Scoggins [Official] why people ( and i mean you) have to bring the topic of religion into everything? Point blank fact... ready? God didn't creare man Man created God to control people Digest the truth
Steve A (5 months ago)
The Attractive Man I would forget dating any girl that you don’t want to be a long term life partner. You can get a gorgeous beautiful sexy lingerie wearing young hooker/call girl here in uk or just £40. No grief no mood swings no moody miserable remarks well worth it. Better than some self entitled selfish munter that expects the world but offers nothing not even regular sex. I’ve enjoyed many of these sexy warm girls when I’ve been single and they are cheaper than buying some miserable ungrateful munter a meal in any restaurant. Guys need to wake up to this and forget the jealous society that tries to wane you away from this, All the girls I’ve had love what they do and actually like an enjoy sex :)))
Underground Wes (5 months ago)
Neon P Lotus well said
Underground Wes (5 months ago)
The Attractive Man I've been seeing some of those red flags in my woman to be honest.
Zappa4518 Creations (7 hours ago)
Women are batshit insane
Awohali Uhyoha (12 hours ago)
Never date or marry an SJW either
canad1anadventure (13 hours ago)
This was a really good video! I've watched a bunch now, and ya, so well said
QuartuvLarry (1 day ago)
There’s a song by Sonata Arctica called, Blinded No More. Pretty much the theme, here
Peter Goldman (1 day ago)
She has to he compatible with me. Not vice versa. Well said!
J. A. E. (1 day ago)
Dating is for finding a wife. Period.
Patchwork Gardens (2 days ago)
Another is if you at any point find out she was with someone as she met you. I made this mistake and was already in the relationship but didn't want to quit, should have known she'd pull the same on me, monkey branchers
ashley thompson (2 days ago)
Im stuck in a relationship that doesn't fit
The Attractive Man (1 day ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Santis Mclane (2 days ago)
Feminist be like: You are sexist! How dare you say anything bad about women! Women are a repressed minority!
epoiezam rasmi (2 days ago)
Why the fuck are you so concern about what those twats think.. Stop being a manginas.. Put a butt plug up your ass and lets move on.. When they reach 30s they'll be throwing pussies at you irrespective your fucking social status or whatever the fuck you call it.. Just move on man.. We don't need twats to mess with our live.. STAND UP LIKE A MAN..
Edward Gold (2 days ago)
Don't date them period. Then nuke them from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.
William Overly (2 days ago)
They are probably communist.
Mystery Mystique (2 days ago)
I have a question, what if the person you date actually has a terrible relationship with their parents, because, their parents are fucking crazy? like yesterday my phone died while I was at the library, so, I was charging it up so I could tell my mom where I was, an I find out that she called the police on me, because I didn't text or call her for 1 hour, an I honestly wish I was joking about this, and that wasn't even the first time my mom called the police on me for not calling and texting her, an I'm 26 years old. 😐
ReepoEX (2 days ago)
2:57
Chevyblock 550 (2 days ago)
This guy has a lot of confidence. You can just see it in his speech.
Mary James (2 days ago)
Thanks for helping men navigate through the pitfalls of the dating scene, it can be a never ending line of fruitless dates and hookups, As an older woman I wish people were into the church social thing more or their was a nice place to meet people beside bars and night clubs as I am not much of a drinker.
JonLuc Chargo (2 days ago)
Only date a woman you’re friends with first so you figure her out 😂 otherwise being single is pretty nice, you can focus on a career or making more money for yourself instead of wasting your own time and then the quality of woman you will find will be better. Everyone is on their best behavior at first!
Dano smith (3 days ago)
Good info bud! So hard to see the red flags at first....
Luke Timbrell (3 days ago)
Being red pill aware im not down with th bull shit games anymore. Its hard to not look at women now n think fuk .. look at how fake u are and ur completely fine with it .. single and loving life ☺️
Michael K (3 days ago)
The only thing sucks is her mouth
Kayleb Erickson (3 days ago)
This channel name is super misleading...
Alex Vasquez (3 days ago)
Women in general are one big red flag 🚩
Kathy B (4 days ago)
This is great advice for men and women equally
My name My last name (4 days ago)
"I can see dead people (ghosts)" Is a red flag to me. Puts down her parents and treat them like crap is another red flag, "I want babies" other red flags : " My ex is in prison" "I'm a feminist"
Jay Hohaia-Portelli (4 days ago)
Awesome vid guys
Patrick Chubey (4 days ago)
Seriously, I start a red flag video and get a commercial about fuckin tomatoes?? What kind of sick fuckin joke is that? I'm gone.
Remcō Schedel (4 days ago)
My uncle used to say: "You look for girls to fuck, but eventually you are the one who gets fucked." He was a wise man.
Scotty doesn't Know (4 days ago)
The real question that needs to be answered is this guy really in an attractive man club. Really.
Dr Victor (4 days ago)
The real question that needs to be answered here is why you are so shallow
VincentsVideoVisions (4 days ago)
1. she has a kid, or even worse multiple kids with more than one man (not all single moms are a no-go but other factors have to be considered carefully) 2. she is a third / fourth wave feminist 3. she is a libtard SJW 4. she is addicted to her cell phone 5. she is covered in tattoos and dumb piercings 6. she has had a series of short, failed relationships 7. she has mental illness issues 8. she uses sex as a bargaining chip and withholds sex all of the time 9. she shows examples of irrational, paranoid behavior 10. she has radically different views/philosophies than you in general 11. her friends are crazy, bitchy, slutty cunts 12. she constantly 'shit tests' you 13. she isn't open and communicative and can't express what she means and wants 14. she has a high body count 15. she is estranged / distant from her family 16. she has no real hobbies or pursuits and just watches Netflix or goofs off on her phone constantly 17. she consistently lies, even little 'white lies' 18. she has lots of male friends that she wants to hang out with frequently 19. she is generally stupid and lacking in critical thinking skills 20. she is vain/shallow and obsessed with fashion, make-up, plastic surgery, jewelry, getting her nails done, etc
VincentsVideoVisions (4 days ago)
21. she can't cook and/or refuses to cook. sorry to sound "old fashioned" or whatever but feeding a man is a woman's job.
auctionmusic (4 days ago)
Do not expect her to change,..what you see is what you get...
Spy Ware (5 days ago)
NOW you tell me! (Heheh! Just kiddin.') .... Thanks for the heads - up. :)
NastyJoker (5 days ago)
Advice for a widowed 64 year old ?
The Attractive Man (5 days ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Redd Nacpil (5 days ago)
Pretty cool video. On a lighter note, not hating, but your chin kinda look like a pair of balls dude
Justin Liu (7 days ago)
Why should I watch a video of a fat ugly guy giving relationship advice? That's like me asking a a fat guy how to lose weight. Or a poor person how to become rich.
tdbnasc3 (8 days ago)
Whod listen to advice to this fat ugly bastard?
Felipe Rodriguez (8 days ago)
Women will always tell you the truth when you first meet them unfortunately many men don't pay attention cause of her beauty, if you get a wtf moment while on a date it's a red flag you need to pay attention to. Shes letting you know how you are gonna get used and kick to the curb.
Umer K (8 days ago)
I am not even into dating business but this video is very educational indeed. Thank you very much for posting it. Good luck to you in your mission.
Jonathan Pal (8 days ago)
Before meeting my ex I was in my A-GAME....working out daily, eating right, on top of my school work and work-work. Then I got roped into the toxic bullshit....boys, learn from me, please and read below.... MY EX: 1. Told me it was her or all the other girls, but can't have both. Ultimatum-ed into a relationship. 2. My ex used to throw temper tantrums. One of the first being after the first two months dating, we went out for her friends birthday and when we left she couldn't find her ID. I asked her where it could've gone and she started crying, threw herself to the ground, then she started SCRAPING her wrists on the fucking pavement. Meanwhile, I'm trying to get her up and us going. People are asking if she's alright and if I'm bothering her. 3. I broke up with her after that. The next day she shows up at my door banging on it screaming how it's unfair that I broke up over text and didn't even give her a reason. 4. I opened the door and told her it's not up for discussion. What she did was embarrassing for both of us and shows how unstable she is. 5. She throws her coffee mug tumbler at me and misses and hits my wall then storms out of my house. 6. Any time I was invited to her families house she had to remind me how they were Christian and how much of a judgmental bitch her mother was, "but it's okay because she as MS, so it's not her fault." 7. On and off three times throughout the relationship. The first time was a few days. The second was 2 months while she MOVED HOME WITH HER PARENTS AND FIGURED LIFE OUT. The third time was right before my birthday because I came home drunk after a wrap party for a tv show and told her we were through. 8. We patched things up and worked on things a little, but she wasn't receptive. After that, she was sleeping in the guest bedroom and pretty much ignored my existence, all I was good for was rent and driving her to class. 9. We are on and off for almost two years. *I forgot to mention that her entire friend group also hated me because I'm assuming, she told them stories about me not wanting to deal with any of the aforementioned bullshit.* At the end of our relationship, she said she wanted to go to school for public education policy. After studying psychology and doing freelance makeup stuff throughout undergrad, and those being her life plan (I was an actor and she said she was gonna move to NY or LA or Chicago with me to pursue that when we graduated). Literally 3 months before graduating she made this massive decision to completely change her life and its purpose. All for the sake of feminist ideology. The crazy bitch now supposedly lives in Chicago working for Americorps, living off food stamps, and is a whackjob feminist. I moved out and continued to pay for the apartment until I told her to find a subletter or I stop paying...her choice- either way I was no longer paying for her lifestyle. Especially since she strung me along just so she could have somewhere to live. Two years of my life were fucked thanks to her, but I'm glad I'm not with her now. As you can see: I can do better. I'm going to med school. What is she doing? Sucking the tit of the government she claims to hate? Katreina, wherever you are, I hope your plans went better than expected....because we all know that the path you decided to take was stupid, no matter what the outcome. lmfao I took the red pill after my father committed suicide and haven't looked back since. I have absurd trust issues with women, but I learned you just have to genuinely not care. The one that's meant for you will come eventually, if not then whatever. People in my generation are gonna wonder why there are so many single women in their 40s+ and it's hilarious because THEY DID IT TO THEMSELVES. You can't have your cake and eat it too, ladies. And, yes, men can be just as judgmental as women have been for eons. =]
Alicon Ewing (8 days ago)
Well I'll tell you one damn thing the guy that's actually doing this video I wouldn't date him if he was the last man standing ....
banana snapper (10 days ago)
LISTEN BRAW, THE ONLY RED FLAG YOU GOTTA WORRY ABOUT IS IF SHE GOT HER ANUS SEWED UP OR HAS SOME ASS DISEASE. THATS THE ONLY THING YOUR GONNA NEED OUTTA HER ANYWAY.
Jason R. Batres (10 days ago)
Matt, you look different.
Chris Brown (11 days ago)
Narcissist he keep finding . Gaslighting
Robert Polkamp (11 days ago)
Nothing over 40 (the wall), no smokers(vapors) and drugs of any sort, random tattoos, single moms, over 200 lbs, spends more time in the gym than you, etc... yeah, just play the game. You know how Mongoloid has an additional chromosome? Come from that same view realizing woman have a chromosome missing. ..
JaVaughn McGregor (12 days ago)
If she's highly narcissistic... RUN !!!!🏃🏾‍♂️💨
Lost Freq (12 days ago)
to answer of your first question.... YES.
The Attractive Man (12 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!
Romero Bryan (13 days ago)
What if she’s always saying “I’m not good for you, you should stay away from me, I only hurts those around me”..
Lena Searcy (13 days ago)
I'm old school, this sounds like some teenage high school shit.
San Ta (14 days ago)
Im ashamed for a womankind.. and I am sad that we have to have these tips.. war between two genders..
RPOS (14 days ago)
Dude you call your site attractive man but your overweight and don't even exercise that's a fail straight away.
Tiago Pesce (14 days ago)
ahn... none shall fit.. thanks.. i guess
Lisa Kuus (14 days ago)
This looks like a mad fat men who never was able to keep a woman happy if hebeven made it that far
camelspyder1 (14 days ago)
Red Flag on dating sites. If you guys find yourselves on a dating site and the women's profiles are always demanding for a guy to "BE FUNNY" or "MUST MAKE ME LAUGH". Swipe left and avoid her! No matter how hot she looks or how much you think you have in common. Why? Because they are damaged with depression and they think that a "funny" man can make them happy or cure the depression. Go to your dating site and be surprised by how many women have that you "MUST BE FUNNY' request in their profile. Think about it; even comedians don't tell jokes or do funny stuff all the time just to keep a woman happy or interested in them.
Rosette Kent (14 days ago)
Dude I wish I had seen this sooner, the first flag is totally true!
Julio Maldonado (14 days ago)
Check their criminal records and check also credit must. Void marriage for green card.
Liberia Diaspora (14 days ago)
A relationship is not a one-way street. Everything shouldn't just revolve another the man.
Thrifty Bee (15 days ago)
No matter how good she look it's never worth any of the things you warned us about. I gotta show my brother this.
Spin my head (15 days ago)
A lot of sterotyping and disrespect for women going on here,sure just as there are troubled men there are troubled women.Nobody is perfect.
Callum Mottram (15 days ago)
34 years old. When I was in my late teens, I preferred Women, who are older than me. Last lady I was with was 42, I was 31.
David Roberson (16 days ago)
Here's a red flag for everyone, goes for both genders but seems really popular around women: You start talking about bad experiences and someone comes and says "Well what did X do to make Y act the way they do?" Sure, that's a possibility, but not nearly every case. Some people just walk into a relationship pre-broken and take it out on their partner. Being that blind where a person can't accept that simple fact is a red flag because the world they live in is not the real world.
Katalyn Scott (16 days ago)
Yes, these apply to men as well xx
Joseph Patton (16 days ago)
First off, if you have problems finding dates, and think some U Tube channel is going to help,,, you have more problems than you think. Females are in general, a waste of time and resources. Save your money, Pump and Dump is the way to go. Most of them are Bitches, and the only thing they really have to bargan with is thier pussy.
Johnny Soporno... WTF? Olo
cpcoller23 (17 days ago)
Dude, I wished I watched this video before dating my ex.
Rad K (17 days ago)
I'm a woman. I don't even know how I ended up watching this but I must say the warning signs you mention are actually good and universal. They'd apply to both genders
Robert Hoard (18 days ago)
See it coming, use it to your advantage.
Robert Hoard (18 days ago)
Red flag, bleached asshole.
ChilledTea (19 days ago)
this is sooo my ex girlfriend savina aguilar... don't date miami girls they're slutty trash
Ronald Boykin (20 days ago)
It seems that women who don't know responsibility of taking care kids are pretty crazy because having and taking care of babies is hardwired in their DNA and of course a responsible man has to in the picture too. Today's women are brain washed into thinking they compete in the job market with men and they are not happy about it! I'm not saying that a woman shouldn't work, my mother worked, my father worked, my mother had me 4 other siblings. She took care of use all, my father was around too. They were good parents and my mother was the greatest!
Ronald Boykin (20 days ago)
You get the picture, excuse my typos, today's women have the same biological clock ticking as my mother but they lack standards and morals and they are quick sleep with slick guys without knowing what they're getting into!
fubu b (20 days ago)
One time I went to my ex , she was so wet when we had sex , asking her why she wet , she said bcz she was missing me . Next few days she was pregnant, lucky for me she had a miscarriage
James C (21 days ago)
Hell yeah to that, compatibility: good qualities (common ground, good heart and personality, good sensibility) AND of course physical attraction is very nice, but not most important thing, especially if they don't have all the right qualities.
Curtistine Miller (24 days ago)
Two cannot walk together unless agreed......
Dennis Morris (24 days ago)
Ur English is very good.
Dennis Morris (24 days ago)
Don't look at their physical attributes only, first look at their hearts shit test them, look for red flags.
Dennis Morris (24 days ago)
I'm a magnet for crazy.
Mr Ken General (25 days ago)
Every woman is a 'red flag'.
Touch Me (28 days ago)
'How to tell if she is crazy' they are ALL crazy, the degree changes.
Mariet31 (29 days ago)
I am a woman and this video is still quite useful for both genders. Everyone has emotional problems, but the reality is that if no one establish boundaries, and there is no negotiation (someone has to win) and there is no equality. In the long term, everyone loses. Also... WHO THE FUCK LOOKS FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IN A BAR? out of all places, that's were you find alcoholics and people stuck eternally in their 20s.
MichaelCoolGuy86 (30 days ago)
Something tells me this fat fuck has never dated anyone but prostitutes
David Lopez (1 month ago)
I didn't even watch this video.. This fool looks like he ain't got game.. The other thing don't try to hook up with women out your category.. Then be mad when they blow you off.. Them women work hard to look that good.. Put your self in their shoes.. You work out eat good etc.. Your gonna wanna be with someone attractive right.. Point is your Fucked either way.. Don't matter.. You both could be deaf and blind and you'll still get into it... This fat fuck has no clue... Wether your fine o ugly.. Fat o skinny.. Treat each other good..
Boris Kucher (1 month ago)
red flag number one: she does not have a dick ( no homo)
Davion Mclean (1 month ago)
So basically a narcissitic chick.. cool
Harmony Cromie (1 month ago)
Dating is for matrimonial purposes... no wisdom here either.
The Attractive Man (1 month ago)
Thanks for the comment!
KK DeVeauXgue (1 month ago)
She talks about my facial expressions and I got something completely on my mind like being with her Traveling with her just doing fun things together and when she complained about this it really turns me off as if she has nothing real to say to me I feel like we're on a playground or something and she's trying to control me, I don't like that I wanna be who I am, if I have other things on my mind its not you at all, so I need to say that and take control because I'm not the one to do that with...
Peter Heinz (1 month ago)
We men have take the responsibility and change the laws for an equal power balance between men and women.
AOK inks Kwenela (1 month ago)
As a woman all of these are the obvious signs we see that makes us say no to being that girl's friend so I agree with this video. Here is another advice I give to my males friends. If she watches reality tv religiously and is obsessed with gossip of celebrities you better run!!!! She is swayed by emotions and lies that waro[ her perspective as she doesn't live in reality and she will think you are always cheating because she saw some guy cheating on a tv show.
Ivan Bryan (1 month ago)
Dude which part of you is attractive? 😕😧
nikeelitesquad123 (1 month ago)
First mistake was going to the club to find girls...at least for a relationship I wouldnt
Topkat (1 month ago)
I was told l didn't compliment him enough. Needed someone to feed his ego. Turned out to be narcissist, liar, cheater, thief. I should have seen the red flags.
Arthur Chase (1 month ago)
i had a older gentlemen tell me no matter how hot the girl is there is a guy out there tired of her shit
awardwin (1 month ago)
RED FLAG: She has a vagina
Alison Brown (1 month ago)
How about the deluded man.you are not attractive.
mrk_ smrf (1 month ago)
yes it's also obnoxious explaing I'm not compatible w you we don't have the same values and the person is still so infatuated they can't even see that there sitting their criticizing or spoon feeding manipulan to change or control my personality. like he said just being oblivious in the relationship because you make them feel good, and your status for them, I feel used. he said something important watch ppls subconscious cues and I'm adding external relationships, people will tell you more about themselves and play it off like a quark. you can relate so.eones behaviors to even the most simple behaviors, they have a messy car, they more than likely are messy in other aspects.
Bryon Watkins (1 month ago)
I have a better idea. Just have sex. Use protection of course. But just have FWB’s. Fuck that marriage crap. Been there once, and had three relationships. Here in Vegas, my God. It’s six women, at least with me, and CONFIDENCE is key, per one man. Then there are the free willing tourist ladies, a lot of times, they throw the pussy out!!! Real talk.
Hevaniel Mesquita (1 month ago)
Great advice! This is true! we cannot force a relationship with somenone who don´t have nothing in common with us just for validation.
Iconic Me (1 month ago)
Saw the red flags but since I was so young I believed that because I loved her that it didn't matter. Only when she cheated and left me for a guy that I realized that the red flags are very important.
George Mulligan (1 month ago)
Man tits. Lol
George Mulligan (1 month ago)
You consider yourself an attractive male? Yikes
killerpassword (1 month ago)
Balancing is everything
diamondthecat gacha (1 month ago)
This was a good video

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