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People who are not experts should not give advice! I am a counselor and even we aren't supposed to give advice. Why do you want to fill peoples heads with preconceived notions? How about a video on how to treat a girl you like with compassion and respect. You seem like the friend that gets jealous bc the girl steals your friend away.
+Neon P Lotus my ex husband was a covert narc. I understand exactly what you're saying. Some women are awful, but so are some men. Keep your chin up. 6 years after getting out of that, I'm just now dating a man whom I've known but was just friends with for 4 years. Our mutual friends know us well and support our dating, knowing both of our divorce stories.
+Carrie Geren Scoggins [Official] Actually, this video is probably one of the BEST videos I've seen that Feminists could use to teach women about a sense of self-respect. Every feminist should watch it. Having an internal locus of control is healthy for a woman. Having the same ideas, social groups, political values and ethics is healthy. Finding compatibility with a partner is crucial in having a meaningful relationship. You don't seek out partners to change them. You meet people who share your goals and ideas and compliment one another.
The man in this video is not saying anything sexist at all. He uses the scenario of a woman meeting up to a man's specifications because he is addressing men who pick crazy women, not women who pick crazy men. However, the same principle applies to crazy men. And forgive me, but you sound like the kind of crazy that feminism tries to prevent. "Your most recent rejection?" How many have you encountered and why?
We are enduring a nutcase like you who feels my (then fiance and now husband) should have to tolerate her stalking efforts because she's a psychopath, in limerence, who feels following him like some panting, horny poodle means she is entitled to him. She saw him, put her sights on him and didn't care if he was involved with another woman, because her narcissism prevents her from having any empathy or compassion for women in general when it comes to seeking a boyfriend. When he tells her he's not interested she says, "Well you aren't married to her." As if that gives her a reason to try to interlope into my relationship. When he tells her "Get lost," she becomes the victim. This bimbo even wanted to send someone to our house to beat me up, because he wouldn't leave me and pursue her.
The idea of immature women that men can't decide what they want for themselves? Ridiculous and sexist! Men are not adult children, they are adults and women who perceive men as "adult children" lack any sense of maturity. But your rant explains clearly why the police are being called on you to keep you away. Keep running with that thought and enjoy being incarcerated. Or, you could put your big girl panties on and act like a mature, respectful woman and demand more for yourself than a lifetime of trying to change men who don't want your help.
As a feminist, your post made me sick. I can only imagine what women would say if a man said, "It's our duty to mold women because women are adult children who can't think for themselves." I'd bitchslap a man who said that to me! The level of disrespect in that? And you feel entitled to say it to men! No wonder the cops keep you away.
My father was an asshole lived his life as an abusive alcoholic very mean and nasty son of a bitch loser dead beat I do not miss him because he stollen money from both from my mother, my sister, and myself. he also stollen jewelry from my mom. marriage can be not exciting or fun anymore but if it is not working out separate from that person. by the way there is another Cattagory of people to avoid that is pawn brokers they are lying assholes. I went to a pawn broker the baseball cards I had been worth a lot of money but the fat bastard said he could give pennies for them. that lying sack of shit cock sucker so not worth it. avoid gambling on line and the casinos because they too are scam businesses.
What if she doesnt have any friends aside from fb guys she barely knows or you never see them? Then reveals shes been sexually abused as a child, raped and sexually assaulted as a young adult, has nothing but a volatile relationship with her parents, hates her father because hes a narcissistic sociopath, is an extreme left feminist that hates men, has literally told you that shes had 50 + sexual partners by the age of 24 the night after you had sex with her on the first date, doesnt ever want to get married or have children, has had an abortion, cant stay living on one place for more than a year, spends herself into a hole and is in 20k of debt, has student loans, hates her job, is constantly depressed and has anxiety, cannot stick to a healthy diet, cannot live an active life style or control her weight. ....Would you say this would be a good long term partner? =D
I usually avoid women who show signs of selfishness and blaming her flaws on others but never herself because that’s a sign of a toxic person and sometimes if you pay close attention toward a person you see the ugliness on the inside rather the outside where in time it shows on the outside of her face. This is what I saw in a girl but put a pause and stop to it before Pursuing a relationship with her.
1st mistake, go to the night club😂?
2nd sounds weird when you mention the option of wanting to line up a number of different girls to sleep with them. Did you mention that there must be etiquette to notify the girls that such crap is the plan? Save the girls the hassle and teach etiquette to men as well. It is disturbing to deal with men that exhibit narcissistic traits (even when they are not).
3rd it works best when the man chases. It is widely known than when girls chase, the guy looses interest. The nice girls always get screwed over the girls that treat you like crap. Is this an incentive to be a nice girl? You tell me...
The thing is any person in the world can adapt to any other person on the world. What people won't ever realize and admit is that it's not really just that they're incompatible with others, it's just that their adaptability is just really low and weak. It does seem like men have a higher tolerance and adaptability with women but women are very weak, they have very low pain tolerance and very low adaptability. People can change as long as it's not too much to do so and if there's reciprocity from the other end.
Never date a women whom you rate as a 9 or a 10. Why, you may ask ? That's because there will be a line of guys after them all of the time, and they will constantly be comparing you to their line of guys. Bad news, and big red flag. 9s or 10s are fine for a weekend or a one night stand, but trying to have a LTR or a marriage with them can only end in disaster !
Women with temper issues and/or have violent times with you, are the biggest red flags. The first time they do this should be the last ! Don't accept their sorry. If they did it once they will do it again, especially if you let them get away with it !!!
I spot the crazy ones real fast and do a summersault the fuck away from their proximity, it’s the sly ones acting shy n loyal but on the low low with 100 other guys without me knowing that mess me up every time....
My ex-husband used to show his passive agressive disdain towards waiters and waitresses and mumble no tip at the end of the meal. I should have taken this as a clue with 20/20 hindsight. I'm 42 now, but 15, 20 years ago I didn't know better but to just be overly gracious towards them and smile so they didn't feel like crap.. unfortunately or rather FORTUNATELY nothing but believing Jesus loves me even if no man on Earth can. I can't feel past love for the kids. It's not their fault otherwise.
LMAO.. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's compatible with you... Well duh 😋!
It's cool I have really bad ADHD. Sometimes we all need to be told in a way where when you think about what you did we say oh..oops..
Men are no different than women, they both date and marry "RED FLAGS". No matter how much warning you get people marry "RED flags ". Women are fixers and will always be. They sometimes think that they can fix a "broken man ", because he is "good in bed and he is so tall and good looking". To me men are "tryers". Men will try to do this or try to do that to please a "broken woman". Both man and woman depends on their personality could make it last days months or years. We have so many broken people out there that are professional people in employment and statis that are broken a game of emotions has developed and it is complicated now to find a date or marry someone. A patient person is automatically disqualified. A person that has common sense is automatically disqualified, a person that uses intuition is automatically disqualified. So that leaves the gamers that is willing to play the game both male and female. The people that are patient is the audience or the ( shoulders the gamers cry on when their minds get jacked up and I mean both men and women). Patience beings out true colors Every time no matter what you are dealing with. A calm mind can listen better, see better and make a decision better.
I have had all these red flags at one point or another due to feeling a internal sense of self worthlessness and other personal issues. I felt ashamed and guilt about how I treated the people I dated before. I had take time myself to start from scratch after healing myself and issues. It's not impossible to rid yourself of these flags. It takes A LOT of time, self reflection, Healing and Compassion for yourself. Let's not rule out therapy. Everyone has a bad/dark side but as we grow we realize we have to learn to manage those emotions for ourselves. Love ourselves and grow to have better relationships. Not easy at all but totally worth it :)! I'm on the other side and now see how lots of people have not healed and just affecting other people around us but it's the willingness to change and grow that makes the difference.
Don't agree believing in astrology is a red flag. Too generic. As we all don't rely on it as an excuse.
I've dealt with plenty of women with these qualities, i dropped em and half of em still try but don't actually try they just try to get me to notice them with dull conversations or send me memes. All in attempt to get me to chase and lust over them again. Since i've learned to control lust at a early age it was easy for me to drop these chicks because aside from sex and looking cute, half of these women today aren't interesting otherwise and are very boring, i honestly rather stay single , too much headaches and confusion
I heard of a family friend who was the guy when dating hot chicks, he liked his women, but married a very simple plain looking girl. I am not the type who likes to judge or speculate but I think it's worth a thought why he may do that!
If a woman has any more than 2 sexual partners and at least one of them
was casual, she is damaged and the more sexual partners a woman has the
more damaged she is emotionally and the harder it will be for her to
pair bond, the more likely she will cheat and or initiate divorce when
she gets bored. The pattern of behavior will have been established, so
she isn't worth a man investing much time or resources in. Facts are
facts. Add to that female hypergamy, monkey branching, and women riding
the CC and what decent man wants that woman long term, no valuable man.
Feminism baloney and Cosmo bull crap has done the most harm to women and
their chances for true happiness. Case in point, with all of this so
called women's freedom, sexual and otherwise, why are women the most
unhappy they have ever been? Add to that the vast number of women on
anti depressants because of massive emotional baggage due to not being
able to have normal relationships because of the damage feminist
propaganda women buy in to and many women past the wall end up living
with cats. Ahhh and now the light comes on...Tinder THOTs and plowed
out whores have no value to a valuable man except to pump and dump while
trying to avoid STDs which most of these bitches have. Hard pass.
BLAMING, LIES,DRAMA,AL THESE APPLY To MEn AS WELL AS WOMEN. SO IF YOUR A GAY MAN ETC... MEN DATING MEN THESE VALUES APPLY TOO. SOCIAL GROUPS VARY. THE RED FLAGS ARE ALSO WITH MEN WHO GO OUT JUST TO GET A PIECE OF ASS. USING PEOPLE...
That's the problem right there to begin with......some of y'all are concentration on dating these lunatics when you should straight be fucking them then kicking them to the curb. If a women starts acting crazy just walk away IMMEDIATELY
Listen to Phil Collins - Easy Lover is all about it. :)
When I was a kid I barely knew what lover means so I understood the song diametrically wrong. Then I grew up, had my own experiences and learnt English.
God this song and others from Phil talks to me so badly. It grows wisedom. This really sums up the point stated here that it's not because she's hot she's compatible. And as the good point I read in the comments because she's hot she thinks she is entitled for anything. I'd go even further: Many are not hot yet behave like they were. There's nothing wrong with feeling well in your skin but at that level that's unhealthy. Now to me if you want to see the red flags and if you want to evaluate the consistency of it, it won't happen overnight. Obvious? Still there are people losing their minds after the first seconds they got interest.
Western women have been utterly ruined by feminism.
With thier feminist indoctrinated narcissistic minds Western women who can hardly cook a healthy meal from scratch or clean a house sit complaining in a comfortable chair in an airconditioned or heated environment made by men, in factories, designed, built and run by men. They use a computer invented and programmed by men, built in a factory by men, using electricity discovered by men, transported on a national grid of power lines that were planned and engineered, maintained and made by men, using electricity generated using methods invented by men, in power stations built by and run by men.
They use the Internet, which uses protocols invented by men, transmitted over cables laid by men, in an international network invented, planned, and made by men. They are fuelled by food that was the result of farms and agriculture planned and created by men, delivered to them by global food networks and transport systems invented and built by men. They are diagnosed and healed from sickness by scientific methods and medicines in hospitals invented and built by men, They live in houses that were invented, planned and built by men, They are entertained by programmes transmitted globally by signal technologies that are beamed directly onto large large and small viewing screens invented and built by men, They are kept warm or cool by technologies invented and built by men, in cities with roads, bridges, shopping malls, hospitals and other infrastructure planned and built by men.
They drink clean water piped into their houses by a national network planned and built by men, from reservoirs and treatment plants that were planned, built and run by men. They are protected by laws invented by men, and enforced by men who risk their lives every day to protect citizens, their property and protect their country.
Women enjoy the benefits of everything men discovered, invented, created, built and maintain and are treated equally (by law) and allowed to do anything they wish in the society men created, even if lives are put at risk by allowing women to join by lowering mens higher standards for entry into the military/police and fire services.
And yet there are so many western women who are so privileged and devoid of hardship that they spend their time constantly complaining that all of this is not enough for them, that men should be ashamed, that men have too much in this society that they made, and that men need to give even more to women because they are entitled to it just because they were born a women...and emaculated men agree to it.
Take away everything that men have done, and western feminist indoctrinated women would be sitting in the cold rain outside without anything to eat until a man comes along and offers them shelter, food, warmth and security.
Western women are self-entitled fat ass deluded state weaponised thots who routinely steal hard working, faithful honest mens children, wealth and livelyhoods and plunge men into abject poverty or even worse suicide by divorce raping them at a whim with no fault divorce. Western women also wrongly think they are equal to or are superior to men.
What sane man would go anywhere near poisonous parasites like that just for access to poon. its bizarre behaviour for any right thinking man yet these deluded women who bring absolutely nothing to a relationship still complain...
"where have all the good men gone".
Why is that?? Maybe he was telling them things and his actions weren"t matching. I. E. I had an ex ask me to help him get rid of people always hanging out at his pad. So I cleaned house and behind my back he was all talking shit and acting like it was cool for them to be there. Im not saying there arent psycho bitches but i think the majority of the time the guy triggers it.
Hi Duke.. Brilliant ideas and Advice! I'm impressed. All that you spoke of, I simply turned it around, and noticed that us woman can use this exact same advice for the opposite sex... DON"T Date Men with these Red Flags! It works perfectly! FYI my last partner had most of these red flags. Ouch! The thought still bites. I can't believe I stuck around, giving him the benefit of the doubt, endless times though I spotted these ugly traits within the first couple of dates. Never again will I ignore my instinct nor disregard my perfect observations of human behaviour. Bravo to you again Duke. Love your advice.
Always stay on the attack I used to go to this good old boy bar down by the beach this old guy walked out of there with these two hot chicks into his arms getting a ride home to his wife he looks over at me son always stay on the attack lead by example take no s*** keep your composure and compatibility is definitely the key word over and out
My dating days are over but I got to tell you that chick giving the camera the middle finger fuking classic . Too funny yeah I got a super hot chick nowadays I'm just bored watching different stuff on YouTube seems to be some solid advice though
There's a definite way of "Fixing" these type of problems with problem women and relationships ; NEXT (It WORKS) !!!!! It continues to amaze me how many men can be SO absolutely hung up on just ONE woman , thinking that "SHE'S the ONLY one for Me"" !!!!! There's HOW many BILLION Beautiful Available Women on this PLANET ???!!!!! The idea of a "Soulmate" is Absolute and Utter BULLSHIT , it's a MYTH that was created BY Women that DOESN'T Exist !!!!!
If someone is beautiful, don't let it be a Marilyn Monroe situation, get to love her personality and wit first. If you haven't, and just assumed she was an airhead, then you were the one being cruel and abusive mentally. As far as her being negative about relationships, first see if she was surrounded by assholes. Ask her what she liked about good relationships she saw before.
Yes, many women have been trained to withhold sex when bad behavior is displayed, but being expected to give sex after bad behavior is abusive as well. Make-Up Sex is great, but beating her and expecting sex right after is a Neanderthal level move.
A woman should expect good things from a man, so calling a woman entitled for that is a mistake. Most women will leave when neglected or treated shitty, unless she has been trained to be a people pleaser.
Smothering a man is stupid, but some men smother too, then find a girlfriend when they want something small changed up.
Providing for a woman should make you proud, not lose attraction for her. A man is stronger, is paid more, and has more job opportunities, so to shirk that duty says everyone should be paid well so no one will starve so you can act like a child.
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