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The Attractive Man (7 months ago)
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happygoluky2 (29 days ago)
Your giving advice to people and your picking up chicks in night clubs. Lol that’s your problem. Pick chicks up in grad school, Museums church. You don’t go to a night club and expect a quality person. Water seeks it’s own level my friend. If you are attracting low quality people you probably need to fix yourself before jumping into a relationship.
Edward Wilson (2 months ago)
Carrie Geren Scoggins [Official] why people ( and i mean you) have to bring the topic of religion into everything? Point blank fact... ready? God didn't creare man Man created God to control people Digest the truth
Steve A (2 months ago)
The Attractive Man I would forget dating any girl that you don’t want to be a long term life partner. You can get a gorgeous beautiful sexy lingerie wearing young hooker/call girl here in uk or just £40. No grief no mood swings no moody miserable remarks well worth it. Better than some self entitled selfish munter that expects the world but offers nothing not even regular sex. I’ve enjoyed many of these sexy warm girls when I’ve been single and they are cheaper than buying some miserable ungrateful munter a meal in any restaurant. Guys need to wake up to this and forget the jealous society that tries to wane you away from this, All the girls I’ve had love what they do and actually like an enjoy sex :)))
Underground Wes (2 months ago)
Neon P Lotus well said
Underground Wes (2 months ago)
The Attractive Man I've been seeing some of those red flags in my woman to be honest.
prototype9000 (19 minutes ago)
It's like listening to a woman give advice
JOE KING (6 hours ago)
6 MONTHS OF MISERY! WTF it's been 20 years for me!
patsilvia (6 hours ago)
For the 5th, while we kept eyes wide open to observe, a woman can play victims that help masking what we are probing. Make sense?
Eric Svoboda (9 hours ago)
Another one is you end up overlooking the fact that you do most of the talking. Even if she likes you it's like one word answers or never asking about you. If you feel like you are interviewing her you're going to get tired of it. Even if the little she says is sweet it should be a two way street
ikonic monster 7 (10 hours ago)
So according to this video I would actually be the perfect candidate for dating cuz I don't do any of these and I will say that the way that a girl talks about her ex it depends on how that guy was so you're going to Doc points on her because she was in a shity relationship and she views her ex as a piece of s*** like probably guys that are taking this advice from you we all know guys who take advice from people like you are just looking for some you no fun nothing serious every woman is different but you think we're not you think we can all be lured with your trap well only the cheap floozies will be lured by b******* like this nice generalization though can you do one on 5 red flags for seeing if a man is toxic but you probably won't do that because your for the dude and you don't want to make other dudes look bad most men date idiots just saying they go for her looks and assume that she's perfect well girls who are actually decent or women I should say or decent get ignored
Simona Leugner (13 hours ago)
Same goes the other way 😂
Rand0m411 (14 hours ago)
Get Brad Pitt to tell me about red flags not the guy that 'maybe' gets parking lot pickings at 2am on a Sunday night.
Berserker Nick (16 hours ago)
Missed red flag: if she has a penis run away
Edward Perez (1 day ago)
Johnny So Porno?
salahhe Sali (1 day ago)
I don't think the attractive men team needs external representation.
A Trusted Servant (1 day ago)
Glad I kept an open mind. This actually works vice versa. These are "dating red flags" for both😉👍
David Dalton (1 day ago)
Like this group has much choice.
kaneda956 (1 day ago)
Just forget dating.. Save your money, get a boat.. Worked for me lol
ranndino (1 day ago)
Man, that was depressing to watch. My current girlfriend that I'm trying to break up with because I recognized that she's nuts myself hits all 6 and some big time (like power games) and my ex of 6 years is probably batting 5 for 6. I need some old gypsy woman to be a match maker for me because apparently I really suck at this. I'm too damn nice and calm which you'd think would be a good thing but it attracts women like this. They see a victim ready to be molded to their specifications. Then after a while it turns out that I have my own pretty strong opinions about things and boy, does that piss them off!
Jameson 87 (1 day ago)
"Girls" is right. You didn't say anything about women.
Mayra Duran (1 day ago)
This video is about 1/2 of a possible couple (women). In order to be balanced and fair, do a video on the red flags men give off that women should be attentive of. I am sure there are plenty of men that fit the negative criteria you have described as female “red flags”. The world is full of unhappy manipulative people (men and women)and dating exposes your vulnerabilities to judgments. Dating is a process and not for the faint hearted.
Pepe Deez Nutz (2 days ago)
Bitches are crazy. Save your money an only do anal. ❌Search YouTube for Red Man group❌
Daniel Pascoe (2 days ago)
You just described All American Women. They are garbage.
HighRider90 (2 days ago)
I attract number 5 so many times it's ridiculous. I think I've given up on dating for now but let's hope not. All I know is I ain't chasing anymore.
Aaron Irby (2 days ago)
Or...you could save a lot of time by lying to her by telling her a fake name. Airbnb a place to take her to. Bang her out there and then disappear. This saved me from chicks showing up on my door step trying to move into my place. As I dug further into these random encounters lives I find that they're still living with their parents and they're in their 30's.
ψυχασθενης (3 days ago)
these "flags" are not only for women but for men too,but especialy the power game oh man you never asked enough women to tell you what an abusive man looks like and how he gets unoticed untill its too late,a worthy try in this video but nothing new or more specific about women
G Ang (3 days ago)
Dont date any ... To stay away from the fucking crazy
THIS IS Snar (3 days ago)
Thats why women look for rich man, 'cause they have much money and ideas to solve problems without saying she's damaged 😭
Problem is every single person BELIEVES we're meant to be in monogimous relationships. We're all meant to be in each relationship for as long as the "honeymoon period" lasts, and then move on.
James Bradley (4 days ago)
Never date a woman who was married for twenty plus years and then divorced. The woman always treats you or compares you to her ex husband. It gets old quick.
Philosophy BA (4 days ago)
Theyre either ugly or theyre c*nts
Jan Samohýl (4 days ago)
Don't date a woman with a red flag - find someone from Russia or China.
mike ryan (4 days ago)
Um, why are these also donnie trump traits? The above stuff...plus.. Unable to care about personal responsibility..'any wins I should get credit for, losses are someone else's fault.' Jr. high nicknames for everyone. Using so much brain space to keep track of anyone who ever dissed you, so you can 'fight back' later. And, of course, exaggerating and flat out lying like we have never seen before. Every single situation must be about 'me.' Just being a big baby. But, donnie is not as bad as... a real american adult human who buys the crap he sells and voted for him. A poor little orange guy who never held any office before. Would you hire for yourself a swimming coach who had never been in water? donnie is so funny to watch. The world's only orange 72-year-old baby.
Matthew Smazal (4 days ago)
Good video. Wish id have had enough common sense to listen to advice like this before i got married.
Dave Ahem (4 days ago)
Overall, pretty good stuff.
Daniel Stans (4 days ago)
Simple avoid any girls on the cock carousel, single mothers and low IQ.
John Smith (5 days ago)
Maybe it’s more about the women that are WILLING to date anymore. Smart, capable women are no longer dating. They see no need for men in their lives. Only the needy, brainwashed twits look for relationships with men.
PyramidHead138 (5 days ago)
"Just because shes hot doesnt mean shes compatible with you." a lesson I learned twice in high school and beyond
DolFan316 (5 days ago)
#6 Oh dear lord yes! And the worst part is, women are conditioned to think this way now. They're seen as betraying The Sisterhood if they don't.
DolFan316 (5 days ago)
#3 describes *all* women under 35. And at least half over that age.
DolFan316 (5 days ago)
#1 describes around 95% of women today. And men too, for that matter.
DolFan316 (5 days ago)
I would say going to bars and clubs looking for a woman to be in a serious relationship with is the first mistake right off the bat.
Randy Randy (5 days ago)
Its really simple if she’s not virgin she’s not worth passion sacrifice love and respect
Micah Armour (5 days ago)
This was a great video
gpsmithsmith0 (5 days ago)
I wish I would have known these things earlier-good video
Lonely Forever (6 days ago)
So my mistake is that I found my ex with multiple fb accounts with 100% prof that they were hers I ended a psycho guy who accused her with all these accounts while I made sure to prove to her that these accounts are 100% billion are hers.... I'm going to get a mental treatment cya guys
Cal L (6 days ago)
The qualities all happen on a spectrum, everyone has elements of these. Some qualities can be detrimental in one domain but helpful in others. If you are going to invest in people, work with them - as long as they are not too broken in the first place. If they are too broken... move on. It’s not your job to fix what you didn’t break.
Cyrus O Jones (6 days ago)
What about spiritual compatibility
Gordon Wilkinson (6 days ago)
Buhdah knows about slangin puh??? What?
Sylvie Haddad (6 days ago)
Lol. I’m married to someone who is the opposite of me. It’s love. Love people!!!! Love makes the world go around. It’s won’t burn off if it’s love. And respect. RESPECT !!! I love my husband forever
Nance (6 days ago)
Wow. That was a lot more insight than I was prepared for. I have to admit to a few of these behaviours and it's really opened my eyes. Truth though it doesn't come from a place of malice, rather being hurt in the past and maladaptive behaviours to avoid it again in the future. These red flags are definitely exhibited by all genders though.
Ralph Lopez (7 days ago)
If you want some pussy without all the drama..... Adopt a cat! If you get scratched it is something you did wrong and you deserve it!.... At least that's an honest relationship.... And as far as sex goes invest in buying porn DVD and sex dolls...cheaper than wasting your money on a relationship that's not going to go anywhere
Travis Benge (7 days ago)
Yeah, needed this advise 6 years ago.
cicily landry (7 days ago)
And since when do you gotta date a popular girl that's not dating red flag two fool people talk about you especially women gossip about each other that means THEY tools including family members how ignorant
cicily landry (7 days ago)
Look at this ugly fat pig you can tell he's been rejected way too many times he's the tool this is why men stay single expecting women TO BE PERFECT
George Cruz (7 days ago)
So all those flags you spoke of, Described your typical women. It's better to use the catch and release program. Then those flags never appear because there's not enough time for her to raise them. Never pick up women at the Club.
Fredricko Smithson (8 days ago)
Let's face it they are all fuckin nuts
Perfdog ! (8 days ago)
On the thumb nail it says don’t date girls with these and shows a girl with no tits
Jeffrey Maniebo (9 days ago)
2 years misery
Karen A (10 days ago)
Red flag ladies. He said sexually compatible. That is women's big mistake. Don't give it up! They are not married to you. They have no right to your most precious commodity. If they really love you, they will put a ring on it, and then you don't have to go thru all of the b.s. they are puttin in these ignorant videos.
Dean (11 days ago)
Hey man...Good video. You need help with your green screen keying. Contact me...I'll give you some pointers on the settings
Anarcho Fascist (11 days ago)
Yeah... I'm totally gonna listen to this guy.
Jason Hitch (11 days ago)
You must know my ex wife...
Charith Sam (11 days ago)
basically avoid all feminists and SJW lol
CarbiesChronicles (11 days ago)
all women are batshit crazy... stay single and enjoy your life...
Equillizer Armtwister (11 days ago)
If she not into you, GOOD. Let them chase and get your attention.
Equillizer Armtwister (11 days ago)
Whats the purpose of dating he asks ??? So you can take her put pay and then get stood up or pissed off. Something I gave up decades ago. Go to a singles night and women give no attention, walking around like they have carrot up their arse. If they want you, make them fucking earn it. I cant put in any simpler.
Raquib25 (12 days ago)
Dope vid
matt gordon (12 days ago)
I find that most women are bitches. Especially, younger ones. No manners or respect at all! Always looking for what's on the outside. Even when the good looking guys are dicks, and always cheat! They will find another one, only getting the same results.
MLogical (12 days ago)
puppy eyes <3
Donna Knudson (12 days ago)
He mentioned in the beginning of the video about being sexually compatible as one of the things you need to know before going to far into the relationship. Even though he didn't talk about it during the meat of the video, the fact that he mentioned it as an aspect is something I would like to address. I would strongly recommend not having sex until you are sure of all the things he spoke about. Once you have sex you have completely blended all aspects of yourselves together. Even if you as a man are able have sex without that complete blending, most women are not built that way. So either both of you have bonded or she has bonded at this point. If you haven't yet found out if you are compatible then one or both of you are more likely to be more deeply hurt when you two part. The other thing that can happen is that sex can be the final bonding that brings you to the "place of no return" that he writes about in the description section, which is the thing he is trying to keep people from getting mired in. Being that we don't live anymore in a society which encourages not having sex before marriage, and being that men are the ones with more testosterone it is often up to the woman to put the brakes on if sex starts to happen too soon. Women are also instinctively more vulnerable at this point on many levels, but if she doesn't recognise or chooses to ignore that instinct then often sex will happen. If you, as men, are willing to hold off on sex and speak early on about the advantages of waiting until you are both sure it is my opinion that both people will be happier in the long run whether or not you two choose to be with each other. Another thing to keep in mind is that many women think, sometimes even unconsciously, that if she does not have sex early on that the man will go away. You should be aware of that. She may not tell you she has that fear. She may not even give any indication of that fear, but it's a valid fear because sometimes that is just what happens. The man might not even be aware that he isn't being completely honest with himself about that either . So for a woman, the only way to truly be sure is to hold off and wait and see. If you, as a man, bring it up first she will probably hold you in very high esteem for that. Of course I'm not speaking for all women, but I believe I am speaking for a lot, if not most, of them. There is probably a reason why so many cultures held off having sex until marriage. Most people today are not willing to do that (myself included-but sometimes I wish I had), but I think if you look at the reasons I gave to at least wait until you are sure of each other that things will be a lot more simple and have a better outcome either way. Just a thought....
Gilly (12 days ago)
What is wrong with this world? A fat hairy guy giving tips on youtube how to get women, and procedes to call himself the attractive man...good god!
Igor Bukový (12 days ago)
Multiple gfs? Real man is looking only for 1!
ajt222 (12 days ago)
Ugly bastard.
Cindy XOLucy (12 days ago)
Very good info. (Goes both ways, as well)
1 Cruzita (12 days ago)
night clubs are cesspool for psychos 😂
Faminz Horse (13 days ago)
Umber one mistake- don’t meet people at the nightclub. All you’re going to find at the nightclub are immature people because nightclubs are for immature unfocused people.
Tim Christie (13 days ago)
I'm confused now more than ever thank you but ah no thanks.....I'm a little slow some of the words you used I can't even spell
INIT-2 WINIT (13 days ago)
BLAH BLAH BLAH BORING
This guy... Is hilarious... And lucky if be get a date... With a woman... Haha
TheScorpioQueen (13 days ago)
Not to mention if you're having to go to the internet to try to figure out how to get a date maybe its not the women maybe it's you that you need to work on
TheScorpioQueen (13 days ago)
If you have to watch this video to get a date stay away from me we're not compatible I don't date weirdos
Tricia Gardner (13 days ago)
what happens when your wife is all of these,and you have kids with her.
Mugabe Bakulu (13 days ago)
A wise old man told me women are like children.
Byron Welichko (14 days ago)
Always ask her about her father. If he’s in her life good if not, say you have to use the bathroom and walk away.
Hugo Stiglitz (14 days ago)
My balls would be compatible with your chubby chin, if you get ny drift.
Hack Prine (14 days ago)
Of course not.... when a man is in that condition he is the last to know she is fucked up..........
Stephen Anderson (14 days ago)
Dude! Where the hell were you twenty years ago? I needed you help back in the 80's (did I say twenty? Try thirty years ago).
Thot Bot (14 days ago)
Is this advice applicable for lesbians as well?
Mike Petersen (14 days ago)
GET TO THE POINT!!!
Nathan Taylor (15 days ago)
I've always said" if a pretty woman is single, beware!
X files (15 days ago)
Just dont Be in a relationship
Gabriel Rodriguez (15 days ago)
Great point and spot on! So I have high standards when it comes to women, yes looks does a play a role but men i need to be upfront with you guys. People will get old, don't expect her for her to look young and sexy forever. There are a ton of good women who will be loyal and good to you for the rest of your life but unfortunately her beauty won't last forever. It's up to you if you want to stick by her.
misscottencandy15 (15 days ago)
1. Doesn't take responsibility, blames the world. 2. Her friends are wack. She's wack. 3. Entitlement, demands to always get her way. 4. Personality incompatibility in general. 5. Bad track in relationships. Bad communication. 6. Power games. Controlling competitive. Tips: 1. Look at consistency. 2. Call her out and question. If you're someone who dates men, these red flags and tips apply. when dating men as well.
YourEnlightenedFriend (15 days ago)
Thank You!
Ron Strzelecki (15 days ago)
Confucious say man don't know what to do, so sick of wife he rather master bait have solution in hand -
Lola Alexander (15 days ago)
Okay so... text me. I'm officially single and you are clearly emotionally perfect. <3
Family Phone (16 days ago)
There is only one kind of women I would never date. It's the ones that can beat my ass!
libtards suck (16 days ago)
U mean 98 percent of them
Blue7 (17 days ago)
Hmmmmmmmmmm 🤔🤔🤔
The Attractive Man (16 days ago)
Thanks for watching!
Gregory Kosins (17 days ago)
Turn off list: Implants; tattoo; skin whitening; hair dye; obesity; smoking; impolite dress; liberal politics; feminist.
Thomas Alanis (13 days ago)
Agreed. Add sci-fi hair colors to that list.
KDingo81 (17 days ago)
I kinda admire my parents/grandparents, they had to deal with far less shit to get into a relationship. And despite all crap that happened they worked it out and in the end showed clearly it was worth it. Odds are nowadays rather bad, so relationships are something you may get into but the question is why do you even want to. You can have nearly all your desires/needs fulfilled without a relationship, sex on demand, getting attention and confirmation on social media. And no matter how great you are at something you will always have to compete with this. The biggest red flag that exist is womens need for attention/confirmation... it is a fucking annoyance at times. If i talk to her/are on a date with her and she needs to check on her phone, probably even multiple times i am done with her. Call me old school, but i like the old times where there was no social media and no smartphones. When you meet people to have some quality chat/time in general and just used the phone to make out when and where. This constant need to look on a 5"+ screen to stay "up to date" is uglier then having a chick take a dump on your pillow before you had sex (note: if this is your fetish i am not judging you, go for it then).
Kofi Benton (17 days ago)
Women who are chosen for looks expect things to stay that way. Stop choosing looks as the baseline. Let looks be the tagline. Hell even the footnote, but not the whole "she-bang". Same with woman who date for a wallet.
You have amazingly gorgeous eyes.
The Attractive Man (16 days ago)
Thanks for the comment!

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