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What Should I Text First?

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Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to properly handle texting & messaging to build anticipation, mystery and attraction so you can set dates women want to keep. If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCW3Man Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3 You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version: http://bit.ly/CCWMY Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version: https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version: https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo Here is the link to purchase Official Coach Corey Wayne branded merchandise (T-Shirts, Mugs, etc.): https://teespring.com/stores/coach-corey-wayne Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne
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Text Comments (104)
Cassian (1 month ago)
"Fat people everywhere." HAHAHA!
Aphex Twin (2 months ago)
He makes it sound so easy. The thing is, it’s pretty simple
heavenly vibes (2 months ago)
Ur fuckn awsome lol
Sam Wagner (3 months ago)
This story with the girl is directly from his book
Clyde Kimsey (4 months ago)
Nowadays, many women won't answer the phone but will only respond to texts to talk. in fact, if they say "call me" they really mean text.
g b (5 months ago)
Thanks for your advice . You have made a lot of people very happy with their future relationship . Thanks again.
Zerborstian (5 months ago)
Sooo basically don't text her at all, just call her and make a date. Got it.
G. Lee Ferguson (6 months ago)
Fat Fat Fat Everywhere I Look. So disgusting FAT WHORES
Hallo, i get 10 top 10 phone numbers in a week so to say and it goes in black on the next day. Calling, texting just for setting the date.just very Small text comvo before. Wtf? Help. It happens more at the night and bars. Help!
I mean: how girls think here? Of course some one works but what about the ones giving number for nothing?
Justin Dillard (7 months ago)
“Well I don’t know you”
Justin Dillard (7 months ago)
I do all of this. But excuses I always get is “we’ll let’s get to know each other first” meaning they wanna just text first. It’s like women just forget the meaning of meeting in person. ??
SJ (9 months ago)
You still didn’t answer the question, once you get a girls phone number or Instagram, Snapchat… How long do you wait to reach out to them either by phone call or message??
Guilmar Alison (4 days ago)
Read the goddamn book. It's all there
Unverschämt (9 months ago)
LOL he said that sooo often. Just wait a few days, like 3-5.
Jack Nelson (10 months ago)
take a shirtless picture and say heyyy hot stuff
nashzilla1 (10 months ago)
Fat B... people.. everywhere lol
THE BRAVADO SHOW (11 months ago)
Angelopt9 (1 year ago)
Last night, the bartender gave me her business card that had her personal email and website on it but no number. I didn't ask for her contact information, she just gave it to me after she brought up that she was an artist. I'm not sure if I should email her or even try to contact her. I was definitely digging the vibe between us though and she was laughing at all my stupid jokes and would ignore other people at the bar just to continue our conversations. I'm not sure how to proceed. Any advice?
Will O'Toole (1 year ago)
Angelopt9 She's a bartender. She's just trying to get better tips.
Angelopt9 (1 year ago)
I hope you're right about waiting to reply to my email. She hasn't replied to the email and it's been about 4 days now.
Maria Sanchez (1 year ago)
You're welcome. I can only offer a females' perspective from personal experience and also from knowing how my many many female friends act/communicate with men. If she gave you her info without you asking for it i still maintain that is a strong positive sign. She didn't have to do so to get 'rid of you', a much easier and often used technique women use is to mention an 'fake' boyfriend until you get the hint that she's taken. I.e "My bf's favourite drink is so and so" "I'm glad my bf is picking me up after work, I'm too tired to even drive home" "I hate this song, but funnily my bf loves it" etc. This is method is commonly used as it avoids her having to give u any contact info if she isn't interested. She did the opposite and gave it up freely. Also, she may be waiting for some time to lapse before replying as I'm guessing you waited to first contact her. She'll wait at least the same amount of time you made her wait, or if not longer. P.S i agree with what Corey is saying WHEN a guy asks for a girls number, still then, she most likely will go for the easier route and reject by saying "Sorry, i have a bf". Saves us time, and the hassle of ignoring your calls/texts/emails. I hope this was helpful in anyway :)
Angelopt9 (1 year ago)
Thank you for the reply. That is definitely good to hear. I have since tried to contact her through email. I wasn't sure what to ask her but I invited her out to the art museum. She hasn't replied yet and it's been about a day or two since I tried to contact her. I don't want to discredit what you are saying but I do believe that Corey here has said in his book that sometimes women just hand out their info to get rid of a guy since it's easier to just screen their calls and texts then flat out say no to your face. Anyways, it's really no big deal to me if she replies or not. I just wasn't sure how to navigate the situation because I've never had a girl give me her business card before and I'm new to this pick-up artist stuff.
Maria Sanchez (1 year ago)
i am a female just incase the user name doesn't make that obvious. Fact: Girls will not give u any type of contact info like her number or email if she doesn't want you to contact her. She wants u to contact her no doubt about it. Sp do it, she did the hard part by giving u her contact info!!! what else does she need to do to communicate to you that she wants to hear from you? she has given you the biggest sign of all. I am a 31 year old and i have only ever handed out my contact details to one guy without the guy asking and i did so because my interest level was high. Email her since that is your only option (u cant text/call u dont have her number yet). Dont leave it more than a few days either, keep those good vibes and momentum going. good luck.
HypeBrain (1 year ago)
Hahahahaha fat ppl everywhere
Chuck Dalton (1 year ago)
Wilbur Rodriquez, Funny shit!! 😂
Melissa MW19 (1 year ago)
Fat Bottomed Girls you make the rockin world go round
JR Bogard (1 year ago)
You love Houston's bro, lol that's literally 3 blocks from my house.
John Chan (1 year ago)
coach you gave an example of texting a girl "hey it was nice meeting you yesterday, we should go out for a drink" but didnt you say wait a week before texting her?
Justin V. (1 year ago)
John Chan 2 days or 3, think about it she may had other guys texting her after getting her number but you syand out by not texting texting her after 2 days
Patricia Maree (1 year ago)
Confidence is attractive!
G G (1 year ago)
Corey, I'm a woman and id really like to know why you've gotten all these women in the past and you're still not married? do u not wanna get married ever, are u a commitment phobe or have u not met one you want to settle down with?? seems weird you're giving out all this advice and are still technically single...
Micah Hoffman (5 months ago)
Good question, good answer. Let’s keep it going! I’m curious
La Víe En Rose (6 months ago)
(@John Doe) You’re making uninformed assumptions. He explains your misunderstanding of his relationship status in many videos. Or you could read the book if you care about why (@Dan) “Everything” is a hyperbole. Christianity doesn’t promote sex outside of marriage but much of the relationship advice for long, healthy marriage from Corey’s book is biblically relevant (@Blinky) You’re ignorance and worthless prejudice is showing
DJdude250 (8 months ago)
God said to spread your seed and be fruitful so that's what I'm gonna do, dammit
John Doe (1 year ago)
Coach Corey Wayne She has a point but just worded it like a dumb ass. You talk about how successful your relationahips are and how in love girls were with you/ vice versa. But none of them have stuck around?
Rene Reyes (1 year ago)
Jason-RPG (1 year ago)
Melissa MW19 that song isn't talking about fat people, it's a bout girls with big asses
Melissa MW19 (1 year ago)
Get on your bikes and ride!
Fullrusher (1 year ago)
I fucked up on this today , I can't afford the book right now plus super busy , but I can attest this is true as fuck and online dating needs to stop for me lol
charlie kp (1 year ago)
Hahaha that opening line about the fat girls
Jilly Sims (1 year ago)
Fat people at the shopping mall 😂😂😂
Hey coach...you da man
J S (1 year ago)
pics or it didnt happen
Seasonings2taste (1 year ago)
I got a woman's number on pof last night. Because of our schedule, I won't take her out for about 7-10 days. She said that it's fine and we can get to know each other via text. I told her, I don't want to talk via text, because I'll know her without actually meeting her. She actually agreed with me. 😊😊
Joseph Fulton (2 years ago)
cool coach
Temi Abimbola (2 years ago)
OhSameHD (2 years ago)
You are right about what you said at the beginning of the vid. American people are fat because they eat junk food all day and don't exercise whereas us Europeans ( i'm from Paris, France ) eat healthier foods and walk everywhere we go
Alex Saraceno (7 months ago)
I'm an American and I 100% agree.
Red87star (10 months ago)
As an American, I agree. We're terrible overall. Crap food is the cheapest and most heavily marketed. Shame.
John Doe (2 years ago)
"hey, what's your number?" you don't need to text back and forth a bunch, just set up a definite date
Wilbur rodriguez (2 years ago)
He was gonna say "fat fucks everywhere"😂😂
blueshirt06 (2 years ago)
Fat people all over the malls in the US that's true
TheBCSledder (2 years ago)
I got a girl's # who is new to my town for the first time, and told her I'd show her around a ski hill. The hill isn't open for another three weeks probably. What to do now? I'm scared shitless of asking her on a date. Hell, I don't even know what to do with a girl and am terrible at conversation.
Marko (6 months ago)
TheBCSledder So what did you do? lol
Miha 9355 (2 years ago)
I have a question. I was on the bus few days ago, and I saw this hot girl checking me out, great eye contact haha, she exited at the same station as me, so I approached her (this was my first time approaching a girl on the street btw), and I was like "hey, I could not let you walk away without introducing myself", she gave a great respond, I asked few basic questions (name, where is she from) and said "hey, I'm in a rush right now, just give me your number so we can talk" and she did. I sent her a text day after that "hey, I'm the guy who made your day yesterday, add me on facebook" and she responded "Okay, I will" , few days passed but she didn't and I didn't send any more texts after that. She gave me IOI's in person, her respond to my approach was good and she gave me the number right of the bat. So my question is, should I text her something again and what?
michael downing (5 months ago)
Shouldnt have texted her first so soon
Sam Saini (1 year ago)
Why the fuck would you ask her to add you on Facebook? First of all, you should have texted only to set a date, not to get on each other’s social media. 2nd, if she did add you on social media, that takes away from you being the mysterious guy from the bus stop. She will know your whole history from Facebook in 2 minutes. But really though, who works up the courage to straight up ask a girl on the street her phone number only to text her and ask her to add you on Facebook instead of asking her to meet you up? Lol what a fail.
Marcus Spenser (1 year ago)
oskar tang yup his right
oskar tang (2 years ago)
Miha 9355, should have set up a date, not asked her to add you at fb.
Alan Stewart (2 years ago)
where is that girl now? LOL
Thomas Vidauri (10 months ago)
Alan Stewart they broke up because of career differences
schlzber (3 years ago)
You had me at "fat People everywhere".
Lionel Kennedy (10 months ago)
He’s absolutely right. We drive everywhere we go in the U.S. so we tend to be less healthy.
awesley92 (2 years ago)
lol, it looks like he was gonna say fat bitches everywhere but caught himself
Andrew_V13 (3 years ago)
Corey, I just got a phone number from this smoking hot girl. Should I wait a few days and call her? or call her now? I don't want to fuck this up.
Zobek Guerrero (1 year ago)
DeathIsLight he fucked up that's what happened
DeathIsLight (2 years ago)
What happened mang?
Coach Corey Wayne (3 years ago)
+masacre182 take a deep breath, relax and read the book first
aedryk (3 years ago)
When you call for a date and she doesn't answer do you leave a message? Do you hang up and assume she will call back?
Jay Choi (2 years ago)
Аll hоооt girls аarе hеrе => https://twitter.com/9946c567379d5d721/status/801992405775826944 What Shоооuld I Техххt First
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aedryk (3 years ago)
Thanks Corey. I just bought your book, I'm about halfway through it and I'm already seeing a difference in the way women react to me. Great work my man!
Coach Corey Wayne (3 years ago)
+aedryk yes, leave message
Axiomaticness (3 years ago)
I went on a first date with a girl I just met, but she was going away for two weeks on vacation the next day. At the end of the date she said she wants to get together when she gets back. Should I wait for her to get back to contact her or send her a text or something while she's gone?
aedryk (3 years ago)
Just stick to my original advice. If she texts back just say have fun on your trip! Keep in touch.  Then wait till she contacts you. Remember what Corey says about the tennis ball. You send it to her and you wait. Don't throw another ball. In the mean time, stay busy and meet more women.   Good luck bud
Axiomaticness (3 years ago)
+aedryk Thanks for the reply. Unfortunately, I sent her a text and FB request before I saw your message lol. It was 5 days after our date so I thought it was appropriate. Didn't hear back as she is on a road trip with her girlfriends. I am curious to know your thoughts?
aedryk (3 years ago)
+Axiomaticness let it go. She will contact you when she gets back. If not call her about a week after she's home and act like she never left and invite her to a date.
Raevaen Maelaek (3 years ago)
Fat people everywhere lol
Konnect Life (3 years ago)
Some things I like about Coach Corey Wayne, and some things I don't like. But the MAIN THING I can say is that ANY TIME I need an answer to any particular situation, all I have to do is search his name with an exact or related phrase, watch the video, then BAM! Somewhere in the video is the PERFECT, SIMPLE, CLEAR, STRAIGHT TO THE POINT ANSWER/SOLUTION to the situation. It never guarantees the desired overall outcome for an entire date, but it always at least gets you to the next level you're trying to get to from whatever level you are currently at. (Keep in mind that you can only successfully get to a next level if both you and the person you're interested in allows you to.) Example? You meet someone. You want ask them out, but you don't know what to text. Once you get that simple, clear, straight to the point answer, the next level is texting. If you get a response, then the next level is following up... and so on. You may get stuck in how to follow up. I can guarantee there's a vid for that. Many people complain about Dating Gurus / Pick Up / Coaching, etc. However, I learned to keep it simple with advice that's given to me; I "take the best and leave the rest," meaning that I take the advice I like that works with me and my natural personality and just leave the rest, understanding that someone else may benefit from the other content that I may not care for or that I may find unnecessary. Yes, some of the presentation in these types of videos are clean cut, straight forward and good without any punchy hype or blows, and some may seem condescending and "bully/bootcamp-like," but I keep in mind that everything isn't all about me. I know how to take what I like/need and filter out what I personally may not care for (but may work for or may be the best delivery style of content for another viewer who may respond to a particular type of coaching).
Marcus Spenser (1 year ago)
Leon96 , I'm the best metal gear solid player ever
Leon96 (3 years ago)
+LeonSK96 hook up: putting penis in vag or strapon in ass
Leon96 (3 years ago)
it all leads to hang out by asking (easy); have fun by talking to her and going to fun places (medium); hooking up (hard)
Shiv Kris (3 years ago)
man...this guy is awesome.....he is my Guru....
JoeySkate24 (3 years ago)
Same :D
+Ajay Jeev me too bro. He opened my eyes and made me realize how wrong I was about girls LOL :D
Mista Villain (3 years ago)
Fat people everywhereeeee!!! Hahaha
Crazy Player (3 years ago)
6:53 - give her a hug??
Lyle Adams (3 years ago)
Yeah, whats up with that? A handshake would definitely suffice, nothing more, nothing less. That's what's worked for me, and im far from a stallion.
TVinmyEye (4 years ago)
haha you were going to say Fat fucks
danilomcvi (1 year ago)
I thought the same..LOL
Leon96 (3 years ago)
tomiduplex (5 years ago)
I'm living about an hour from Vienna in Brno, Czech Republic, I have the same visual experiences here. The girls are beautiful.
caveman_35seven (2 years ago)
True, but if you have traveled outside of the US, you will see ALOT of differences in the women and people in general. America has got some hot bitches, but we got alot of fuglies too. I think that the girls that could potentially be fatties in other countries walk alot and eat better, making them skinnier, thus making the population of hot girls more.
Delavega Champs (4 years ago)
LMAO depending on the expectations you have there's no unnatractive people in the world! My brother for instance, he fucks even you if you're fool enough.
Delavega Champs (4 years ago)
@Robert Dore Some places moar then others buddy.
Wilton de Grey (6 years ago)
You're damn right the girls look great over here in Europe... ;-) Why do you think I'm here? If you ever want to go to the Oktoberfest in Munich, let me know...;-)
Marko (4 months ago)
Wilton de Grey Theresienwiesen :D
trezum (6 years ago)
Hi Corey Love your work keep it up! Was just thinking that you ware terrible, but you said so yourself hehe Can you link the cat dog video refereed to in this video?

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